There's a girl in my class who I used to talk to and I also used to like her but I feel like she really hates me now and I'm thinking about ignoring her from now on....should I just say to her that I don't want to talk to her the next time she tries to talk to me or should I talk to her about this situation....?
2007-01-23 08:36:03 · 18 answers · asked by air1990 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would try to talk to her, and ask her what's up, is she mad about something? If she does not want to talk about it, then cool off around her. If she talks to you, fine, but don't go out of your way to be extra friendly to her. I would not approach her to talk, first, if she does not want to tell you what is wrong initially.
Could she be made about something? Is there some sort of dance coming up that you did not ask her to? Have you talked about her to anyone else, saying negative things before she became mad at you?
Girls can be moody. Perhaps she was just having a bad day.
2007-01-23 08:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by Bird Breath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just think about it. Do you still want to be her friend? If you do then you should talk to her and find out what's going on. If you don't want to be her friend anymore, then you can just ignore her. But if she tries talking to you next time try talking to her back because it might be a simple question or just casual talk. To be honest, I don't think you should ignore her at all. If this is a major problem for you, solve it. You don't want to go through life just running away and ignoring things. You just don't want to regret everything.
2007-01-23 16:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way to make her feel like crap... just say hi how are you and do more offen and she can't say don't talk to me if she did then keep talking to her and tell her there no reason why i can't say hi how are you or something?
i know you don't hate her I think she really hate you but sad that why can't she tell you why she hate you... so it works all the time since i was friend with girl I like and she hate me that fine but i always go by her and said hi with smiling and boy she didn't like it and then been doing for 1 weeks and she finally said why are you doing this??? try to pissed me off?? I told her no I have no reason to hate you or anything, If we don't work out we though it would and I rather to be yoru friend then lose one.
guess what??? she said you know when you said hi how are you all that i was like why can't he be mad at me when I really hate him but knowing what you told me and I agree with you i don't want to lose a friend like you. and been friend for 14 years now so ... she married and I married and so still bestfriend no matter what.
2007-01-23 16:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule one
Never be rude.
So no you should not tell her you don't want to talk to her again and you should not ignore her. Basically you should quit worrying about what to do and just go through each moment as a polite person.
2007-01-23 16:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about the situation
2007-01-23 16:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by carebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about the situation, ignoring her will only make it worse
2007-01-23 16:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by Andy's Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try addressing the situation directly. Use " I feel..." type sentences- like" I feel that you are upset with me..." Sounds kind of flaky, but it is less accusatory and less likely that she will go on the defencive. takes some courage, but will do more to solve the problem than ignoring it!
2007-01-23 16:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by churnin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh, if you still have feelings for her you should talk to her! but if you dont like her you obviously dont want to talk to her. maybe she likes someone else now? did you say something that might have hurt her feelings? if so then try to say 'im sorry' if you have guts though because she might never forgive you. no pressure though
2007-01-23 16:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by the girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got issues man. Just be nice and stop over thinking things. Be yourself and stop worrying. The more you worry the more they start being unattracted to you.
2007-01-23 16:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by detfan12_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a very strong word. If she says anything to you just say you don't wish to be her friend anymore.
2007-01-23 16:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by onecutebyrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋