I have a boyfriend, for 3 years... since i was 13. i'm now 16.
But recently ive had uncontrolable feelings for someone else. i love my boyfriend SO SO much. do you ever get the feeling that no-one understand how much you can love someone? well, i do. We've grown up together. ive been with him through some pretty harsh times. i mean.. he was my first time, thats a big thing to me. But ive never had the thrill of being with someone else. And suddenly i really really want it. And ive got really close with another boy. two years older. He tells me how mad he is about me, and how amazing we could be together ALL the time. And he's one of those people that i can just talk to for hours and never run out of things to say. i feel so bad for liking him. But i also find it really really hard to just stop talking 2 him... and beleive me, ive tried. he makes me feel good. he flatters me...
How can i sort this mess out?? please help!?
2007-01-23 03:42:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a big decision to make.
You are only 16! You haven't experienced life and to tie yourself down to one guy at such an early age is so wrong to do, you're setting the both of you up for disaster cuz one or both of you will end up cheating - guaranteed!
You should sit down with your man and let him know how you're feeling.
2007-01-23 03:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young, you have no real commitments. This is a time to explore and find out more about what you want. You probably feel the way you do about your present boyfriend because you haven't experienced anyone else. I would suggest dating other people...I thought my first G/F was the only one for me, but if I were still with her, I wouldn't of met others that were also amazing!
2007-01-23 12:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by John D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times will you ask this question? As many times as possible until someone tells you what you want to hear? Fine, here's it goes... leave your current boyfriend for this older boy who flatters you. Then find out first hand what it's like to get thrown to the curb once he goes away for college, gets a new life, sees that there are other girls out there, so on and so forth. Karma is a killer, youngin' but it seems you have already made your mind up.
2007-01-24 10:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a "mong"? NO, I never get the feeling that no one UNDERSTANDS how much I can love someone. You can sort your own mess out, and not end up a "mong" in love I guess.
2007-01-23 11:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by WMD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋