If your friend went with one of your ex's that you just broke with.
2007-01-24 02:25:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would first find something else to focus on, something positive, so that you are not left to think about this. I am sorry to hear about this because I’m sure it hurts.
I would make sure not to hold on to any anger, or hurt, and try to forgive and let it go. As for those two (your ex and friend) I would not let them see you hurt or cry. Just be polite if you have to have contact with them, they don’t deserve to see you cry or hurt. They may be trying to hurt you and that may be what they want. As for the “friend” I would just consider her and acquaintance and not share anything personal with her again, and keep her at a distance, but still be nice (but not fake) to her if you see her. Ultimately it would be great if one day she would see what a true friend you are and that she made a HUGE mistake to hurt you. In my heart I’d wish the best for them both…they are probably very miserable people to be so inconsiderate of your feelings. Eventually you’ll have true friends (maybe you do already) and eventually you will have TRUE love with a guy that won’t hurt you.
2007-01-24 02:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by garnet_rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that if you just broke up with this ex of yours and your so called "friend" is already going out with this person then they aren't really to much of a friend in the firstplace. I have to wonder if they didn't have something going on before you parted your way.
2007-01-24 02:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you care you broke up with them it didn't work out take the freedom and find someone you really like whats the big problem if you need to feel mental then go ahead and show people that side
2007-01-24 02:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by sally sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is her "Mr. Right" but he was not yours.
Don't stress over this. This happens with mutual friends in the dating world. Keep a positive attitude and someone new will come along and sweep you off your feet very soon.
2007-01-24 02:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by EsteeIsFrench 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an unwritten rule between friends that you don't date an ex without clearing it with your friend first and is she didn't, she may not be a true friend.
2007-01-24 02:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It did happen to me. I did nothing. And I'm still not saying anything to my so called friend who went out with him.
P.S. You might loose a friend over this...
2007-01-24 02:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by So_Seductive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wish the person well. If they are my ex, I would not care who they are dating as I would be through with them.
2007-01-24 02:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad. I beleive your friends & his friends are off limits, there are to many fish in the sea to be going after ex's.
2007-01-24 03:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by sbratt2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that she is not a good friend cause if she was a good friend she wouldn't go out with my ex. i would stop talking to her.
2007-01-24 02:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by angelica v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wish them well and I wouldn't talk to the friend anymore. It just makes you think they were interested in each other the whole time you dated.
2007-01-24 02:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋