ever have secret crushes on men? And are they perfectly content with being enfatuated with another man, but they have no intentions of acting on that enfatuation? What say you married women?
2007-01-24 02:17:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes.....yes we do!
2007-01-24 02:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone looks, you would have to be dead not to look! I guess you could say women get crushes sometimes, I myself don't think of it as a crush since I don't know the people that well who I think look attractive. It is more like, "Oh so and so will be there, well at least I will have something nice to look at" is what I think to myself.
I can't speak for others, but I have no intention to act on those feelings though. I am faithful to my husband because I love him and wouldn't want to break his heart by cheating on him. Now if he ever dies, that is a different story, I might be making some phone calls then! ;)
2007-01-24 02:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by gypsyiiiis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a married woman (and a married man for that matter) can have a crush or be infatuated with another man. This other man may hold the same interests as she, actually listen when she speaks, or just be physcally attractive to her. She may even fantasize about being with him when making love to her husband, and still have no intention of acting on her feelings because when it comes down to it, she loves her spouse. That's the difference between loving someone and just 'crushing on' them. You don't want to hurt the one you love.
2007-01-24 02:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by Survivors Ready? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife did at one point. Then (unknown to me at the time) the other guy and I ended up the last two players in a game. She fantasized that we were playing for her, and I was pretty far behind at that point, but I ended up winning. Anyway, fantasy became reality and she lost her crush on him after that. (Women, eh?) I only found out about it a few weeks ago.
2007-01-24 02:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women fantasize about having a good man I mean someone that will just absolutley sweep them off thier feet so i geuss to answer your question i have a secret crush on a fictional man!!!!!!!!!!one that doesnt exist.
2007-01-24 02:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are married you dont have a crush on other men you may think someone is cute or nice looking just as a man would but you dont have a crush and if you did and you acted on it that would be cheating and not good!!!!
2007-01-24 02:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by BlessedMommyof3.. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, married women always have crushes on other men! It's only natural. She will not cheat if she is happily married. You can read the menu and like the options but you really can't order the food...
2007-01-24 02:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by goodgirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow!! Ummm.. I know that before I got married, I dated this guy that I totally fell in love with.. He apparently didn't feel the same way.. :) Sure.. it was hard, even after I was married, but I never thought of being unfaithful to my husband..
I've thought.. "Hmm, I wonder what it would have been like to be with... "But, I would never dream of doing anything to hurt my husband.. As, I wouldn't want him to do the same to me.. :) I love him too much, and he me.. :)
Hope that's what you were looking for.
2007-01-24 02:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by stephanieann31882 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Secret crushes on men are common,and harmless.It adds spice to life.
2007-01-24 02:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman is a woman - married or single. If they had secret crushes b4 marriage, they will have them after.
2007-01-24 02:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that for the most part everyone has those secret crushes. most women wont act on them unless their husband/boy friend gives them a reason to act on it.
2007-01-24 02:23:26 · answer #11 · answered by crystal b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋