First we are all well over the age of 30. I have known these two brothers (fraturnal twins) for a little over 3 years. They are both everything any woman could want and more. I have had a major crush on brother number 1 for quite a while and have expressed my feelings, but he just wants to remain good friends. His brother on the other hand has expressed to me he has strong feelings for me. I don't know if I should start dating brother number 2 if my heart is drawn towards his brother. Do I go ahead and date number 2, take things very slow and hope my heart and mind switch to him? Honestly, they are both super wonderful men. I'm ready to be close to someone again. What do I do???
2007-01-24 02:11:31 · 12 answers · asked by EsteeIsFrench 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has nothing to do with sex, or playing one brother against the other.
2007-01-24 02:18:49 · update #1
Go for the one who shares your feelings mutually. Sure you're for some reason more attracted to the first guy but his brother is just as good if not better and all you have to do is discover that for yourself. Take the risk.
2007-01-24 02:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep them both as friends and nothing more. Don't get guy #2's hopes up because he has feelings for you but the feeling isn't mutual. You'll only end up dating this guy and thinking of his brother which is just wrong. Play it safe and stay friends with both and maybe the 1st one will come around one day.
2007-01-24 10:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find a man that doesn't have a twin that you are really in love with. It goes to show you that the heart loves a person for their personality, which in twins will be diferent even though their looks are the same. I would steer clear of #2 until you honestly develop feelings for him.
2007-01-24 10:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by buggsnme2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may hurt bro #2 especially since you even labeled him #2 I can take that as a sign that he is 2nd choice. The 1st obviously is disappointing you with the friend thing so I would look elsewhere b/c that is too complicated for a romantic involvement with them.
2007-01-24 10:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not. Life is short and brother number 1 doesn't seem interested. Please take your time and don't compare #1 to #2 or you will be let down for sure. Have fun.
2007-01-24 10:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Candy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to stupid rani m...let her go get stds and die!...follow ur heart...im only 15 but ive been in a situation like this...i liked this guy but he didnt like me but his friend did i gave the guy a chance and over time he became the one i like...so i say give him a chance u never know what could happen
2007-01-24 10:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by amber j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if you want a chance of ever being with the one you like you can't be with the other brother. I suggest looking for someone else entirely.
2007-01-24 10:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by glim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take things slow. Things may change either way. You've got a winner in what ever happens.
2007-01-24 10:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by Bigdog 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say go for number two because even if you dont start liking him as much it might make number 1 jealous and want to start dating you.
2007-01-24 10:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by cheerleader for life 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who is a better performer in bed? Try both of them and see who is more skilled in love making.
2007-01-24 10:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋