I'm sooo SAD and UPSET!!! no one will get on at all in the house!! i'm not doing well at school because i cant concentrate because im so upset & sad, get home from school and straight on the computer all day. please this is getting so boring & upsetting now please what shall i do?? its soooooooo boring and sad!! please help ?????
2007-01-23 08:13:35 · 10 answers · asked by ♥HELLO♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you've already tried talking to your parents about it, then I'd say join a club or team at school. You'll make friends and have more time outside the home. It will help your grades if you can do your schoolwork outside of your house maybe the library.
2007-01-23 08:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jennylind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hun - honestly theres really no need to get quite so upset about it... and you are absolutely right, its far more important to have a healthy baby i have heard that if your other half can go commando - ie. no underwear ! and get the temp. of his testicles slightly lower the sperm that carry the X will be more prolific. but other than that i can't think of any other methods... i am 19 wks pregnant - it took us over 12 months of trying and it was such a worry that i thought there was a problem that i would not even be able to get pregnant - and i know how you feel about a girl, i'd like this baby to be a girl - and i will be happy if he is a boy as well - over all i think you need to relax a little, IMHO - simply because, if you set yourself these ideals etc and what if you get your baby girl and she is a tom boy and not at all girly.. ?? take care
2016-05-24 01:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to focus on your schoolwork only, and if you dont want to just do it anyways, you will get more praise and attention from having all that work done and when its finally time to get out of school, you will be accepted into a good college. I had the same problem when i was your age TOO MANY FAMIly problems i couldnt handle but now as a young woman i have to face the fact that i didnt to well in school, so its harder for me to get jobs, or get accepted into school, i would do anything to take those years back and actually do my homework and focus in school. IF you have to go to the library until your homework is done and then see if you feel like going on the computer.... trust me being smart and accomplished after you try at it will feel really good, better than focusing on family problems you cant fix and will eventually be over and you havent accomplished anything for yourself... and, maybe you want to talk to a counseler and set up an area after school in school grounds you can finish your homework at.... your future depends on these couple of years ... your family problems willl always be there TRUST ME.... good luck and best wishes
2007-01-23 08:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you got to learn to relax and think about what you are sad and upset about. after you do that, then you should try a way to solve this problem. if you can't solve it on your own, then you must talk to someone. if it isn't your parents that you can talk to then try a close friend, a teacher or a guidance consular. then you sould find a hobbie todo right when you get home (play outside, read a book, call a friend etc) that should keep your mind off things. in the beginning of the day you should also try to think of something you will look forward to for the rest of the day. something that will keep you going. as for grades make sure you are eating a great breakfast, and get a goods night sleep
2007-01-23 08:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Answerfinder1360 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could try not going strainght to the computer and instead go outside or talk ot afriend on the phone. Perhaps join an aftershool activity. If your sadness is so bad try telling your parents or if you are not comfortable with that the shcool counselors are a great source to help you out. But most importantly find something to do that includes other people and keeps you buisy.
What do you mean by get on with each other?
2007-01-23 08:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by Antonio A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make some changes. Obviously the pattern your following now isn't working. Try getting out of the house more often. Try some new things and remember things will get better.
2007-01-23 08:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by mike d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that whatever happens in life, you'll be able to pull through, no matter how hard or frustating it is. Smile. Remember who you are. You can pull through.
2007-01-23 08:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by Blake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your friends and have some fun
2007-01-23 08:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by carebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your parents and tell them how you are feeling if they wont listen go to the school counselor
2007-01-23 08:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to participate in diff.. cocurriclar activities in ur skool or college or join sum workshops in which ur intrstd in!!try to socialise more wid ur mates!!
2007-01-23 08:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by abhinav m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋