there is agirl at my school who i really like. i think she like me too but im not sure. we talk a little, every so often but nothing serious. how do i know if she likes me. if she does not then how do i get her to like me.
2007-01-23 08:24:55 · 26 answers · asked by lori s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have the same question about boys. if i were you, just one day when ur talking to her, ask who she likes, if she wont tell you, then ask if its someone u know, and keep asking stuff like that until finally u ask if its u. thats how i would want a guy to find out if i liked him. and if she says no, dont be too disapointed because she very well might like you, and is too afraid to tell you.
OR
have one of ur friends who is one of her friends find out from her friend and then tell you. both ways seem to work, or so i think. lol
2007-01-23 08:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by simplicity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to her, there is no mature way around it. However, you do not have to be direct and ask here if she likes you. That played out in elementary school. Find out what activities she likes or where she hangs out and then start showing up there. That will give you more time to interact with her. Sooner or later you will get use to be around each other and one of you will be comfortable enough to ask the other out. Or you could do it the hard way and ask her out? I'd say to be safe, just find out her interests. Therefore if you are wrong, you haven't put yourself out there.
2007-01-23 16:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to do something not considered a date - like studying or going to the library, etc. If she accepts then see how that goes. After a while just tell her how you feel and she will let you know if she feels the same
2007-01-23 16:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by mellen1978 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is the best way and it ALWAYS works: ask her if she wants to hang out with you sometime like in a group of people (preferably mutual friends) and have a "group date." It'll give you a chance to see how she acts outside of school and if things get weird, your friends are there to make it ok and keep the awkward pauses from occuring.
2007-01-23 16:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Nic Jones 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She can't get her to like you, perhaps you can get her interested. I suggest you talk to her about something she is interested in like the type of music she likes, or movies she like. Then afterwards you can ask her to some place she likes to go or to some movie or event. Maybe you can start off going with friends or just ask her out to a date.
2007-01-23 16:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, you can not get a girl to like you. But if you want to find out, you should ask her out. I am going to assume you are under 21, so asking her to drinks would prob be out of the question... so maybe ask her out to a place your friends and her's hang out?!? ORRR, you could totally do the old fashion, slip her a note with "do you like me, circle yes or no" on it, that seems to never fail!
2007-01-23 16:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Seth R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her at lunch, or if you don't have the same lunch hour, then ask her to "study" with you after school. Then you can get a better idea for yourself. It will also make you more comfortable when "actually asking her out".
2007-01-23 16:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way too find out is to ask her out but if you are not sure. there is no way to get her to like u but u could try and become friends first so she feels comfortable with u, get to know what u are all about and hopefully gain ur trust. good luck
2007-01-23 16:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm.... think, think.... I know how! Stop talking to her and wait and see, if she makes an effort to talk to you first... and make sure that if she does, you give her a friendly hug- see if she hugs you back... then tell her that you wanted to see, if she really values you.... this would be the time to tell her how you really feel. Voila! Sounds easy- like Hollywood.....lol, but try.
2007-01-23 16:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so first of all you better be a guy... but if your a girl you really need some help... but if u r a guy then tell her how you feel... i mean i know alot of people would probebly say that but it really helps!!! if she thinks your a dweeb then just deal with it and go for the girl you KNOW likes ya!!! im sure your and awesome sweet guy...
2007-01-23 16:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by *abbylicious* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋