im pregnant and not sure who the father is, it could be one of 4 guys including my ex boyfriend and his dad. the thing is one of these guys i had a one night stand with and hes loaded, so should i just tell him its his so i can be better provided for? he doesnt know about the others. opinions please
2007-01-23 03:52:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hmmm. Somebody's a..... wait a minute. You're not even worth being called that. You're worse. Tell him it's his, and with any luck, he'll demand a DNA test. Then, when it's proven not to be his, you'll be treateed like the cheap floozie you are.
Just my opinion....
2007-01-23 04:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbell24 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
better provided for? Provide for YOURSELF. You don't need a man to do that for you.
I'd let each of the four know that you are pregnant and it may be theirs. The child and the biological father have the right to know the truth.
Pretending the "loaded" one is the father is in YOUR best interest, not the childs. If you are still looking out for YOU as number one maybe you are not ready to be a parent yourself.
2007-01-23 13:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by heatherlc02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to tell the truth and stop playing games cuz wonder if he's not the father. this is a child we are talking about, tell your ex the truth about everything. and i think that u is very bogus for doing that. but hey that's u. get a DNA test because u'll live ur life better if u know the truth then if u sit there and really don't know
2007-01-23 12:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by •°iiFia1125°• 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At some point the child is going to want to know who his biological father is (wouldn't you?) You have the duty and responsibility to at least find out (through DNA testing) who it is.
Whether or not to sue for child support isn't a question - the guy was ready and willing to party, now its time he pay the piper.
2007-01-23 12:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU WERE THE BABY AND YOU ARE ALL GROWN UP AND SOMETHING HAPPIEN AND YOUR DAD NEEDED YOUR BLOOD AND YOU FIND OUT THAT THIS IS NOT YOUR REAL DAD HOW WOULD YOU FEEL. HAVING A BABY TAKES A LOT OF MONEY YES BUT YOU NEED TO BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND YOU CHILD. AND THE MAN THAT IS THIS BABY DADDY SHOULD HAVE THE CHANCE TO BE THAT. YES AT TIMES IT MAY BE HARD BUT IN THE END YOUR BABY CAN LOOK AT YOU AND KNOW YOU DID EVERYTHING FOR IT AND SO THAT IT COULD HAVE IT'S REAL DADDY. AND YOU DON'T KNOW HE MAYBE THE DADDY. BUT YOU AGAIN HAVE TO THINK WHAT BEST FOR THAT BABY AND LIES AREN'T BECUASE THEY COME BACK AT SOME POINT.
2007-01-23 12:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by lostsoul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. You never never never lie about something as precious as a baby. What if he/she would need something in which they would want a personal backround on the parents. It happens more and more these days with all the new technology. Besides that it's just not fair to your child. God Bless.
2007-01-23 20:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by drfk2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be honest, I couldn't imagine not knowing who the father is, but really you ned to take care of yourself, once the child is born start getting the paternity tests done.
2007-01-23 13:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by Kristol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until the babys born and have a dna test and then request child suppprt from the father if you dont want to be with him. your the dumb one for doing it so dont pin it on him if its not his child.
2007-01-23 13:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by mama92805 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. get a job. would u like 2 bring up ur guys lovers baby....?
2007-01-23 12:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by Laura4864 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is loaded, you can bet he'll demand a DNA test, because you being a gold-digger...
2007-01-23 11:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋