im 15 and theres a girl at my school who i am realy good friends with but recently ive been having feeling for her. but ive decided not to ask her out because i dont want to ruin our friendship so ive been trying to keep distance from her for a while.
but i like to ice skate more than anything else and none of my other friends want to go with me... apart from this girl! what can i do now?
2007-01-23 08:25:24 · 13 answers · asked by mr happy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well.... tough situation. if u really REALLY like her, than go out with her. yes, if you guys break up it might seem a little bit akward and.. maybe not as fun as before. thats the risk though. if u are willing to take that risk to date her, than go for it!
if you dont want to take that risk, then maybe the 'feeling' will go away. you never know!
2007-01-23 08:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by ♥~♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you must ask her to go to ice skate with you.
If you are feeling for her and do not want to ruin your friendship then strengthen your friendship further. Going together to ice skate and doing other things together in a group or preferably just the two of you is the way to go.
Before you express your feelings for her, find out more about her state of mind. Some of the questions you can ask her to find out if she has any feelings for you are :
1. Do you know those two are seeing each other, what do you think
2. Have you ever felt anything for a boy before
3. wonder what is it like to be in love
You can use subtle sentences to convey your feelings for her by saying things like
1. I am glad you agreed to come to ice skate with me alone
2. I like it when I am with you more than being with other mates
3. You are very a very special person to me.
4. I wish we were both grown up
Good luck
2007-01-23 16:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by tony01p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are good friends with this girl what is the harm in going ice-skating with her. You can spend a lot of time with her without getting too heavy. There are lots of cases where girls and guys get together at a young age and have a good relationship. Just take things easy and see how it goes. Enjoy yourself, enjoy being with her. Best of luck. By the way I met my husband when I was 15. Still together many many years later.
2007-01-23 16:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, because if you stay away to long she might think that you don't like her at all. If she knocks you down, at least you tried.
It'd hard being 15 and starting a relationship with a girl.
If you both like skating then you have something in common and that is always a good starting point.
Take her skating and ask her out there, you will feel comfortable doing the thing you both like.
Good luck, and I hope it all works out.
2007-01-23 16:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. This is tricky. First of all I can GUARANTEE if you make a mistake with this chick you will beel really gutted, but that it will pass. I promise. So if you do fcuk it up, please don't worry. So you're friends with this girl. Cool. What if she's there thinking the same thing about you and she doesn't want to say it to you, just like you are thinking about her? How cool would that be! If you know she's got eyes for someone else then as hard and painful as it's gonna be you've gotta leave it. You've gotta wait till she realises that other dude ain't as cool as you. But if not, you've gotta look at yourself, realise how cool you are and how much you've gotta offer a chick like her, and be confident. Then you've gotta ask her if she wants to hang out at the ice rink with you, and that you think the two of you would have a really good time there. And when she turns up man, just be really happy to see her, ask her loads of questions about the things you don't know about her, then later on tell her how much you care about her and why, what makes her special to you. The little things you notice about her that makes her so likeable and why you feel so lucky to know her. Good luck brother, and remember if it all goes wrong you will never feel sad forever and there's 3,100,000,000 girls in the world, unless you've met them all don't be downhearted when one you like doesn't like you as much. Rock on man.
2007-01-23 16:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by Marcbolanboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her to go ice skating with you as a friend not as a date and see how it goes.
2007-01-23 16:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by CHRIS P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep on avoiding her you WILL lose your friendship but if you tell her how you feel it only MIGHT affect your friendship. So tell her - you have nothing to lose and she may even feel the same way back.
Avoiding her is only making you miserable - you miss skating and I bet you miss her too. Good luck ;)
2007-01-23 16:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. Your friends and you'll spend time together and your feelings will only grow. The worst she can say is no..it may hurt, but it's better than to it than to let your feelings go unnoticed. If she says no, then just take it as a no she won't date you, don't mention it again and continue being friends.
2007-01-23 16:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she would like to go ice skating with you
2007-01-23 16:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by pandora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't cuz unless you are sure how you feel it could be misleading and if she is your friend, you wouldn't want to hurt her.Do the right thing by your frind and don't get her emtions messed up. If you care about her then protect her emtions and reamin friends
2007-01-23 16:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by java348 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋