Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

my boy frind kepps dumping me and then he asks me agin to be his gf what should i do?

2007-01-23 08:19:22 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 08:18:41 · 6 answers · asked by myra b 2 in Singles & Dating

I hear alot about this and have even seen it on the internet, but I don't understand it. Do some women actually like a guy to *** on their face?

2007-01-23 08:18:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when your friend is telling you she likes you (in a way more then friends) over e-mails???

2007-01-23 08:18:25 · 5 answers · asked by Bobby The Wolf 2 in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me(he thinks i'm a bit clingy and high maintenance) and i never did anything bad to him. Why does he act like i did terrible things to him? does that mean he still cares or doesnt care at all. Now he's all "yeah, she's psycho" when someone teases him or mentions me. And he offered what not to look for in a girl which were specific references to me.

I cant believe i even thought getting back together with him maybe after 2 or 3 or 6 months or so. I thought he'd come crawling back since he's not popular at all. He never had any female friends, let alone girlfriends. But now that i know he's saying all these nasty things about me, i dont think he'll ever beg his way back. What do u think? Did guys ever come back after they were this mean to you?

2007-01-23 08:18:07 · 28 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 08:18:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

THIS GUY AND I HAVE BEEN HANGING OUT FOR A YEAR HE IS A REALLY GOOD MAN HE WORKS AND GOT A GOOD HEAD ON HIS SHOULDER EVERYTIME I TALK ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP HE SAY HE AINT READY BUT HE WANT TO HAVE SEX SPEND ALL THIS TIME TOGETHER BUT DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH ME WHAT UP WITH THAT U WANT TO PLAY HOUSE BUT WHEN ITS TIME TO BE TOGETHER 4 REAL HE AINT READY WHAT DO I TELL HIM

2007-01-23 08:18:01 · 7 answers · asked by ingrid j 1 in Singles & Dating

I am friends with this guy and sort of have feelings for him. When we hang out, he often brings up his ex girlfriend (mostly negatively). Does this mean he still has feelings for her? They broke up over a year ago.

2007-01-23 08:16:59 · 26 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Singles & Dating

First, let's get what might be your assumptions out of the way before you read on. I'm 27, so I'm not speaking from a 15-year-old's perspective here. I don't hate women, if I did, I would most likely be gay.

Here's my gripe:

Finding a decent girl is basically like trying to find proof of Bigfoot's exsistence, damn near impossible. The ones that are out there always seem to be taken of course.

The rest all seem to be after one or more of the following:
1. Guys with lots of money
2. Guys that are exceptionally good looking
3. Guys with expensive cars
4. Guys that treat them like ****

Most girls won't even give your average guy a second look.

Why is this? And please, by all means, prove me wrong.

2007-01-23 08:15:21 · 34 answers · asked by onlyget1shot 3 in Singles & Dating

im a seventeen year old grl. out of curosity if u wer my age, wat would be the maximum age of a guy u would date?

2007-01-23 08:15:01 · 46 answers · asked by pixiexxpixiexpixie 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm hand-crafting a sterling silver chain-mail necklace for my wife for Valentine's Day. 2,500+ little silver rings to weave together and solder closed... I know she'll love it!

So what are you doing for the one you love on Valentine's Day?

2007-01-23 08:14:48 · 14 answers · asked by Ritz Grimarren 3 in Marriage & Divorce

They waited until our youngest was 20 before they tried to have communication with us. They told me to just 'give up my child' and have treated me like dirt. Christmas involves them removing themselves from a room that I am in. They tell my kids 'we wont do things with you because we really dont know you'. They never made an effort. Now they want us to be there for them in their old age. I want nothing to do with them, and I certianly do not want their bills. I have enough medical of my own to cover many years, but his mom was saying we are so in debt when we die you kids will have to share the responsibility of our bad money management. I asked my husband to cut off communications with them, he basically says "I will deal with it" and does not. I finally wrote a letter asking them to no longer communicate, and he wants ME to go to counseling because I hurt his dads feelings. Im ready to say the he** with it and be done with him and the whole family.

2007-01-23 08:14:09 · 8 answers · asked by whoknowsanymore 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So, I hit this one boy in my class with my left hand (and I'm VERY weak with my left hand!) and noticed he was strong, that he really could beat me up ... but is it true that guys are stronger then girls?
Am I weak? ???!

2007-01-23 08:13:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sooo SAD and UPSET!!! no one will get on at all in the house!! i'm not doing well at school because i cant concentrate because im so upset & sad, get home from school and straight on the computer all day. please this is getting so boring & upsetting now please what shall i do?? its soooooooo boring and sad!! please help ?????

2007-01-23 08:13:35 · 10 answers · asked by ♥HELLO♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

little while ago I told this girl that I like her and she told me that she likes me too, evrything was fine but few dates later she told me that she is not ready for relationship yet...just got divorced
I was cool about and understanding, i backed off a little but we talk all the time, catch a movie or a dinner on ocasions....she tells me everything about her divorce
just last night when we talked I told her that I'm waiting for a friend of mine to give me a ride, and she says "I wish you woul dhavecall me , any time you need a ride just give me a call''
is she trying to get closer to me after telling me about a month ago that she is notready and she is confused?
back then she was thorn and little hurt by the divorce but since than her husband turn the divorce into an ugly battle field and now she hates his guts
what is going on?

2007-01-23 08:13:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would prefer it if guys answered this. If u were a 17 yr old guy, and you liked this 15 yr old girl. U've liked each other for the longest time but u never said anything. Both of u had never had a relationship with anyone else, but then the girl gets tired of waiting, and starts going out someone else, but breaks up with them after a while. You know she still likes u and u like her, but you tell ur friend that u'll never go out with her because she already had a boyfriend. Y would u do this? or would u do this?

2007-01-23 08:12:56 · 3 answers · asked by Estrella 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you be hurt if your boyfriend/husband didn't get you a birthday gift?

I would rather give than receive ANYDAY. But sometimes it's nice to be spoiled. Not necessarily with something expensive, but with something that took extra thought and effort.

My 25th birthday was last Monday and my (live-in) boyfriend came home from work with a card and a cake (I hate cake and he knows that). Of course I happily accepted the card and cake and appreciated it. But it hurt my feelings that he didn’t put much effort into celebrating my birthday. (I didn't tell him this though)

I moved in with him about 7 months ago, not only did I move in with him but I had to move 2 hrs away from my family to do so. I didn’t have my friends or family to celebrate my birthday with so that is the main reason I was hurt he didn’t put the extra effort in it for me.

2007-01-23 08:12:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So i have been through a few realtionships and the guys when they would talk and no action etc.. well, they all said i deserve someone better than them.they did try to get serious with me,but they felt they were not good enough for me and to support wise. well i just got out a serious realtionship and we were engaged,i still love him with all my heart,he had problems with his mom she was over controling,she threathed him.. and he was trying to move out..etc... i know supporting wise he probably isnt good... yes i do miss him,i would love him and i to be together again..but.. why do guys get serious with me then ditch me because they say i deserve someone better?then they go with other girls who cant really be honest and they end up hurting them anyway..i mean whats wrong with me,im honest,loving and respectful and i love to give my heart to someone...also my ex does not make sence the recent guythat i was en,he still loves me but i dont know what we are.. please help and explain this.

2007-01-23 08:12:20 · 9 answers · asked by Andrea 3 in Singles & Dating

My gf told me that her grandma was gonna kick her out at the end of the school year...so she could live with me some how. Im 17 soon going to be 18 and I still live with my aunt but im planning on moving away or out when im 18...and my gf she is still 16 is there anyway she could live with me if I get an apt. could she with me at that age is it possible? I live in CT so I dunno about the laws if its illegal or not....I really do love this woman a lot and im willing to do anything for her even if it means bustin my *** off working and goin to school and supporting her and working towards making a better life for ourselves.

2007-01-23 08:11:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been dating my boyfriend "A" for nearly four months now. He's constantly calling me, he's so very sweet, and he spoils me rotten. He got me an iPod nano, && some other stuff for Christmas. I try to spoil him, too and we hang out constantly.

I have a good guy friend "C" I met at wakeboarding camp. He lives about two hours away, and we've met up twice since I've been dating "A." Both times we've messed around a bit.

The weird thing is, I don't have any feelings for "C." He knows I have a boyfriend and he knows I really like "A" but "C" thinks I'll eventually date him. If anything, cheating on my boyfriend just makes me like him more. Messing around with "C" was really lame compared to how "A" && I can be together, and I guess the cheating helped me realize that.

The problem is... I kinda like balancing two guys, especially since one of them is okay with it. They both have their uses. What's my deal?!

2007-01-23 08:11:08 · 20 answers · asked by Roni L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my daughter already has everything for the home and feels its cheeky to ask for money but if its in a poem it would go down better

2007-01-23 08:11:04 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-23 08:10:20 · 19 answers · asked by Wise AND SEXY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok this guy i like seems like he likes me too but tell me what you think............
~at the basketball game yesterday(hes on the team on im on the pom pon team)he would watch the game and then look directly at me for about a minute and then look away like i saw him(i think he knew that i did) and he kept doing that throughout the entire thing
~also in the hallways he would push his friends or be "tough" to show off in front of me
~ about 4 of my friends have already told him i like him
~i'm not allowed to have a boyfriend
~and i dont have very much courage

1. My friends say that i should go out with him (i cant)
2. my friends say i should just tell him ( i dont have the courage)
3. it seems as though he likes me but i cant tell tell me what u think!!
Thanks so much!

2007-01-23 08:10:19 · 12 answers · asked by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 in Singles & Dating

I get really jealous over my boyfriend when other girls talk to him. It's just that he’s sooo hot (and perfect!) in my eyes that I think any girl who is talking to him, or who is friends with him, must want to take him from me. Rationally, I realize this probably isn’t the case and that most girls aren’t plotting to steal him from me, but my feelings stay the same.
If I continue being so jealous, I know our relationship won’t last. What can I do to stop myself from being possessive and jealous?

2007-01-23 08:09:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 08:08:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who wants to have me 'help' her cheat on the final exam by writing down the answers in order for her. i don't want to help her cheat. What is the best way to tell her no without being rude?

2007-01-23 08:08:22 · 21 answers · asked by MS 4 in Friends

my relationship? For the past two weeks my boyfriend of almost 2 months has been confused and having mixed emotions about our relationship. He has told me once that he is losing interest in the relationship, so he hasn't called me much or aimed. He goes from thinking the relationship wont work, to feeling really content and happy with it. I don't know what to do, i'm afraid I might lose him. I know if we end up breaking up, that we will stay friends, but I love him and would do anything to keep it alive. I know he likes me alot and cares for me more than anyone, but he can't seem to make up his mind on what he really wants. do you think maybe he is just scared of the outcome? he has fallen in love before and had his heart broken, so how do I keep him from believing I'll do the same? Thanks.

2007-01-23 08:07:30 · 10 answers · asked by Meika_Chan 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for four years. Im 38 and hes 45. When I first met him he would do pot once in awhile and now its an EVERYDAY habit. This really bothers me and he knows it. Sometimes I feel that this habit is more important to life. Im worried about his health. His mood is really bad when he doesnt smoke this stuff. He always tell me dont worry about my problems just worry about yours. He is a great man but his habits are so terrible!! What would you do ????? Also we have no kids together but he has 3 that he sees every other weekend.

2007-01-23 08:07:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do u recognize if a guy likes u , u no, some kinda body language.
BE SURE 2 LEAVE U R AGE;)(teenagers have more chances of best answer!)

2007-01-23 08:06:50 · 7 answers · asked by XxDeepxX 2 in Singles & Dating

I was hanging with my friends and then I saw this boy that I think is soooo cuteeee and everyone is in love with him. One of my friends already knew that I like...love him lol but then I guess she got tired of me saying that everyday so 2day she went up to him and I was said "my friend likes you. You should go hug her or talk to her"...and then the boy was like "I'm shyyy"

What does that mean?? Causeee that boy is not shy at all I see him at school and he's really popular

2007-01-23 08:06:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating