My boyfriend told me I said a co-worker's name that he knows I'm not cheating with but he's still very upset and he said I said his name before in my sleep but I know I'm not a little bit interested in this co-worker. I don't know what to do or say to my boyfriend and he left at 3am and I haven't heard from him yet. I am very much so in love with my boyfriend and I really don't want it to end over this.
2007-01-24 02:21:56 · 21 answers · asked by lovely79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you can't control what you say in your sleep any more than he can control the erection he has in the mornings.
2007-01-24 02:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey! At least you didn't' say another man's name when you were having sex! He's over reacting because he was probably half sleeping when you spoke and for that reason it echoed 10 times louder in his mind than normal. If he can't deal with it now he never will so let him know what you feel about that too. You need to explain to him that you can't worry about little things like this or you'll have to put duck tape over your mouth and it's hard to breath while you sleep with duck tape. Better yet, tell him he's done it before himself. What's he gonna do? Say he didn't? (how would he know for sure?) It's always a little different when the shoes on the other foot.
2007-01-24 02:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by Wisco Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's being silly. How does he know that in your dream you weren't teaching the other guy and Hallie Berry's mom how to dust the Mona Lisa at the Louvre in Paris. That's really unreasonable of him to judge you based on a dream. Even if you were intimate with the other guy in your dream, that still doesn't mean that you have ever even considered it or would not be repulsed by it. Ask him this: when we dream we're being chased by a nasty monster does it mean we want to be chased by a nasty monster? Just show him my answer and tell him that I think that's sweet that he cares for you so much, but we don't dream only about people we care about. I wish that were true, but it's not. Not for ANYONE.
2007-01-24 02:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man did that a few times talking to people women in his sleep etc. All you have to say is it was a dream and that you work with this guy and talk to him during the day. You have no interest in him... make a romantic evening so when he comes home all he sees is you and that you want him.
2007-01-24 02:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try 2 apologize 2 him again and tell him that ur co-worker gets on ur nerves at work and that he is a pain in ur u know what so u have nightmares about him. Tell ur b/f that it wasn't a good dream it was a bad one. GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-24 02:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you he will come back and you must let him know how you feel. It is a pity you can not remember the dream, maybe you were discussing work related issues in your dream. I just hope he was not just making an excuse to go and see someone. Good luck
2007-01-24 02:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Joker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isn't at all fair for him to do, we can't help what we say in our sleep, it's impulsive just as dreams are. If he's going to act immature then le him have his tantrum and then explain that you have no interest in your co-worker.
2007-01-24 02:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's understandable for your boyfriend to be somewhat upset that you would say another man's name in your sleep, but if he can't get over it and cool down in a reasonable amount of time, he's over-reacting and probably too jealous.
2007-01-24 02:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by momof9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are going to have to talk this one out. He is upset because he really cares/loves you. Just tell him that you love him and just were talking in your sleep. We're only human. If he can't forgive you, he might not deserve you babe!
2007-01-24 02:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sh*t..girl, that is really bad. hope he realizes u love him and that is just cause u see the guy everyday. Freud said that dreams have to do not only with the unconscious but with day issues too. explain that to him.
2007-01-24 02:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by disco ball 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋