My fiance was recently laid off work and has had little to no change in his daily activities. He's home during the day taking friends to work and playing video games in his spare time. What makes matters worse is that I'm 7 months pregnant with out first child. Work is becoming increasingly difficult and not to mention stressful. He gets angry with me because I try to help with Job searching- he says I'm telling him what to do and that makes him feel like a child. But if I don't, he does nothing. He was supposed to start a new job this month but it doesnt look likely to happen for a while. He's waiting to "get in" to the union. So for now, I'm stuck paying bills while he sits at home waiting for a phone call I feel will never come. What do I do? His mother says, cancel the cable-ok but we have DTV so they'll charge me an arm & a leg to reconnect it. I'm so lost and confused....
2007-01-23 08:28:56 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Looks like you are going to have two babies on your hands, and the older baby will be the real problem. The good news is, he is your fiance... not your husband. Leave. When he gets a job, then be willing to talk to him again. When he has to pay for his own cable TV, his lazy butt will get off the couch and start looking for a job.
2007-01-23 08:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a deadbeat.
He should be greatful that you are trying to help him find a job. But the fact is he is happier playing games and watching TV. You are pregnant and do not need the additional worries. Tell him to get a job
2007-01-23 08:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get his act mutually. tell him you're concerned about the monetary situation because you've a touch one on the way. And it is probably real about the union. some places gained't employ you till you're a union member. yet he needs to be actively doing something to assist out, no longer purely playing video games. interior the propose time, you may propose, no longer call for, that he check out a temp corporation or get a component-time pastime of a few type till he receives into the union and would bypass into finished time artwork back. that is a fragile situation, yet you want to confer with him and enable him understand how a lot this bothers you and how worried you're.
2016-10-16 00:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by filonuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he should dump you. have you ever heard of stand by your man? do you think he wants to be in the situation he is in? I hope you leave him so he can show up on your doorstep someday and give you a "big mistake" moment. You need a lesson or two on compassion and dealing with adversity. And who are you anyway? why don't you have a better job? can't you earn more? did you not go to school or work hard to get a better position in life? you should be able to sustain the household. so you pay bills...big deal. just because you want to sit on your *** and have him pay the bills, don't go crying to the world. get yourself a better job!
2007-01-23 09:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by keepingitgoing 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If i were you in your situation i would stay with him because he's the father of your child and he may turn around... I'd give him some time to find a job and things might turn around and get better..If you love him then stay with him but if he keeps it up threaten to leave and if he loves you enough he'll turn his act around
Kinsley
2007-01-23 10:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kinz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go easy give him a chance pressure is negative.try not to let little things bug you be light smile,
2007-01-23 08:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by s2or3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋