When a couple gets married the first year is said to be the hardest. What do men find so hard about it?
2007-01-23 03:45:49 · 7 answers · asked by sally 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For me it was getting used to not be able to make decisions on the fly as far as what I can do on weekends etc, getting used to having duties at home and the change, for alot of men, of supporting a family.
2007-01-23 03:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact the most women expect immediate changes from the men. When men get married they want everything to stay the same as it was before the wedding. But women, want all the little annoying problems fixed, like not going out with the buddies any more, not looking at other women, doing chores they never had to do before, etc.
2007-01-23 03:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just men. It's hard for both. When people are dating they are both on their best behavior. When they marry many people feel that they don't have to try to be nice anymore.
2007-01-23 07:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that rule only applies to couples who did not live together or share anything at all before they get married... For my husband and I, nothing has changed and it has beed very easy. The other day he told me it was painful...painfully good!!
2007-01-23 03:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea. My first year being married was great!
2007-01-23 03:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loss of freedom (I don't mean fidelity-wise, just in general).
2007-01-23 04:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women... usually trying to change them!!! :D
2007-01-23 03:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋