If someone you were in a relationship with wanted you to have a three some with them, not because you were not enough but because it would feel good what would you think?
2007-01-23 03:41:03 · 16 answers · asked by countryplaces27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question is not would you do it, it is do you think he is looking for a long term relationship or just sex?
2007-01-23 03:49:50 · update #1
I have always been the type of person that wants to please or make the person I am with happy even if it makes me feel like ****.
I don't want to keep doing things I really don't want to just to make someone else happy. I agreed to it but told him how it would make me feel and that it would ruin the relationship. And it makes me feel not good enough or that he needs someone other than me to please him. If I can't do it myself then there is a problem but he says that is not it at all. I want to be with him but I do not want to keep doing the things that make me dislike myself and or trust the person I am with.
2007-01-23 04:08:31 · update #2
long term then u will have sex
2007-01-23 03:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should first and foremost be honest with yourself. If you can't live with doing that, then you probably should not do it. To me this does not prove you love him or don't. It says I am sticking up for what I want in a relationship. The man may truly care deeply for you but if he cares so much he would understand why you feel the way you do, especially if you have already talked to him about it. It is not easy when two people don't want the same things in order to make them happy. I would do just about anything for the man I am with but doing something your adamant about not doing is more than going to the EXTREME. It says I don't care about myself so I will let him do anything as long as he will stay with me and that is not good. I have something similar going on and I just hope that by me talking with him he will understand where I am coming from. After all even though I can't comprehend the reasons why he has to do this or wants to I do understand him as a person and respect his wishes, that does not mean I have to be involved physically in the act that he wants to do. I hope it all works out for you.
2007-01-23 13:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by lost angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know some people who do , do that but ask yourself the
question you are asking me you are ready know what it is
you are gonna do but do you feel comfortable doing and will it
sit right with you love is about scarfice but that is EXTREME!!
if you look at the pros and cons it is cheating it affair of heart
and body i mean it literately about sex believe me the
person is gonna to convince that it is only about love, but look
deeper, a relationship is between two people ,who love,and
respect each other and donot take lightly just because it is
a bootie call and what the trust in the relationship,
will you always trust each other without thinking the other is
up to know good. stand up for your own right and self
you don,t want know one to disrespect u and that what it is
and it,s CHEATING!
2007-01-23 11:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by Tella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a normal guy, So I would tell her to bring on her girl friend. Sound like a fun.
2007-01-23 11:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because im not an immature person and i would not date an immature person i would probably think he was just experimenting aslong as he dint do it all the time it wouldnt bother me = and there is nothing rong with experimenting is ther!!! plz get back to me xx
2007-01-23 11:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay threesome to me suggests two girls because i would never do the two boys thing and i would have to really get on my girl id she even suggested it. so i wouldnt care more for me
2007-01-23 11:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by IisIam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like the idea then go for it as long as everyone is okay with it then youll be fine
2007-01-23 11:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No way. Don't even think about it.
2007-01-23 11:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by beautiful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember if you do not try it then you will never know weather you like it or not
2007-01-23 11:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wait, lot of guys just jump in and dont asked question.
2007-01-23 11:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by kenn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋