I need sweet revenge,...any ideas??

Question

The other day I found out there was some juicy gossip which none of my friends had told me about. It was about something one of my friends "did" with a guy. The secret was the identity of this guy. My other friends told me that she didnt want me to know so they couldn't tell me. I was fine with this coz they are closer to her than I am but then I found out that just about everyone on the planet knew except me. So I confronted my friend coz I felt left out and she told me who it was. Turns out it was a guy who I sit next to in class and who i thought was a good friend of mine yet he told everyone except me coz he said I can't keep a secret which first of all isnt true and secondly everyone already knew so who was I going to tell??Also I found out the happy couple had decided to single someone out of the group for some reason by not telling them this and they chose me.I felt really betrayed and want revenge on both of them. What can I do that isnt too extreme but still rewarding?! thanks

okay i know this is long to read, but what bothers me isn't the fact that they didn't tell me at first, but once everyone knew it was no longer a secret. i'm not immature i just feel let down by my friends.

Answer 1

Ignore the whole thing and pretend that you don't care. Apparently they want a rise out of you...so don't give it to them.

Answer 2

Sorry, but revenge over something like this is just kind of immature and silly. I understand you feeling left out, but why try to take revenge over something that they had every right to tell--or not tell--whoever they choose? I think you should just let it go. You did the right thing by confronting your friend and letting her know how you feel, but that should be the end of it. If anything, if you still want to hold a grudge, try keeping your own secrets to yourself and see how they like it. Or better yet, work on becoming the kind of person others can trust with their secrets and who would be OK with a secret not being shared. Chances are it's none of anyone's business anyway. And proving yourself to be more trustworthy might allow people to turn to you when they have a secret that really matters (like abuse or family problems or depression) and they need a friend. As De La Soul said, the payoff's much sweeter than the payback.

Answer 3

Find someone that is not necessary in your class and tell them on some by the way **** that one of those people have a disease or something. Something possibly connected to STD. Thats a bad one. If you cant find someone like that then write it in a bathroom stalls. LOL Word will be out there on a street really quick. Just make sure it dont look like your handwriting. Also if there is a guy who you want sweet revenge for then all you need is his #. Prefferably cell phone. Put an add in news paper that he is a sweet and tender guy who is looking for a rough agressive partner (another male) and he cant wait till someone calls him for a first date so he can get spanked, because he been a bad boy. If you cant do the add thing then try male bathroom walls or side of school. Just as long as you maintain unseen and invisible and like nothign happened noone would ever guess it was you. Keep straight face once you these two people reputation go down in school and have a good laught when you are home. Good luck and let us all know how it went!

Answer 4

I really feel there's nothing to get revenge about here. Unless you were dating this guy, he is perfectly at liberty to do whatever he wants with whomever he wants. That they did not tell you may have more to do with the fact that they suspected you would freak out in the way you're now doing. What I would suggest is to tell them--calmly, rationally and in a mature manner--that you feel hurt that they would leave you out in such a way. If they tell you the reason why they haven't clued you in before now, do not explode all over them, but respect it as an honest opinion and, yes, learn from it so in the future you can be included and will not need to get "revenge."

Answer 5

I'm not too good in the revenge department cause I always go too far but there is a book called, "Getting Even" and you can find a lot of ways to do just that and there's also a lot of funny things to do to people in it. One of my favorites is putting a sign on the back of the marks (mark is the one you plan of getting revenge on) that says "Harley riders are [the cute word of cats]". Those bikers don't really like that kind of thing. Or a sign that says "I'm gay (ph. #)".

Answer 6

listen sweetheart, the place for snowballs is the school field at lunchtime.
if u don't want this to escalate into something slightly unpleasant i should forget the revenge bit.

just remember u r as cool as u act.
taking revenge isn't really.
walking away takes a lot more courage and would show
how above the original snub u r.

Answer 7

Expand on the rumors about the couple, but make it something really embarrasing and make sure as many people know, except them. Then, you tell your friend, in confidence, what you heard about them because you consider her a good friend and you want her to know what people are saying. Isn't that what friends are for?

Answer 8

I think they did good by not telling you, your in-mature and you can't keep a secret. How about you act like an adult and keep your friends secret and tell her you know but you were hurt that she couldn't share it with you. What you doing now makes everyone RIGHT not to tell you and your proving it!!

Answer 9

Does it matter? It doesn't sound like you had an automatic right to know and it'll all blow over in a couple of days. If you try to get revenge you could jeopardise a good friendship.

Answer 10

Sounds like the storyline for an afternoon soap opera.I 'd give the writers of "the young and the restless" a call .I'm sure they can help.Good luck with that.

Answer 11

All i can say is to wrongs DON'T make a right. If they took it to that leave than move on with your life with out them in it. Who knows why we do some of the things we do, but remember this nobody is perfect.some times we say or do things with out thinking it all the way throu.