Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

My first semester of college, right out of High School..i met a boy who became my friend instantly. I admitted I liked him after he decided the first time he wanted to leave me over dumb drama. Well, i told him what i needed to say..so i could let it go..and well he came back. Not with the same feelings, although he did admit of "our connection" that myself found also. Time went on..and yes, we bickered..but we would just laugh it off with our group of friends as "we fight like we are married". Well near the 3rd month, we sort of admitted we both had feelings for eachother..in a way that made me realize I cant live without him. We talked about dating, but I'm afraid of it changing things for the worse. So i insisted that we stay friends and see what becomes of the future. We carried on normally, but he started to change after that point. He would have his "explosions" then come whining back..5 times. i told him we needed a break, he got upset..then turned it around on me. Its been 1m.

2007-01-23 03:54:02 · 4 answers · asked by almost an avril 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 03:52:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

im pregnant and not sure who the father is, it could be one of 4 guys including my ex boyfriend and his dad. the thing is one of these guys i had a one night stand with and hes loaded, so should i just tell him its his so i can be better provided for? he doesnt know about the others. opinions please

2007-01-23 03:52:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

And she turns on the water works, and cries those bitter tears does he feel sorry and let his anger go, or does he become even more angry, because he cannot deal, or handle her out poured emotion...my man lets go of his anger the minute he sees my tears.....just curious....to see your woman in tears does it make you let go of your anger or does it drive you up the wall even more? how do you handle it?

2007-01-23 03:52:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm always bothered by my b/f online activity. Like these scanks that leave comments on his myspace account. I always question him about what they wrote when it seems sexual and personal.

Is that wrong?

2007-01-23 03:50:53 · 14 answers · asked by Taffina_Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 03:50:49 · 13 answers · asked by Buttercup 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, well me and this guy like eachother and we talk on i.m. ALOT, i mean we tell eachother everything, but we havnt had a one-on-one convo. I mean whenever we see eachother we always say hi. He told me that hes just shy and never really knows what to say, and i told him i feel the same way. So what what should we/ i do??

2007-01-23 03:50:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which do you like?

2007-01-23 03:50:37 · 15 answers · asked by Ema Nova 4 in Singles & Dating

Hello, world. Ii have found my long lost friend. Of course, you
already know that. But this is even better. On Saturday, I wrote
her an email, telling her how I felt. And that I had a gift for her,
to be given on Valentines Day. As soon as I wrote that, she
sent me a message. And responded well. Not only that , but
she changed her profile instantly on a website, to single
status. And even copied some of my words, like have fun.
You only live once, and the phrase, a decent somebody".
I am loooking for somebody decent. A secret message perhaps..
Do you think I influenced her, my friend, to just leave the
relationship ? Just by me being in the picture I mean. She said
her boyfriend was psycho, and the breakup was bad. And she
ditched, the guy just like that. What do you think ?

2007-01-23 03:50:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 03:49:47 · 3 answers · asked by crazy_in_water 1 in Singles & Dating

What kind of circumstances or environments would help someone fess up easier to a big lie they've been burying for years?

2007-01-23 03:49:34 · 18 answers · asked by maybe this will help-Harvey Milk 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it bad if a guy wont climax?
I've started seeing this girl that i'm starting to really fall for. We've had sex twice, but i haven't managed to climax. She's really good. And keeps trying to make me ***, but i can't seem to.
I guess it's better than ejaculating real fast. But what's going on! She was pretty down about it. Asked me why I wont ***. And thought she wasn't good enough. But she's the best i've ever been with. Is this a massive turn off for her? She said to me i'm too strong and smiled. I don't know what this means in *womanese*

Any help and replies on this would be great.

2007-01-23 03:49:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i had been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years am 20 and she's 19 years old.it all started a few weeks before christmas my dad dint like my girlfriend to much and told me that i needed to dump her else i cant live with him anymore. so i told my dad to stick it am 20 years old not 14.. so i moved out and moved to my m8's house.then i told my gf that she needed to change the way she was and not just spend time watching tv everyday except weekends wen she wud go shopping.i just wanted her to get a hobbie thats it so we ended there and then..now i want her back so bad but she wont text or answer my calls at all i know she still loves me but she says we cant get back together and that we can only be MSN mate's lol.but its not just that her dad has taken controlle i know her to well and shes a loving person then 1 day i got the police ringing me saying i need to leave her alone else i will be arrested...am joining the army soon and i told her ill be back to marry her after the trainin

2007-01-23 03:49:26 · 5 answers · asked by Scott B 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine is live each day as if its your last

2007-01-23 03:48:29 · 64 answers · asked by Nemo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i love the shock and attention i get when women get to see all of me... im addicted to showing off my body to women... is that wrong?

2007-01-23 03:48:10 · 5 answers · asked by verryblessed 1 in Singles & Dating

A young man and his date were parked on a back road some distance from town. They were about to have sex when the girl stopped.
"I really should have mentioned this earlier, but I'm actually a hooker and I charge $20 for sex." The man reluctantly paid her, and they did their thing.
After a cigarette, the man just sat in the driver's seat looking out the window. "Why aren't we going anywhere?" asked the girl.
"Well, I should have mentioned this before, but I'm actually a taxi driver, and the fare back to town is $25..."

2007-01-23 03:47:47 · 4 answers · asked by c_o_e_u_s 2 in Singles & Dating

Here goes, we have no children, but have a nice life with each other. We are actually friends. The deal though is that she had an affair that I found out about last March with a guy we will call Paul. He is above her at her job and he is married with three kids, one being close to my wife's age. He is older than the two of us by a decade. Well she wanted a divorce and I begged her no, so we went to counseling; she came back home and things were great! I changed a lot, because I really wasn't meeting her needs before. Life was GRAND and she had no complaints. Well just found out a week or so ago that her and this same guy were talking again. I also found out that they had sex the first time around. Well, I told my wife a divorce was necessary, but she has BEGGED me back this time. She told me she was serious this time about changing her life and going to church and we need to renew our vows. She got her cell # changed and added detailed billing but I am still undecided.

2007-01-23 03:47:12 · 39 answers · asked by livinginoxford2009 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance watches alot of porn aswell. We are in a long distance relationship and even when we r together he asks if we can watch it together. I have heard about those people addicted to porn and his case isnt that bad. I think he just thinks those girls r hot so i feel intimidated by it. I feel that i have to act like a porn star in bed to satisfy him which can be fun but its over done. Does he watch it cuz the girls are hot, new positions???? help

2007-01-23 03:46:40 · 8 answers · asked by Angelina A 2 in Singles & Dating

as you all already know my gf and i broke up a couple months ago...well she got into another relationship and all that......then last night she started messagein me on msn....i asked her how her relationship was goin and stuff and she said she broke up with him bc she wasnt ready for another relationship and everything..she told me that she missed and loved me to much and that she was just datin him to try and get over me...and she didnt.......so what do i do now?.......i still love her with all my heart and i can tell it when i herad her voice last night......so please someone give me advice

2007-01-23 03:46:26 · 8 answers · asked by chris h 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this one guy that goes to my school.. everytime i turn around hes there.. were ever i go he seems to be there.. but theres one thing....all those times hes always around girls! i try to ignore the fact that hes always around girls.. but i cant! is it just me or i sound JELOUS? I dont know what to think anymore!

2007-01-23 03:45:50 · 15 answers · asked by love isn't everything! 1 in Singles & Dating

When a couple gets married the first year is said to be the hardest. What do men find so hard about it?

2007-01-23 03:45:49 · 7 answers · asked by sally 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What should i do to get her off my back??

2007-01-23 03:45:27 · 28 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-23 03:44:59 · 15 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Friends

2007-01-23 03:44:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sunday I was supposed to go out with my girlfreind too see some of her freinds however I'd spent all week partying and going out, + I was sort of grumbly cause one of my best freinds has left for California (I live in France) so I decided to stay at home cause I was tired. Since then she won't talk to me. Am I a jerk, or is she sort of overeacting? Anyone know what I should do?

2007-01-23 03:43:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean they get wrinkles and old and have that baby and marriage fever.

2007-01-23 03:43:45 · 13 answers · asked by bigboobsucker 1 in Singles & Dating

I am really sick of living this loney life my husband goes out once or twice a week drinking at the sports bar or gambling at the track. When he is home we fight about him going out I have tried to compromise and say hey tell me in advanced so i wont have to flip a coin on whether your coming home or not. this has been going on for 6 yrs and we have an eight year old son Do you have any ideas?

2007-01-23 03:43:34 · 28 answers · asked by lucyQ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 03:43:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel as if I will have nothing to talk about with the male who asked me out. That makes me nervous. What do you talk about in your first date with someone?

I am very afraid of the silent moments! How can I carry on the conversation?

PLEASE HELP!

2007-01-23 03:42:57 · 10 answers · asked by sj 1 in Singles & Dating

who wouldnt mind having a boyfriend who's never kissed had sex or did anything with a girl at the age of 20?

2007-01-23 03:42:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating