I'm always bothered by my b/f online activity. Like these scanks that leave comments on his myspace account. I always question him about what they wrote when it seems sexual and personal.
Is that wrong?
2007-01-23 03:50:53 · 14 answers · asked by Taffina_Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it's not wrong if the comments are very sexual.
Then again he should delete them since he knows it bothers you and you wouldn't have to even see them.
If you do not trust him , then you shouldnt be with him.
2007-01-23 03:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He should be able to ease your mind with an explanation of who these women are and what kind of friend they are, and if they are really his friends he should be willing to introduce you in real life so you can feel better about it. On the other hand, if they are really his friends they should respect your relationship and think about whether they are crossing a line before posting that kind of thing. Then again, maybe he's had psycho ex-girlfriends and now his female friends are testing you to see how you react. For you to automatically label them seems like you are being a bit judgemental, you should just calmly ask your guy for an explanation. If he "always" blows it off without an explanation, he isn't concerned for your feelings so ditch him.
2007-01-23 04:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No of course you have a right to some explanation when these girls are leaving suggestive comments on his myspace (even if they mean nothing by it, its always going to look a bit suspicious).
Does your boyfriend know that it bothers you so much? If not maybe you should tell him.
2007-01-23 03:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Charlotte 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, he might be saying something through messages which aren't publically accessible. Maybe send one of the girls a message and see what she says. It's probably just flirting back and forth, but, you have to be careful cuz some guys will take it to the next step. Also, if he's flirting online then he probably is in person with girls too.
2007-01-23 04:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!! Unless they are from the "Myspace Ho's" why would they be leaving him comments? You have a right to ask questions if you're in a relationship! And, the right to expect to hear ligimate answers!
2007-01-23 03:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by justanotherday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm the EXACT same way, it annoys my hubby. Sorry to say it, but I think we're both insecure and should learn to trust more. We're going to drive our signifigant others around the bend and possibly out of our lives. That said, if you're seeing flirty messages on his myspace page, you'd be nuts not to discuss it. Try to strike the right balance between being assertive and being wacko. Good luck to both of us, eh?
2007-01-23 03:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it is not wrong and he should respect you in not letting this take place for you to see. It has nothing to do with insecurity but surety of assurance to respect you. Also you are not controlling but taking heis sexual preference other places calls for attention.
2007-01-23 03:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would bother me, too. Friends are one thing; these sound like playmates to me. Just ask him why he feels the need to continue to associate with these women. His response will tell you volumes if you listen.
2007-01-23 03:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol no not at all i do exactly the same, at the end of the day we both have to stop thinking our bf are gonna hurt us because if we keep pushing them it might push them.
2007-01-23 03:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by Amy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust him with open eyes, i mean don't believe in him with closed eyes.
but these sort of comments are nothing but little fun.
2007-01-23 03:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋