2007-01-24 02:15:03 · 19 answers · asked by katie-pie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most jealousy comes from insecurity. so once you have come to the conclusion that she wont leave you because of the love and understanding you give her . and to know no matter how bad you want her that if she dose decide to go you must let her willingly.
so if you can toughen up their is no need for insecurity that leads to jealousy.
2007-01-24 02:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by swamp d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible and preferred to NOT GET JEALOUS.
Jealousy is a negative emotion and it doesn't feel good... However it is a natural feeling that is always triggered by some action from someone else.. either your partner or another person towards your partner and your partners reaction to that.
e.g. someone hitting on them and how they handle it.
You must clearly define weather your jealousy is warranted or not.
That is, sometimes your expectations of how your partner should act is just unrealistic... If that's the case, be mature and just don't go there, it's all in your little head.
On the other hand, some people intentionally do stuff to make their partners jealous and that means (to them) that they really care... they use it as a measuring tool... Personally, I think this is a very immature thing to do.. why would you want to cause negative emotions for your partner???? When I run across this, I just walk away.. I don't have time to deal with immature issues, and this won't be the only one.
So again, it is possible to not subject yourself to jealousy either internally or externally; you just have to be aware and confront the reason(s) your jealousy is being "triggered".
2007-01-24 11:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is part of human nature. In the course of a relationship, jealousy will come into play, even if minor. It doesn't necessarily have to be over another person, it may be over attention given to an object or even animal. Anything that you may percieve as getting more attention or being placed before you can generate those type of feelings. It's up to you to recognize and control it before it consumes more of you than it should.
2007-01-24 10:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
after you have had your heart broken a few times you will learn never to commit 100%. Then when you don't care so much it's ok if she leaves because you always suspected it would happen. This also means that she could kiss some guy in front of you and you wouldn't care because it now means you are free to do anything you want in front of her. No caring, no jealousy.
2007-01-24 10:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not impossible. If you have a strong bond and you trust in the strength of your relationship you shouldn't have a problem with jealousy.
2007-01-24 10:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not impossible but there's nothing wrong with (mild) jealousy. It shows you care. Massive jealousy on the other hand could ruin your relationship
2007-01-24 10:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by glim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about someone then you should get jealous, if you dont love that person then you just dont wont, and remember that you shoul control your jealousy, women like a litle bit of it, but hate posesive guys
2007-01-24 11:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by katherinep20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is "impossible."
Jealousy is human nature. But if you have "insane" jealousy, then than ain't a good thing.
2007-01-24 10:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will always get jealous in a relationship. Love is that self fish feeling when you want someone all to your self especially at the beginning of the realtionship.
2007-01-24 10:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets jealous, but the key is to keep it in control. Jealousy is part of loving someone, no one wants to loose what they love.
2007-01-24 10:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by gypsyiiiis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋