I get really jealous over my boyfriend when other girls talk to him. It's just that he’s sooo hot (and perfect!) in my eyes that I think any girl who is talking to him, or who is friends with him, must want to take him from me. Rationally, I realize this probably isn’t the case and that most girls aren’t plotting to steal him from me, but my feelings stay the same.
If I continue being so jealous, I know our relationship won’t last. What can I do to stop myself from being possessive and jealous?
2007-01-23 08:09:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Note: He HAS done things in the past to casue me not to trust him, but he seems serious to try and change that now. (Finally...)
2007-01-23 08:16:55 · update #1
So what if they do want him? they're just complimenting your good taste. It only matters if he wants them, which he probably doesn't. So instead of focusing on the girls, focus on the fact that he's only interested in you and take the fact that they're lusting after your man as a compliment!
2007-01-23 08:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jennylind 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him and letting him know how you feel. Just not in way that would sound like you are over protective. It is all a matter of trust, which I am sure you know. The whole question starts with, do you trust him? If you do, then you shouldn't have anything to be worried about. Girls flirt with nice looking guys even if the guy happens to be with someone already. It literally sucks. It may all be harmless, but I would definitely talk to him, especially if he is contributing to the flirting.
2007-01-23 08:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by white_rose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put your trust in him! If you love him this much, have faith in him to ward off those would be home wreckers! Instead of watchin what the woman is doing and saying, study your man. He will give you the clues as to whether or not you should be jealous!
2007-01-23 08:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boost your own self-esteem!!! If he's that hot...I don't think he would be seen with just an average chick.
Become comfortable with letting their attention empower you! I love it when girls are really flirty with my guy...it lets me know that I made a good choice and it keeps me on my toes which is always a plus overall.
2007-01-23 08:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask you, if you are more jealous about the way the girls are acting towards him, or the way he is acting towards others. Sometimes when we feel jealous, we feel threatened. Find out why, and then you can try to fix it.
2007-01-23 08:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
THAT'S A VERY SERIOUS PROBLEM THAT CAN AND WILL EVENTUALLY LEAD TO DISASTER. IF HE KNOW'S YOUR JEALOUS BECAUSE YOU DISPLAY JEALOUS BEHAVIORS THAT'S EVEN WORSE. IT SHOWS SIGNS OF INSECURITY...MEN HATE THAT, AND OTHER WOMEN LOVE IT. WHAT HELPED ME IN PRVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS WAS BY NOT FOCUSING ON IT. IF HE TREATS YOU WITH RESPECT AND SHOWS HIS FEELINGS FOR YOU THEN JUST TRY TO BE CONTENT WITH THAT, OR YOU WILL FIND YOURSELF IN A CONSTANT STATE OF WORRIATION WHICH WILL LEAD TO YOU BEING MISERABLE AND IN TURN MAKING HIM MISERABLE....IF ANYTHING WILL MAKE HIM CHEAT OR LEAVE YOU ALTOGETHER THAT WILL. JUST CHERISH THE SPECIAL TIMES YOU SHARE AND SHOW HIM THAT YOU ARE SECURE AND THAT YOU CARE FOR HIM...NO ONE CAN COMPETE WITH THAT.
2007-01-23 08:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by *MAD!SON* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've go to trust him.. Has he given you any reason not to?? Continue to remind yourself that HE chose to be with YOU!! These girls are probably only interested in his looks, you are interested in the whole package..
2007-01-23 08:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kristi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
think of it this way you akready HAVE him, those girls would have to jump through hoops to get him to leave you. just trust your guy and expect him to be responsible. it'll be ok.
2007-01-23 08:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pull your head out of your a s s and get over it
2007-01-23 08:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by david o 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋