I have had the best few months of my life. Met the perfect man, and we are getting married soon. He is great spends time with my family as well as me. Always treats me good takes me out cinema restaurants friends weddings introduces me to all his mates, and of course i no the family really well. He loves my opinion 2 and asks me what i want etc. He really is perfect, we get on well have loads in common most importantly me makes me smile and i do to which is why we are getting married.
We even spent new years 2gether and told me and showed me how much he loves me.
However i cant it that im so jealous when we see this particular women.They work 2gther once a week. My man loves 2 go out of his way & help ppl but i jus dont like it wen he helps her esp when see was moving.
I met her and she is nice and attractive however she is getting married 2 her boyfriend soon. But why do i have this jealously feeling?I dont like it.I do trust him. Im 24 and he is 26, this women is 27! help
2007-01-24 02:22:35 · 39 answers · asked by aarti 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just get a weird vibe from her. That's ok. What's not ok is obsessing over it. If your bf isn't giving you any reasons to make you jealous, stop. You can't stop someone from cheating or from anyone fliriting with your man, it happens. You just have to trust him and trust in the fact that if this girl did try anything, he'd turn her down. Focus on your upcoming wedding and building your life with your guy. Don't worry about something that might happen. You'll constantly live in fear and usually, the thing you fear the most will happen because you obsess over it.
2007-01-24 02:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural for women to be jealous were scared that someone can come and ruin everything we have so we have a huge line of defense and even though you love and trust your man you feel slightly threaten by her, talk to him about it not in a upset or nagging aproach either just say it makes you feel a little uncomfortable and your dealing with it the best you can but if he could help you and reassure you than you would be a little more @ ease. Once your official and married the jealousy will die down a little more you just compeltely happy right now and want NOTHING to interupt that! everything will be ok!
2007-01-24 02:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup - jealousy is a natural emotion but I really think you have nothing to worry about in your case. Your fiance sounds pretty perfect!!
Instead of viewing this woman as a threat - why dont you become her friend - you're both getting married around the same time - why not compare ideas for the big day etc?
By doing this Im sure you'll realise that she has really is no threat to you and your fiance will be delighted that you're making an efforr to get on with his friends.
xx
2007-01-24 02:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you envy this woman for some reason , maybe you wish you looked like her ?
you can't and none of us can see ourselves as others see us , you may well be much more attractive than her but you just don't know it , maybe you actually fancy her deep down and the jealousy you feel is towards your husband because he is with her and not you ?
but sometimes it is possible to pick up on some sort of very relaxed comfort that might exist between two people who have at some time in the past shared the intimacy of lovemaking . but even if this were true i believe given your happiness and her up and coming wedding that some things are best left unsaid .
2007-01-24 02:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm not an expert but i think i can help. Yes you are! Your man sounds perfect (no wonder this women at work wants his attention) You are probally just getting paranoid with you wedding soon -it's natural (congrats btw) It seem clear that u r the apple of his eye so why wud he want and OLDER women! Just relax he's all yours- but if it would make you feel better talk to him! He would be flattered i'm sure and he would understand. Hope the wedding goes well- Good Luck xxx
2007-01-24 02:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Sofi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot help what you feel but since you are so in love with him and he with you PLEASE try to hide what you feel for this person. Different if you had reason to worry then could speak nicely to him about it but he seems to have a wonderful, helpful nature and showing your anger of jealousy won't necessary drive him away immediately but it must make him think about the personality of the person he is in love with. If the shoe was on the other foot and you knew you were doing nothing wrong what would you think of him acting angry or jealous? Wouldn't doubts start to creep in?
2007-01-24 02:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All girls get jealous once in there life, if he hasn't gave you a reason not to trust him then don't worry about it. It sounds like you got your self a man that every woman wants to screw that up by something as stupid as jealously!! Good luck.
2007-01-24 02:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mallory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure u r gong to be jealous , his a great guy and u don't want to lose him , but keep in mind if he loves u and u love him don't ruin it by over reacting to some woman ( who's getting married) trust him live happy and don't stress so much , I'll only push him away , not every guy who's nice to people esp girls is gong to leave u from another girl , relax and enjoy ur life !
2007-01-24 02:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not stupid give it some time
you will see what goes on down at 9
if you met the right or the wrong kind
will stand witness infront of your eyes
you should realise is he tellin you truth or the lies
he is on earth or floatin in the sky
does he love you or 27
since your younger his hunger
for heaven is becomin stronger
than legand has stored
go get you man before he gets a hoe
or you can sit back n watch it slow
you dont need to sit back you need to go
n find someone who will wanna find you
2007-01-24 03:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by THUG LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feelings of jealousy are perfectly natural; you see this woman as a potential threat. I do have to say you need to watch it with the jealousy and perhaps voice your concerns in a calm, adult manner. He's a guy.... speak his language. No yelling, simple dialogue is the ticket. You are not being stupid..... just overly cautious
2007-01-24 02:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by moon_weaver713 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋