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He broke up with me(he thinks i'm a bit clingy and high maintenance) and i never did anything bad to him. Why does he act like i did terrible things to him? does that mean he still cares or doesnt care at all. Now he's all "yeah, she's psycho" when someone teases him or mentions me. And he offered what not to look for in a girl which were specific references to me.

I cant believe i even thought getting back together with him maybe after 2 or 3 or 6 months or so. I thought he'd come crawling back since he's not popular at all. He never had any female friends, let alone girlfriends. But now that i know he's saying all these nasty things about me, i dont think he'll ever beg his way back. What do u think? Did guys ever come back after they were this mean to you?

2007-01-23 08:18:07 · 28 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

28 answers

If he called me that, it would be justified.

2007-01-23 08:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

But when he says "psycho" does he smile and a twinkle come into his eyes?! Kidding! Well, seems to me, a fella, that this fella is resentful of you in some way. Maybes as you say, having not a great deal of popularity, he feels the loss of your relationship much heavier, but instead of moving towards you in reconciliation, he is moving away from you by placing ignorant remarks against you. Who is the real loser of this break-up? And do you want to be part of a relationship with such potential hostility, really? Even as a friend, he is doing you no favours, and other people will see and recognise that too, so don't worry! I think you're better off without, even if that is tough for the moment-stick with your real friends, kiddo!
Hope this helps!
Shane

2007-01-23 08:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by frosty_taz 2 · 0 0

No one likes a clingy person, and you maybe a little to high maintenance for him. You need to really think about the things you was doing and stop categorizing it as bad. I believe you will see what he sees it is called "empathy" try putting yourself in his shoes. As far as the name calling he is still a little immature and is proving something to his friends he will get over it don't let it bother you. Don't think about getting back with him you two aren't good for each other you maybe a little bit more mature than he is you all are on different levels. It worked when it did and now it is time to move on good luck.

2007-01-23 08:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 1 0

He seems really immature. You can't even have a conversation with a guy that is immature, let alone a relationship. I can see why he doesn't have any girl friends. You can't talk to the guy without him talking about someone else or trying to make himself look better then everyone else. That drives me crazy! Nobody is perfect, and the people that think they are have way more wrong with them then you know. I know my boyfriend always puts me down when he is feeling down. It makes him feel better about himself, and he admitted it!!! Find a guy that you can actually talk to. And if you did find another guy, watch how much he talks about you then.

2007-01-23 08:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by KAB128 1 · 0 0

You don't need him!
He sounds very insecure and immature, and talking bad about you is his way of feeling cool in front of his buddies.
If he really cared about you, he wouldn't do things to hurt your feelings and reputation.
The best revenge would be to ignore him and move on. Even if he does come crawling back, now you know how spiteful and cruel he really is--don't put up with that crap.
Try to forget him and find someone better! I bet he'll really be jealous when he sees you with someone new.

2007-01-23 08:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by The Sweetness ASU 5 · 0 0

You're being primed by a volatile, controlling nasty bit of work. Believe me, if you have any self respect, which I know is a delicate issue when you're young, please break all contact with this loser. If I could transport you ten years from now, you would more than likely be confronted with a nasty, wife beating jail fodder, who, if he did in deed have dependants would neither be able or feel the need to support them, and use them primarily to un-leash his venom. In other words, this man is a trainee predator and people like him need a victim, don't be his. You said it yourself when you said, no-one likes him, there's a reason for that. Please sweetheart, be kind to yourself, and save yourself from pain. This man/boy has no respect for you, will never have respect enough for anybody, don't be his dumping ground, you're better than that.

2007-01-23 08:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by itchy.crack i 3 · 0 0

Why are you expecting him to come back to you in the first place? He already made it clear that you are not his type. But it doesn't mean that it is end of your world. He maybe jealous of your popularity or trying to cover his own fault. Whatever he is trying to do, his behaviors are not for gentlemen. He is just being sour and bitter. So why don;t you just forget about him and move on. Just be yourself. A better guy will come along to you.

2007-01-23 08:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by cal 3 · 1 0

No he is not going to try to get back together with you. You might want to remember some of the stuff he has said as well since there might be some truth to it. Most guys hate a girl that always has to be their center of attention and never gives a guy time for himself.

2007-01-23 08:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Steveo 4 · 1 0

He sounds like a punk who knows you are too good for him so he was afraid of not doing right by you so instead just ran like a coward and is now trying to make himself look good in front of his friends at your expense.
I would tell him to grow up and stop his little lies or you will tell everyone something nasty about him that is true.Even if you don't know something that is he will still be skittish about it cause he is a weak little coward and most likely stop in fear of being ridiculed.

2007-01-23 08:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0 0

wait..WHY WOULD YOU WANNA GO BACK OUT WITH HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE?! he is disrespecting you and NO one should take that kind of crap from anyone! and if he breaks up wiht you for no reason, and uses some lame excuse like "clingy" that means he wants to go out wiht another girl. he just needed an excuse. trust me. he is not going to be faithful in a relationship. he is like all other teen boys right now. all they want is sex sex sex and a hott gf. so i think it's best you move on! well i hope i helped and good luck!

2007-01-23 08:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

guys cant exspress anger well in situations where they still have feelings for the girl or woman. dont even think about taking him back, this type of reaction he is having just prooves that 1 he is immature and 2 maybe hes the crazy one

2007-01-23 08:21:13 · answer #11 · answered by DOMINATUS 3 · 0 0

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