she is born a "female" but lately she has been acting more man-lier than ever..and insists she might really be a man..trapped in a woman's body..and im unsure of how to deal with this..
2007-01-23 08:39:58 · 15 answers · asked by almost an avril 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is there for you to deal with? Sounds like she is the one with the identity problem. If you are her friend, you'll just be there for her. Even if she becomes a he.
2007-01-23 08:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Omni D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, If she wants to believe this than she obviously knows something inside her that she only just begun to show.All you can do is ask her to help you understand whats going on inside of her and be a the best of a friend you can by at least trying to understand.Life is not always easy for people and sometimes they just need help from those that care for them to get them on the right track.
2007-01-23 16:44:52 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just act how you would normally sure he or she might be more likley hanging with the guys but you should just find more girly friends and if she convinces herself that he or she isn't a man after all you can still be her or his friend
2007-01-23 16:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Shanno Bannano*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to see a therapist and possibly even be tested for man chromosomes.
2007-01-23 16:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by degendave99 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be her friend. What's the worst that can happen? Be there for her and talk to her. If she's gay, and if you have no objections to that lifestyle, she could use your support.
2007-01-23 16:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she might gay. Deal with it. It's who she is.
2007-01-23 16:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a her good friend......with the passage of time her mental state will settle down
2007-01-23 16:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by garry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with that? everyone has a bit of the opposite sex in them! she's just a tomboy..
2007-01-23 16:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by Noelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out on a date.
2007-01-23 17:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dammit man don't you jest hate when that happens
2007-01-23 16:43:32 · answer #10 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋