my relationship? For the past two weeks my boyfriend of almost 2 months has been confused and having mixed emotions about our relationship. He has told me once that he is losing interest in the relationship, so he hasn't called me much or aimed. He goes from thinking the relationship wont work, to feeling really content and happy with it. I don't know what to do, i'm afraid I might lose him. I know if we end up breaking up, that we will stay friends, but I love him and would do anything to keep it alive. I know he likes me alot and cares for me more than anyone, but he can't seem to make up his mind on what he really wants. do you think maybe he is just scared of the outcome? he has fallen in love before and had his heart broken, so how do I keep him from believing I'll do the same? Thanks.
2007-01-23 08:07:30 · 10 answers · asked by Meika_Chan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Explaination- he wants to be with me, but sometimes he feels maybe he just wants to be friends. He is mixed up about it.
2007-01-23 08:14:07 · update #1
Why do you want to be with someone, who doesn't know if they want to be with you? Better to find out after only 2 months, rather than 5 years and 2 kids later.......
2007-01-23 08:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel about the relationship. Let him know that you want this relationship and don't understand why he has mixed emotions. I know it can be hard to communicate how you feel sometimes but relationships need good communication. He could just be scared since he's been heartbroken in the past. Talk with him and see how he feels. I hope this helps. :)
2007-01-23 08:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by Jess_DH13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really you should let him think about it and don't give him any pressure and if didn't work out and good thing still be friends nothing more. and I think that he like someone else not just you... Maybe I could be wrong but it must be someone else too.
I was same thing in his shoes and very confused should i be with that person or other person ummmm both don't know i am with botho of them and i know them both umm.
You might want to asked him and tell him i won't be mad if you see other woman maybe that why you confused not sure?? I wished you told me this before and let me know when you make the final desions. smiling.
2007-01-23 08:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is having commitment problems. I think that YOU should (unfortunately make the decision for him) suggest taking it slower, instead of being in an intense serious relationship just be friends fo a couple months or so (or even dating). He seems indecisive and wishy washy - I suggest that you just slow down or risk being hurt.
2007-01-23 08:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same has happened to me before.. Soo.. i think all you have to do.. is ask him if he'd like to have a break wiht you to see what he really wants like go for a week does he liek being with you better or not? If not, Hes not worth it... The guy i went out with and i did that with him he ended up telling me he likes being friends betterrr
2007-01-23 08:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Little Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not keep a person who dose not want to be kept. He is not happy with you for some reason, or his heart said he dose not love you, U can't make someone love u they either do or not.Look around you will find someone else to love .
2007-01-23 08:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by larry B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think that he is scared most boys get that way just act like u still care and he'll get the point just be real actually he will still love u even though what happens next good luck and i hope that i have helped
2007-01-23 08:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by spicy delicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he continues to do this it might be good to give him some time to himself so he can figure things out. you could give a week or two to make up his mind.it's not right to play with a person's emotions like he's doing.
2007-01-23 08:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's just believing he will have his heart broken, just be persistent on showing your love to him.
2007-01-23 08:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by pertinential 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to smother him, yet you don't want him to think you don't care either. Write him a letter expressing how you feel, give it to him and wait for his reaction...
2007-01-23 08:12:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kristi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋