Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

I know my husband loves me. I know he worships me. I just feel unappreciated sometimes. I pamper him when he comes home from work. I rub his back, give him foot massages, I will even prepare a hot bath. I make his favorite dinners. What I want tho is for him to notice that. I want for him to not gripe at me because I forgot to buy more papertowels at the store. I am not perfect. I have tried talking to him about it and he apologizes...but he forgets! Once he came home to find the kids in bed asleep, me standing in the doorway of our bedroom in heels, a teddy, his tie , with a cold beer waiting on him. He loved it. I feel like I do for him, but he doesn't want to do for me. a flower from the front yard or offering to help around the house. (I work full time too, take care of our three children and our house.) How can I make him notice me... and make me feel worthwhile? what am I doing wrong?

2007-01-23 08:30:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How important is it for a woman that a man has it either big or small?

2007-01-23 08:29:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my guy friend always use to flirt...infact his friend told me that my guy friend liked me andi said EWWW! yeah well i didnt kno if he was just kidding but my guy friend looked hurt,that was last year. now this year we both flirted with eachother at the begining and now hes starting to ignore me! i really like him sooo much i wanna go out with him, but him ignoring me makes me feel like he doesnt like me! do he not like me even as a friend ne more!? and do you think i should ask him out (im 14)

2007-01-23 08:29:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance was recently laid off work and has had little to no change in his daily activities. He's home during the day taking friends to work and playing video games in his spare time. What makes matters worse is that I'm 7 months pregnant with out first child. Work is becoming increasingly difficult and not to mention stressful. He gets angry with me because I try to help with Job searching- he says I'm telling him what to do and that makes him feel like a child. But if I don't, he does nothing. He was supposed to start a new job this month but it doesnt look likely to happen for a while. He's waiting to "get in" to the union. So for now, I'm stuck paying bills while he sits at home waiting for a phone call I feel will never come. What do I do? His mother says, cancel the cable-ok but we have DTV so they'll charge me an arm & a leg to reconnect it. I'm so lost and confused....

2007-01-23 08:28:56 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I go to a quite small school so there are only 14 girls in my year including me. This means i have a very small group of friends but this one girl acts friendly with me then is really mean about me behind my back. The problem is shes really popular and could turn everyone against me if i say a word. What shall I do!?

2007-01-23 08:28:29 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 19 and the guy that I like is 28. I've liked him for about a year now and ever since I met him there has been some tension between us. Both of us have dated other people in the time that we have known each other because we both tend to indicate that the age difference is too big for us. I am always concerned about what people would think of me for dating someone nine years older, and also what people would think of him. (I don't want them to think he is a creepy guy or anything). Recently, the tension has escalated a lot. He became jealous of one of my guy friends who is my age and has been inquiring as to whether or not we are dating, etc. He's also been bringing up ex-girlfriends of his at random times. I just don't know what to do.

2007-01-23 08:28:06 · 16 answers · asked by jdrum311 2 in Singles & Dating

She had been looking for a job for ever and i finally pulled ajor strings, she had absolutetley no experience, and got her my old job. My boss was my mentor and now that relationship is gone. I have spent nights and weekends training her, she is probably one of the most selfish people i have ever encountered. Everything is about her. She has yet to thank me for getting her the job. I really don't think she respets the boundaries of my relationships that i have formed with the people she now works with. It is driving me crazy. What do you suggest i do?

2007-01-23 08:28:05 · 2 answers · asked by Berian C 1 in Friends

My girlfriend and I have been together close to a year. I'm going to have a gift and a red rose delivered to her class during school. Should I include a love letter handwritten by me? Do girls like Love Letters? :) Thanks

2007-01-23 08:27:25 · 4 answers · asked by Tommy_Turrican 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend always tries to act really cute and has a completly different personality when i'm with him. and with his friends he is a complete weirdo haha.. why are guys like that?

2007-01-23 08:26:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Above my cats tail is very sensitive, when I pet her she gets angry and tries to bite. She's 11 and she's always had some sensitivity there, but now it seems as though she dislikes it more then she used to. Is it because she's just crankier in her old age or is there another reason?

2007-01-23 08:26:05 · 11 answers · asked by Moosha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 08:25:44 · 23 answers · asked by fritz 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a recent addiction where I have to sneak out to Taco Bell late at night. I dunno what it is, its almost like I am sleep walking. Just last night, my wife caught me returning to bed. I confessed that I was sneaking out to Taco Bell and that I was sorry.

SHE THINKS!! that I am having an affair, which is not true at all. I may love tacos but I dont love other women! Is there anything I can do to convince her, that I am not cheating!?

2007-01-23 08:25:29 · 25 answers · asked by neff8684 5 in Singles & Dating

im 15 and theres a girl at my school who i am realy good friends with but recently ive been having feeling for her. but ive decided not to ask her out because i dont want to ruin our friendship so ive been trying to keep distance from her for a while.
but i like to ice skate more than anything else and none of my other friends want to go with me... apart from this girl! what can i do now?

2007-01-23 08:25:24 · 13 answers · asked by mr happy 1 in Singles & Dating

hi. im 9 and my brother joe is 16 and he had a party when my parents went to florda and his friend got drunk and my brother was tring to get him to leave but he didnt and he broke my mom and dads realy expensve vase from mexico and my brother didnt want to get in trouble so he isnt gonna tell my parents and he wants me to lie and tell my parents i didnt no anything about it and i never lied to them before and i dont want to but my brother will get super mad at me if i tell on him cuz i always tell on him and i stoped telling on him and he actuly was nice to me and i dont want him not to be nice to me so what shuld i do should i tell my mom and dad that he had a party and his friend got realy drunk and broke it or tell them i dont no any thing about it like my brother wants me to!?!?!?!?!?!?! please jhelp me!!!!!!!

2007-01-23 08:25:04 · 14 answers · asked by Miley 1 in Friends

there is agirl at my school who i really like. i think she like me too but im not sure. we talk a little, every so often but nothing serious. how do i know if she likes me. if she does not then how do i get her to like me.

2007-01-23 08:24:55 · 26 answers · asked by lori s 2 in Singles & Dating

why do most me act all gaga when they see a pretty woman, don't you know we are just people too?

2007-01-23 08:24:54 · 20 answers · asked by Tiny little hot one 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to this man who lives in another state. we've been having serious phone sex for over a month. he will be here for business from sunday thru tuesday a.m. i know i will be able to tell my husband that i am going shopping with the girls for the whole day on sunday. i am to meet him at his hotel. am i crazy? he is so sexy and sensual. when i hear his voice...i go crazy. i have pictures of him and he of me so we know what each looks like and i like what i see and so does he. am i stupid to go through with this? i am married for 6 years but with my husband for 14 years. we were a product of an affair. i am so torn over this.

2007-01-23 08:24:44 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Good Day,
My name is Michelle , I am very scared for my children. I have three children by my ex husband Jeremy. He had every other weekend visitations with the children. My daughter who is 6 stated that "Daddy put his winkie on my private and he put his tongue in my mouth." I called DCF And they came to my house and Alisha my daughter told (the DCF officer) and (Brevard Sheriff officer) what had happened. They went and spoke to Jeremy and he said something like, "I don't know if I did, I may have been on drugs." DCF did nothing to protect my daughter so I went and filed for a injunction which the judge did approve. DCF closed their case and there records state verified findings when it comes to Alisha's allegations from CPT interview. Brevard Sheriff officer forward all her info with a capais request to the states attorney. I was told to do supervised visitation with Children's home society per the injunction. The states attorney has not closed their case as of yet but, I don't think that they are going to do anything. They said that they only have a 6 year old girls word and they don't think they could win the case. My daughter Alisha is forced to go into a room during visitation with Jeremy, the man who molested her and say, "I don't want to see him," while he is standing there. I feel like everyone is letting Alisha down and not protecting her. She is the victim here and she is still getting victimized by people who are suppose to protect her. I fear that Jeremy may one day get his weekend visitations back and this may happen to any one of my children again. Please help. Thank you, Michelle

2007-01-23 08:24:30 · 4 answers · asked by mosinakfamily 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband works mornings and I work nights till morning.He says that he doesnt want me working nights anymore because he doesnt get to spend time with me like he really wants to and he hates going to bed and i'm not there with him.should I just up and quit my job or should I find another job first before i quit?

2007-01-23 08:24:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 08:24:03 · 4 answers · asked by desertskieswoman 5 in Friends

Sorry if this is long. I posted a question about a month ago about my mother in law on x-mas day she kicked me out of her house, pushed me when I tried taking my daughter with me & then threatened to take my daughter away(through courts although she will never get her because she has a sexual misconduct on her record). Anyway last night she called my husband & told him that I need to forget what happened, get over it and start talking to her. I told my husband that I will not forget, how am I suppose to forget someone kicking me out of their house, pushing me and then threatening to take my child away. My husband told his mother that I am not going to talk to her & he isn't going to make me, so than she said well I better start getting to see my granddaughter every sunday or I will show up at your house at 6 everynight. I agreed to let her take her on sunday feb 4th even though it was against my better judgement. Also she threatened to take us to court again. I live in IL. What to do

2007-01-23 08:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by mdoud01 5 in Family

My husband works mornings and I work nights till morning.He says that he doesnt want me working nights anymore because he doesnt get to spend time with me like he really wants to and he hates going to bed and i'm not there with him.should I just up and quit my job or should I find another job first before i quit?

2007-01-23 08:23:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 08:23:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was 17 and he was my highschool sweet heart.Come to think of it now,it wasn't a perfect relationship,but ur first will always remain ur first.Am I right?Oh,and have you changed ur taste in men/women after that?I know I did,being in college and everything..

2007-01-23 08:22:45 · 13 answers · asked by n 5 in Singles & Dating

I've know people in the past that have said that "I love you" can only be said after a certain time period like 8 months or later. I think this is crap, and it should be able to be said whenever you feel it inside you. The only time period that i work by is after your done be infatuated with your significant other, and you see their flaws and except them for part of that person and are still in "love" with that person with or without those characteristics. What are everyone else's thoughts?

2007-01-23 08:22:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this one girl and she is a real brat. she said she was gonna ruin my life so i need to do it before she does!
~~~DON'T SAY THAT IT ISN'T RIGHT CUS IT IS!!!~~~

2007-01-23 08:22:23 · 6 answers · asked by Callie 1 in Friends

any tips for kissing a guy?? where do you prefer we put our hands, back of the head, arms, ....?when a girls kissing you, what do you like for her to do the most?

2007-01-23 08:21:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need encouragement!! I have broken up from a long term relationship for almost one year!! Even though i know I should help myself to move on by trying different new things and meeting new people, my heart still feel painful. I don't know what to do. I am like a souless person. Everyday, just work and waiting to go back home. Can anyone share their experience with me on how to heal successfully after a break up? i still want to build up healthy relationship. But i don't know how to overcome the fear.

2007-01-23 08:20:59 · 18 answers · asked by ABCCCCCC 1 in Singles & Dating

is it weird that all my girl friend ever wants to wear is blokes boxers we went clothes shopping for the first day last week and she brought then saying its all she ever wears i feel like the first time we have sex it will feel strange not seeing a thong or at least something lady like should i kick her to the curb ?

2007-01-23 08:20:31 · 10 answers · asked by huh 1 in Singles & Dating

Texas, Oklahoma, Mississippi, Georgia, Tennessee, and South Carolina. These are states where the girls are pretty and nice.

Also, California, Florida, Arizona, and Kentucky: these states have the prettiest girls that are also kind of b*tchy.

2007-01-23 08:19:28 · 29 answers · asked by lone_star_john 1 in Singles & Dating