my fiance watches alot of porn aswell. We are in a long distance relationship and even when we r together he asks if we can watch it together. I have heard about those people addicted to porn and his case isnt that bad. I think he just thinks those girls r hot so i feel intimidated by it. I feel that i have to act like a porn star in bed to satisfy him which can be fun but its over done. Does he watch it cuz the girls are hot, new positions???? help
2007-01-23 03:46:40 · 8 answers · asked by Angelina A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband on occasion will pop in a porn DVD or video just to get aroused by the ACTS and not the trashy looking actresses, (although some do look sexy).
Don't take it personal. Just be glad he's not out there with a live trashy prostitute or whore.
2007-01-23 03:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why he watches it, but I know I watch it and my boyfriend watches it because it is something that usually doesn't happen in real life. It is erotic and equal to a fantasy. I don't feel like I have to be or act like the women in the porns, perhaps because I am comfortable with my own abilities.
2007-01-23 11:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he has an unhealthy fantasy of sex and intimacy. Porn is just like watching the animal planet chanel or discovery when the animals are doing their thing.
This is not healthy and if you are going to marry him, this issue needs to be resolved before you say I do.
2007-01-23 11:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I have been married for 16 years now and i don't see anything wrong when your better half watches porn.
Besides i would much Rather for him to do that then him go out and get the real thing. Just go with the flow and everything will be fine.
2007-01-23 11:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by Remona R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had respect for you he would stop. He shouldn't be watching that cr@p and you shouldn't be ok with it. It's degrading, disrespectful and makes men see women as sex objects. Get a new man
2007-01-23 11:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by xquis81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you ought to watch it with him it might spicen up your sex life.
2007-01-23 11:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by K-E-G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would porn be cheating??? he probably needs release and it is easier with visuals... :D
2007-01-23 11:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES !!! he want's to check out new stuff, maybe for you, maybe not !!
2007-01-23 11:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by Aquarius/Purple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋