Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

I would like to know your opnion abuot this question, as I have to prepare an article abuot this at school. I would appreaciate, if you could add reasons why do you think so.
Thank you so much for your help! :)

2007-01-23 03:42:38 · 14 answers · asked by Justas Z 1 in Friends

I dated this guy about three years ago when i was just out of high school. I was young and in love head over heels. For him but at the time he wanted to see other people and didn't want anything serious.

Now after three years he wants a second chance with me and says that he has always love me.

2007-01-23 03:42:36 · 14 answers · asked by heather_honey_2002hs 4 in Singles & Dating

I met this man at a friends party a few months ago and he was nice and cute.....I was interested.
I found him on myspace recently and sent him a message saying "hello."
I noticed he had his profile set to "In a relationship"

Anyway I wrote; " I wanted to meet you for dinner next month when I come into your town but I see you are taken so forget that."

He wrote back, "What? Now I cannot meet you for dinner?"

He basically is acknowledging he has a g/f and he knows I'm interested in him.

Should I write back and invite him to dinner, or just forget it because he is taken and this will lead to something bad??

2007-01-23 03:42:17 · 6 answers · asked by *Lovely* 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend, for 3 years... since i was 13. i'm now 16.
But recently ive had uncontrolable feelings for someone else. i love my boyfriend SO SO much. do you ever get the feeling that no-one understand how much you can love someone? well, i do. We've grown up together. ive been with him through some pretty harsh times. i mean.. he was my first time, thats a big thing to me. But ive never had the thrill of being with someone else. And suddenly i really really want it. And ive got really close with another boy. two years older. He tells me how mad he is about me, and how amazing we could be together ALL the time. And he's one of those people that i can just talk to for hours and never run out of things to say. i feel so bad for liking him. But i also find it really really hard to just stop talking 2 him... and beleive me, ive tried. he makes me feel good. he flatters me...
How can i sort this mess out?? please help!?

2007-01-23 03:42:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If someone you were in a relationship with wanted you to have a three some with them, not because you were not enough but because it would feel good what would you think?

2007-01-23 03:41:03 · 16 answers · asked by countryplaces27 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and my boyfriend is 24, we have been together for 2 years and moved to a different state on our own, and have our own place. He is my absolute best friend, we talk about anything and everything, we do everything together. We have talked about our own goals and dreams and we both want many of the same things. We have talked marriage and I am SOO excited if/when he does decide to propose. But part of me is kind of scared too, how can I be sure he is the one? Can I be sure? Is it normal to have some doubts (I really don't want to say 'doubts' I guess I just mean...is it normal to have some questions of whether he is the right one for the rest of my life)? How did you feel before you got married or engaged? What was your relationship like? Thanks in advance for everyone's advice

2007-01-23 03:40:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-23 03:39:15 · 14 answers · asked by N/A 2 in Singles & Dating

will you consider him as a cheater?

2007-01-23 03:39:11 · 17 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Singles & Dating

i love her but i dont trust her, but i do trust her....i dont know. what's going on? she says she's not cheating on me, i belive her but then again......she could be.i dont have a fear of relationships. i have been hurt before. i think she could be the one. so what the *** is wrong wit me???? this is so frustrating. how would you deal with it if you believd your partner wsnt cheatn on u but evrythng they did seemed 2 suggest otherwise...by the way I"M IN LOVE. she says she's not but there's no way of telling unless i caught her doin it. please...how should i deal with this situation. i want to be with her, i mean i don't want to break up with her, so what can i do about this without ending our relationship?

2007-01-23 03:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by IisIam 3 in Singles & Dating

Say u r in the club, dancing a really sexy song thigh to thigh but you feel his wallet and keys against you, does that bother you, or u rather feel that instead of his hard on?

2007-01-23 03:39:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Most of the time they are in know of their respective interests in me. This is creating awkward situations. What should be done?

2007-01-23 03:38:19 · 5 answers · asked by sarfarosh_06 1 in Friends

My son-inlaw, after the divorce proceedings was ordered by the court to pay child support and provide insurance for his two children, he was ordered to pay until his son, now 22yrs. old finish College. My grandson lives with me, my daughter passed away 10/16/2006. The kids father was in the arrears of $7.452.42, this money is due to his kids, he has had the case closed and moved my granddaughter with him to another city. His son is here and going to College, he will graduate in May.

2007-01-23 03:38:17 · 8 answers · asked by Ms. Personality 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday my partner was eagerly wanting to know at what time I was going to be getting out of the office today, I thought hey it is his day off he is probably planning nice little lunch/dinner for us. Well no it turns out that he is planning to have all of his co-workers for a “volleyball game at our place” and a cook out I told him that I might be getting out early and will be going to the gym instead of joining them. I don’t know why this bothers me so much! I am so upset I need some advice pronto! I think what gets me is the fact that a couple of years back he was very jealous of me having friendships with guys that I have completely dropped them and now I feel lonely while he is having nice quality time with his large group of friends.

2007-01-23 03:37:53 · 17 answers · asked by Just ME 2 in Singles & Dating

The other day I found out there was some juicy gossip which none of my friends had told me about. It was about something one of my friends "did" with a guy. The secret was the identity of this guy. My other friends told me that she didnt want me to know so they couldn't tell me. I was fine with this coz they are closer to her than I am but then I found out that just about everyone on the planet knew except me. So I confronted my friend coz I felt left out and she told me who it was. Turns out it was a guy who I sit next to in class and who i thought was a good friend of mine yet he told everyone except me coz he said I can't keep a secret which first of all isnt true and secondly everyone already knew so who was I going to tell??Also I found out the happy couple had decided to single someone out of the group for some reason by not telling them this and they chose me.I felt really betrayed and want revenge on both of them. What can I do that isnt too extreme but still rewarding?! thanks

2007-01-23 03:37:06 · 39 answers · asked by sarapindity 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine has been living with her boyfriend for 15 years. They meet the PA criteria for Common Law Marriage. They live in a house in her name only, which she is paying for. He drinks heavily, does not work (has not worked for over 5 years), and has lately started becoming very mean and borderline abusive. She has decided that she wants to either "force" him into rehab or just end things. He will not agree to get sober and she knows she cannot make him. But she has no idea how to end things with him. She has told him she wants to end it. But he will not leave. How can she legally pursue getting him out of her life without losing half of her house and everything she owns (remember, he has nothing. He is a freeloader) or turning this into an ugly situation where he gets violent and causes her additonal grief. Or is there any way she can force him to get sober?? I have no idea what to tell her.
Any help would be greatly appreciated. Serious answers only, please.

2007-01-23 03:35:38 · 5 answers · asked by ShellyLynn 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What do people think of them?? Do people think they are a joke, or do they think they are real?

2007-01-23 03:35:25 · 16 answers · asked by Lili 2 in Singles & Dating

Yes you heard me... It's not as easy as it sounds to get back out there on the meat market. Not to mention dangerous. Not knowing who or what might be out there. I don't get out much and I don't go to bars. How do I meet single mature men who r not creeps? Please don't tell me church...

2007-01-23 03:35:14 · 14 answers · asked by Tweeker Geeker 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I'm 19 years old and I have this HUGE crush on my friend I've known him for two years now, and we're simply just friends.
He's 15 years older than me, and I sorta want to be more than friends with him, the problem is that I'm not sure if he has the same feelings. He does flatter me sometimes and such stuff..........but I don't know
we don't meet a lot, but we talk online very often. I just don't know what I should do to make a 'move', like what should I do, ask him for a date? lol
what would you do if you were in my shoes?

One more thing, I feel sometimes that he likes me more than a friend and wants to take our relationship to the next level but he's just afraid that I might reject him because he's older or something.

Do I sound like a 13 year old who wants to go out with one of her class mates? LOL

2007-01-23 03:34:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Take a moment and think about this.

When is the right time to tell your mate you have herpes?

How long from the time you know that they are interested?

What if you really really want to just hit it and quit it...do you tell them?

Even with all this info out about the disease..are people still reacting devistating?

I AM NOT A BOT! Serious replies please.

2007-01-23 03:33:39 · 11 answers · asked by Peek@u 2 in Singles & Dating

Im like 6'1 10 or 15 pounds overweight girls saiys that i got a nice butt and have black hair dark brown eyes im hairy but a shave my facial hair,armpits and pubic hair and im also a funny guy i got great sense of humor





so do girls like guys like me?

2007-01-23 03:33:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has been with 4 women previously before me and I am soo jealous. I know it's in the past and I shouldn't worry about it, but I still do. I had never had sex with any guy before I was with him, so I guess that's why it bothers me so bad. It doesn't effect our sex life, but there are times when we are fighting that I spit out something mean and evil about his past. For instance, the other night we were arguing because he hasn't wanted to *** in me (i was off of bc) but I told him that it never mattered to him before b/c he did with other girls without a condom or with them on pills. Please help!

2007-01-23 03:32:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would you do if your boyfriend said that he loves you and his mother tells you to break up with you and he quit talking to you

2007-01-23 03:32:33 · 8 answers · asked by mon 1 in Singles & Dating

They are teens, girl 15, boy 17. I have been with their dad for 7 yrs and married 2 yrs. They live with us every other week. They talk to their mom like she is their slave. She does anything they want her to, including lying for them.
Their father has rules, but is very loving to them.
The problem is how they treat me when he is not around.
Disrespectful, rude, and downright mean sometimes.
Then when their father is around they act nice. Their Dad is aware of it but can't do much if he isn't there. I have tried to confront them but they argue and deny. I feel sorry for their mother when they are with her, but feel she created this mess. I don't know if I should get tough, or just avoid them. Any ideas?

2007-01-23 03:32:31 · 10 answers · asked by Ellyn 5 in Family

2007-01-23 03:32:24 · 2 answers · asked by Rita A 1 in Singles & Dating

As far as i knw my current boyfriend is sweet he loves me he does everthing i ask, he never does and thing wrong but i've been told dating him is spoiling my reputation. He could be bad or something for all i know. Is this coz i dont want to see the bad. My rep means alot to me as i am vey popular. i was also put off wen he told me his ex tried to kill herself wen he dumped her. wat if she comes after me. i dont want to be in this relationship anymore but i cant hurt him. He diidnt do anything to deserve it. Help

2007-01-23 03:32:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 03:31:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and this guy dated for 2 yrs.we both have our flaws,no one's perfect after all.he mentioned marriage, but i wasn't quite ready to settle down.after that, i dumped him over the phone and refused to see him for 5 months.he told everyone that i was "the one" (his parents and friends and mutual friends)and was a wreck,or so i heard from mutual friends.after the 5 months,i decided to see him again.we dated for a bit,but i have this nasty habit of "breaking up" with him whenever i get really pssed during an argument(he's sensitive and would cry).i guess it was my strange way of getting back at him for making me mad or something (we would get back together a day later).so one time i "dumped" him, but this time he refused to get back together.he started a relationship a girl.during this time,i tried my hardest to get him back and realized what i'd lost.after that girl dumped him(lasted a month),he came back to me.now,we don't fight.but i can't help but feeling like 2nd best next to his ex.

2007-01-23 03:31:07 · 14 answers · asked by stelze 1 in Singles & Dating

It's not just about how big you are but i just hated the fact that he was nagging about how big he was and how much girls want him because of it and his looks....he looks fine as heck but he just cant work it in bed and i did all the work and i was not pleased so i dumped him...was i wrong??

2007-01-23 03:31:05 · 28 answers · asked by sexsired 4 in Singles & Dating

I am happily married for 11 years, but I have a gut instint I'm not sure exactly what's going on. I talked with my husband about it and he keeps trying to reassure me that everythign is great, but for some reason I still feel something is wrong. I created another email account and emailed him. I just did it and for some reason I feel I shouldn't do it that's setting him up and I want to go and delete it before he see's it. Maybe I am afraid of what might happen, I guess I'm not sure.

I know he's on websites looking at porn. We watch porn together, but I feel that watching it without me is a form of cheating. Am I parnoid or just following an instint.

2007-01-23 03:28:32 · 27 answers · asked by sbratt2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well, i'm just recently getting over my exboyfriend, and well i found all of our old messegages today in my sent box in my email and i cant seem to get over him. he cared for me, but i miss him so much. help!!

2007-01-23 03:28:21 · 8 answers · asked by Baby Raychel 2 in Singles & Dating