My gf told me that her grandma was gonna kick her out at the end of the school year...so she could live with me some how. Im 17 soon going to be 18 and I still live with my aunt but im planning on moving away or out when im 18...and my gf she is still 16 is there anyway she could live with me if I get an apt. could she with me at that age is it possible? I live in CT so I dunno about the laws if its illegal or not....I really do love this woman a lot and im willing to do anything for her even if it means bustin my *** off working and goin to school and supporting her and working towards making a better life for ourselves.
2007-01-23 08:11:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First, I 'd like to say that I think it's noble what you're trying to do.
Unfortunately, I couldn't really tell you about the legality of the situation. Thought I'm fairly certain it's illegal, since 16 is still a minor and 18 is an adult. Is her grandmother her only legal guardian? If so, and she kicks her out, I honestly doubt that she'll report your relationship to the police.
Also, remember this, it is noble that you're willing to bust your *** for this girl....but she better be willing to do the same for you.
Good luck, I hope you find your answer.
2007-01-23 08:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by allthree 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think ur gf`s grandma is wrong 2 do that if ur gf is 16 but u must do what is best 4 da both of u so i think u should get let her more in there is no reason why she can`t live with u she is right age 2 more out of her grandma`s house and more in with u so let her move in and it wil make know that u really care and love her so much and i think she wil love u more than ever but not in a nasty way . i think u r more of a men than any other men becuase u r standin by the 1 person u love and care 4 and all men should b like that and not do any thibk like that so u and gf wil very happy and u both wil love and care more about each other so go for it no 1 can stop u and ur gf from been happy so u just 4 it well done 4 standin by da 1 u love nice 1
2007-01-23 08:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should call the local welfare department or child protective services and talk with your aunt or another close adult before you make that decision definite. For sure your girlfriend needs a stable home, and obviously, if what you're saying is true, it's not with grandma. It's noble of you to step up to the plate, but that's an awful lot of responsibility for you to take on yourself. It maybe seems ideal to you and your girlfriend right now but moving in together out of need is not a good idea. You're both so young. What happens if one or both of you decide(s) to break up? Don't convince yourself that it's impossible. It's possible. Moving in together at such a young age and for such reasons can destroy a relationship. Not trying to sink your boat. The best thing you could do for her and yourself is to help her find the help she needs. If she has any adult relatives she is close to, she should also talk with them about what's going on. Surely there has to be a better answer for you both than this. You both need some time to mature and develop your relationship further. Good luck.
2007-01-23 08:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very noble thing you are asking. Men like you do not come along a lot; your aunt would be proud of you.
HOWEVER, don't do it.
Go to school and get your education. Perhaps an alternative would be to have your gf ask your aunt if she can stay there.
This girl needs to get her education too.
The reason I say this is that you are very young and you may, you know, break up with her. And really, where does that leave *her*? The loving, mature thing would be to make stable arrangements for her to live somewhere so that you can both go to school.
With the mature and loving attitude that you already display, you will go far!
2007-01-23 08:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by autimom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out the reason that she is going to kick her out in the first palce? and no she can not move in with at that age she needs to finish school and go to college and make something of her self. your 17 and she is 16 that is way to young to move in with each other. His her grandma NUTS ? and where is her PARENTS at?. maybe this girl is telling you this beacuse she dose not like her grandmas rules? and if so then the girl need to find a place to live with adults and have some rules to follow about dating a man who is just moving out on his own and attending school.
2007-01-23 08:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by cindy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this might properly be a vast step to take, yet whilst she is getting kicked out and could have not have been given everywhere to stay, then maybe she might desire to. in case you opt to renowned legally have her communicate with a college counselor or see if she would be in a position to get emancipated. you're the two very youthful and living with somebody demands a large style of dedication. in case you plan on helping her, it particularly is a huge duty, you ought to pay the lease and positioned foodstuff on the table. i comprehend a large style of grown-united stateswhich have a tricky time doing it!
2016-11-01 02:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see why it would be illegal..if your 18 and she's 16 the only way to get in trouble with the law is if you sexually abuse her or some sort [ anything sexual and she press charges against you ] but if you two are going out that's fine and plus when she's 16 she is already old enough to drop out of school...well that's all i know .goodluck and i hope i helped?
2007-01-23 08:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK to the grandmother yourself.
If what your girlfriend is saying is true ask grandma (if granny has custody) if she would be willing to assist in emancipating your gf.
Grandma sounds like a real bytch
I can see why your gf would want to leave.
Lucky that your gf has you!
2007-01-23 08:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are your parents?
2007-01-23 09:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋