THIS GUY AND I HAVE BEEN HANGING OUT FOR A YEAR HE IS A REALLY GOOD MAN HE WORKS AND GOT A GOOD HEAD ON HIS SHOULDER EVERYTIME I TALK ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP HE SAY HE AINT READY BUT HE WANT TO HAVE SEX SPEND ALL THIS TIME TOGETHER BUT DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH ME WHAT UP WITH THAT U WANT TO PLAY HOUSE BUT WHEN ITS TIME TO BE TOGETHER 4 REAL HE AINT READY WHAT DO I TELL HIM
2007-01-23 08:18:01 · 7 answers · asked by ingrid j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A year is not an awfully long time, so don't sweat it. Remember a lot of men are happy having their own space (a primeval territorial thing I think!). Most men will have sex as often as they can get it, but without the "baggage". If he says he is not ready for a relationship, then tell him that the sex is part of a relationship, so if he wants to play love monkeys, then he has to earn it!
2007-01-23 08:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obveously isn't meeting your needs. Think about yourself for once and ditch the guy. He saw your good heart and used it for his own selfish advantage. He knew you would try to make the relationship work. Some men don't appreciate you untill you make them appreciate you. You teach men how to treat you when you let them walk all over you. I was married to the biggestloser ever and let me tell you I took his #@#** for 8 years. I look back and think he seen my heart and took me for granted. Never again sister, I've been calling the shots ever since and I if the guy leaves then he is doing me a favor. He either loves you or he loves himself which is it?
2007-01-23 08:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by java348 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVER HEARD THE PHRASE"HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT TOO" WELL THAT'S WHAT A LOT OF MEN WANT. YES HE WILL SPEND TIME WITH YOU AND HAVE RELATIONS WITH YOU, BUT HE IS ALSO ALLOWED TO DO THESE EXACT THINGS WITH WHOEVER HE WANTS WHENEVER HE WANTS WITH NO HASSELS BEHIND IT( not necessarily the case with him). IT'S NOT THAT HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU, HE TRUELY ISNT READY. DON'T PUSH OR RUSH IT...IT WILL NEVER WORK OUT. TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL, LISTEN TO HIS RESPONSE. YOU CANNOT FIND THE REAL REASON HERE ON YAHOO. WE CAN'T READ HIS MIND....HOPE I COULD HELP AND GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-23 08:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by *MAD!SON* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you have a date with another guy on friday night. He's interested in having a real relationship with you.
I bet he get's the message then!!!
2007-01-23 08:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, as a man, if you commit to a woman, and make a mistake, you could end up paying aliomony & child support and your life could become miserable.
2007-01-23 08:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he wants children, there really isn't a good reason for men to get married.
2007-01-23 08:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a player
2007-01-23 08:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋