Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

I have a sister-in-law who keeps stealing from me and my family. My husband told me not to deal with her anymore and that we forget his sister and also his mother. the women in his family are really something. His mother wishes us the worst in the world and his sister, (my sister-in-law) keeps taking things without asking and when we confront her, she just shruggs and says...whats done is done and there´s nothing she can do about it! She cries like a baby and its really ashame because I really want to love and care for her but she makes it impossible...She has alot of personal problems but so do I. I told her if she ever needed anything just ask but she keeps stealing. Should I just turn cold and mean and turn my back? Need your opinion please!

2007-01-23 08:44:39 · 43 answers · asked by mia 1 in Family

I was with my ex for three years and I have a beautiful little girl now; however, I have a question regarding her dad. Right now we are on good terms socially but he has not been the best with financial support. He lives out of state and jumps job to job rairly paying childsupport. RIght now it is getting garnished; however, i never will know when he leaves a job.
I know the password to his email and only check it for employment purposes, to see where he is working or looking for new work so that I can maybe find out so that his wages can be garnished.
He has a new girlfriend and emailed her his resume to print for him for an interview. I looked at the resume and he was lying bad about his past. I know that he did this when I was with him and I never really new the truth about him. With me he ended up just living off of me and I supported us.
Should I tell her so that she doesn't get taken advantage of?

2007-01-23 08:44:33 · 20 answers · asked by enljb 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 08:44:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am need to find out how much it costs to file. I am doing the forms myself i just need to know how much it will cost me file them with the state and how long it will take till the divorce is final.

2007-01-23 08:44:16 · 4 answers · asked by jamig20022003 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 08:43:34 · 2 answers · asked by prettysexycalves 3 in Friends

Ive split up with my boyfriend/fiance after 2 years through him cheaten. Am currently pregnant with his child,but am gutted he dont wanna kno the child and he acts like he dont care no more and am really hurt i dont know what to do no more please help

2007-01-23 08:43:11 · 5 answers · asked by Lesa B 1 in Singles & Dating

This is her first valentines day as a couple and I have never celebrated Valentines day because I was usually working or single. Neither of us dance..

2007-01-23 08:42:52 · 7 answers · asked by thevred 2 in Singles & Dating

ok.. so yes I know this is a bit childish but just wanted to know.. yes I am in High School I am a junior and I like a Sophmore.. and some of my freinds say to ask him out and others say no he is ugly... and I think he is cute.. and I know for sure he likes me.... and I just do not know what to do... to go for it.. or just go along with what my freinds say.. and I have never had a B/f ever! So ya... just need a little help in this dept. Thanks!

2007-01-23 08:42:45 · 5 answers · asked by Gloria C 1 in Singles & Dating

A 53 YEAR OLD MAN WAS SEEING MY DAUGHTER (HAVING A SEX AND DRUG RELATIONSHIP) UNTIL HER MOM SAID HE IS NO GOOD AND STOP SEEING HIM. OUR DAUGHTER IS 32. MY EX WIFE THEN STARTS SEEING HIM AT WHAT LEVEL I'M NOT SURE, BUT I KNOW SHE DID DRUGS)METH) AND HIS VEHICLE IS OVER AT HER HOUSE SOMETIMES QUITE LATE. MY THINKING ON THIS IS SHE IS NOT SHOWING ANY RESPECT FOR OUR DAUGHTER AND NONE FOR HERSELF. OH, ONE OTHER THING IS THERE ARE 3 GRANDKIDS INVOLVED ALSO. NEED SOME REAL HONEST INPUT. THANKS

2007-01-23 08:41:54 · 17 answers · asked by Michael B 1 in Family

I got into a fight in school because someone said a negative remark to me... I took off my glasses and i wish i woulda worn contacts that day cuz i cant see sh*t without em. so i got hit the first + second punch and the rest was real gay. Not much happened. But i should have done real better.. Like really he doesnt seem a worthy oponent for me and he really cant beat me the thing is i jus f*cked up this time. so what i really hate is the fact that his friends are loud people so around school word is that i got whooped..
I need advice
-should i retaliate by encouraging to fight again if one of the guy's friends or he himself comes out of his way/face and says something to me?
-i need to take my mind off things and i have a great girlfriend of 2 yr.s. i dont want sex i just wanna get this thought out my mind of how im a joke to people i dont even know. I want to et my mind off this. what can i do to have fun and in a sense brighten my day?(10 day suspension, im a senior in highschool

2007-01-23 08:41:34 · 8 answers · asked by ProudSouthLatin 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex sent me a message the other day asking me what i would do differently if we got back together. this comes all of a sudden when the whole time (3 years) i asked for her back and she never responded to me with any interest whatsoever up until now. i know she's still in a relationship at the moment which just confuses me all the more as to why she'd have a sudden change of heart. she's been asking me personal questions lately which to me seemed like she's interested to what i've been upto only to turn around and write a blog about how she wants to stay in her current relationship even at the hard times she's in. i don't know what to do.

2007-01-23 08:40:43 · 9 answers · asked by mr_brightside 2 in Singles & Dating

she is born a "female" but lately she has been acting more man-lier than ever..and insists she might really be a man..trapped in a woman's body..and im unsure of how to deal with this..

2007-01-23 08:39:58 · 15 answers · asked by almost an avril 2 in Singles & Dating

I am the oldest girl in the family, a college student with overprotective parents - in some ways, they'll "baby" me and expect me to depend on them...i've had my license for a loong time now but dont' have a card. Instead of just waiting for them to get me one, i was just thinking it of getting it myself. I am an "adult" in the government's eyes, i can work, etc...If i do get a car, will a get more of their respect? It's not like they can tell me what to do as much, right?

2007-01-23 08:39:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok ive been with this guy for 2 months and 4 days, we fell in love deeply! but the problem is that my parents dont want me to b with him, he is albanian and im romanian, my parents want a romanian guy....so my parents want me to stop seeing him but i dont want that! wat should i do? last night i tried breaking up with him but i started to cry and couldnt do it! i dont wanna hurt him in any way bcuz im the only person that cares about him! plzz help me wat should i do

2007-01-23 08:38:48 · 3 answers · asked by Florentina 1 in Singles & Dating

Imagine Marcia and Greg Brady. Do you think this is morally wrong?

2007-01-23 08:37:43 · 5 answers · asked by 6th Finger 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ALL MEN NEED TO KNOW THIS!! SO READ IT!!

2007-01-23 08:37:33 · 6 answers · asked by J-PUP 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my son is 20, having a baby w/ his girlfriend, she is 19, I'm happy but scared they'll put college on the backburner, I had him when I was 18, and I raised him by myself and raised him to want more without pushing too hard, maybe I didn't push hard enough? what do you think

2007-01-23 08:37:20 · 43 answers · asked by Cute Stuff 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I do things that I would never even think of doing when I'm sober. I wake up the next day and people tell me things that I did and then I regret ever getting drunk. I like to be happy drunk but not to the point where I black out and don't know a single thing that I did. Whats my problem?

2007-01-23 08:36:49 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a girl in my class who I used to talk to and I also used to like her but I feel like she really hates me now and I'm thinking about ignoring her from now on....should I just say to her that I don't want to talk to her the next time she tries to talk to me or should I talk to her about this situation....?

2007-01-23 08:36:03 · 18 answers · asked by air1990 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 08:35:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anil S 1 in Singles & Dating

I TOLD MY BOY FRIEND THAT I WAS PREGNANT, HE LOST IT HE THINKS IM CHEATING ON HIM... WHICH IM NOT!!!
HE THROUGH ME AGAINST THE BED AND STARTED BEATING ME, I HAVE A BLACK EYE AND I HAVE BRUISES EVERYWHERE!!!HE PUNCHED ME IN THE STOMACH REPEATEDLEY!!!
WHILE WE WERE ON THE BED HE SEXUALLY ASSUALTED ME, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I JUST WANNA KILL MYSELF RIGHT NOW....HE THREATENED TO KILL ME IF I TOLD ANYBODY....IM SO SCARED!!!!!!!I WANT IT ALL TO END....I DONT CARE HOW

2007-01-23 08:35:58 · 46 answers · asked by Exotic_Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do if all the pepole in your calss or school are 2 faced would you confront them or just let it be? cause i have friends there and i know they would back me up but i dont know what to do.

2007-01-23 08:35:10 · 5 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ 1 in Friends

is it weird to go out with someone who goes to a differet school?

2007-01-23 08:35:09 · 6 answers · asked by TnT 1 in Singles & Dating

If i quit my job because my husband needs me at home at night in bed with him.Should I ask him to give up his beeper because I don't like it when he on call?it's not like he needs the overtime pay.

2007-01-23 08:34:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 08:34:22 · 9 answers · asked by icecold 2 in Friends

My best friend's parents got divorced today and he told me and my friends about it in a group setting....I didn't get a chance to talk to him alone cause I wasn't sure what to say. Can anyone help me with that...?

2007-01-23 08:33:57 · 10 answers · asked by air1990 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love a realy cute boy at school help what should i do to ask him out HELPPPPPPPPPPPPP

2007-01-23 08:32:36 · 11 answers · asked by alice m 1 in Singles & Dating

I never seen to do anything right! I had a good job and quit cause i can in drunk and cursed out my boss. (weekend drinking to forget a woman) Always getting caught cheating. I lost the love of my life cause i just couldnt stop lying to her. Finally got caught. And worst part is that i really do love her. I was going to ask her to marry me. She even help me to go back to school, (while she put her life on hold) just for me. How can i be such a bastard? I feel like the scum of the earth. What makes stupid bastards like myself do things like this?

2007-01-23 08:32:32 · 8 answers · asked by Javier S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, in my old school I had confidence in me. I mean, I knew that I was a tough girl mentally and physically. But I moved to a new school, and now I don't have confidence anymore. I mean, I feel weak and that I'm not a tough girl.
I mean, what's wrong? Am I really weak?

2007-01-23 08:31:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my bf died on the 9th.And I don't know what to do.I want to kill myself but I don't want to hurt my family and friends.What do I do?

2007-01-23 08:31:04 · 4 answers · asked by a girl in love 2 in Singles & Dating