At what age can a child legally decide for themselves with which parent to reside?

Answer 1

Depends on the state...
But usually 12 years old.

Answer 2

Regardless of what age a child can legally decide which parent to live with, the court/parents also need to take into account which living arrangement is better for the child. Sometimes a child would rather live with one parent when perhaps that parent can't provide as well as the other parent, or perhaps the child would rather live with the parent who can't provide that well, but maybe that parent is more nurturing and can provide better emotionally than the more well-off parent. These things should be taken into consideration. Sometimes kids don't always know what is in their best interests, despite what they desire, simply because they lack the life experience to see the whole picture. Certainly, what they want should be taken into consideration, and if they are of legal age to make their own choice as to what parent they want to live with, that should be taken into account. All factors should be considered as well, however, for the sake of the child.

Answer 3

There really is no magical age to determine a move. Let's face it, if a child wants live with the other parent he/she could make it hell at home for the one who won't allow the move. Don't we really want our child to be happy? After all, the children don't ask their parents to separate/divorce.

Answer 4

I decided (the first time) at about 10. But in most states, they usually let you have a say at 12-ish.

Answer 5

I know for a fact that it is 12 here in my state . cause when i got my divorce my son was 12 and the judge asked him who he wanted to live with he said his mom naturally since he saw what a jerk dad was and how unreasonable he was being in issues such as house,car what have you . He wanted us to have nothing that included his kids . A real fine piece of work huh?

Answer 6

Depens on the state. But if the child has a lawyer it doesn't matter the child can talk to the judge them self.But usually about 12.I wish you luck with everything. God Bless !!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

It varies a little from state to state and also depends on the type of custody the judge awarded.

Answer 8

In New York State, I'm pretty sure it's 12.

Answer 9

It depends on what your STATE laws are. generally it is between 11 and up. Call your local county courthouse, under domestic relations and ask them that question.

Answer 10

check with your local laws, it varies from state to state. in Indiana, at 12yrs they have to take into account their desires just as they would consider any other piece of evidence, at 14 they take it the child's recommendation. (barring anything unforeseen)