i love her but i dont trust her, but i do trust her....i dont know. what's going on? she says she's not cheating on me, i belive her but then again......she could be.i dont have a fear of relationships. i have been hurt before. i think she could be the one. so what the *** is wrong wit me???? this is so frustrating. how would you deal with it if you believd your partner wsnt cheatn on u but evrythng they did seemed 2 suggest otherwise...by the way I"M IN LOVE. she says she's not but there's no way of telling unless i caught her doin it. please...how should i deal with this situation. i want to be with her, i mean i don't want to break up with her, so what can i do about this without ending our relationship?
2007-01-23 03:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by IisIam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have only felt this way with two girls, each of them i love(she's one of them) but more about her.
2007-01-23 04:31:15 · update #1
there is nothing wrong with you. just being selfish. open-up.
2007-01-23 03:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by kenn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if your girlfriend is cheating or not, but I do know if you don't have trust its not going to work in the long run. If she is she don't care enough about you, and there isn't anything you can do if she is except break-up with her. If she's not you are going to drive her crazy and the jealousy is eventually going to eat away at any feelings both of you have for each other. You don't say if you would be this way about any girl you dated or just her. I would say if its any girl you might want to go see someone to get over your last break-up. If its just this girl I would say either break-up with her or just enjoy the time you have together and if she cheats then deal with it. No sense in borrowing trouble if there is none. If she is not cheating on you she is going to get aggravated assuring you all the time and she is either going to leave you or cheat. I would say also if she is a cheater and your last girlfriend was a cheater maybe you need to pick a different type of girl next time.
2007-01-23 04:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by britches 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could it be you feel this way because of insecurities in yourself? You should try and keep your cool. After all, a true relationship relies on trust and faith in the other person, otherwise the relationship just breaks down into paranoia. I think you should give her a chance and respect her and beleive that she is not cheating. So what happens if she is? You move on, knowing that you have done nothing wrong and have loads to offer the other girls out there. Dont go looking for evidence on her as you will most probably find nothing and ruin your relationship, meaning you have lost your girl. If worst comes to worst let her know that she is not obligated to be with you and you would rather be dumped than cheated on, and remain mates.
hope this helps.
2007-01-23 03:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by eckzl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrotng with you... i have been in your postition... but I would, if you havent already I would let her know that you have trust issues and that if she has anything that she ever wants to tell you that she can just come to you and know that you two can talk about anything...
that opens her up, and lets her know that you are an okay person to talk to about whatever... she might share things so that you can get the trust back all the way... do you have any REAL evidence of her cheating? just be careful not to make her feel like you dont trust her cuz she will pull back cuz she doesnt know what she did to make you upset and that will do nothing to make you want to trust her...
2007-01-23 03:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sidney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just let go of this mentality that she's cheating or let go of her before you drive her away.
If you really are suspicious of her, then leave her. If you're being suspicious because of a prior relationship that went wrong, that's unfair to the new girl.
If you truly do love this girl and really want to be with her then just try to spend as much time with her as you can, call her, make her feel loved and those feelings of suspicion will fade away.
2007-01-23 03:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a lot of relationships with guys. ANd, believe me when I say I know what you are talking about. Everytime I felt like that, I ended up finding out that my gut feeling was right and they were cheating on me. You might think you know her. You might think she would never do that to you, but you might be wrong. Please be careful. Never underestimate someone else's game plan. You can't get inside her head and she might just be playing you like a dummy.
2007-01-23 04:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by NaNiS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to relax a little. If you trust her then you wouldn't be question her cheating on you, however if you really think she is, then you need to take a step back, have a deep breath or two and try to find evidence to support your conclusion.
2007-01-23 03:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hurted from my ex b.f but i realize that not all the men the same, so new relationship new thoughts... trust on her if u love her, no love with trust.. u must to forget the past and live for the better future
2007-01-23 03:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she was really cheating you would know. You need to relax. If she is showings signs of cheating ask her about them, but not repeatedly. She will get annoyed and leave you.
2007-01-23 03:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by jennifer d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel that way because you have been hurt before and are afraid that it might happen again. if you feel she is the one then lose of those feelings and be happy with her.
good luck and forget the past cause the future is now
2007-01-23 03:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
make up your ******* mind and don't trust that ***** **** her and go get her sister ya the one with the big **** and a nice *** and get laid man that's all you have too do is say **** you and I'm getting ****** by your sister and go suck a dick that you have been sucking and ******* on so go get help you prostitute and stop dealing you're **** and pussy and you're ugly *** on the street i hope i helped you get her sister ya the one with the **** and the *** and the virgin pussy
2007-01-23 03:47:26 · answer #11 · answered by edward 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋