I never seen to do anything right! I had a good job and quit cause i can in drunk and cursed out my boss. (weekend drinking to forget a woman) Always getting caught cheating. I lost the love of my life cause i just couldnt stop lying to her. Finally got caught. And worst part is that i really do love her. I was going to ask her to marry me. She even help me to go back to school, (while she put her life on hold) just for me. How can i be such a bastard? I feel like the scum of the earth. What makes stupid bastards like myself do things like this?
2007-01-23 08:32:32 · 8 answers · asked by Javier S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You mess up your life because you are selfish and rude and apparently have no true, real feelings for the "love of your life".
You may become a man one day, if you try really hard to change and grow up.
2007-01-23 08:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no need for me to tell you that you are a rat because you are doing a pretty good job of that yourself!!!!
Now you know, turn your life around & never cheat again
You should have just went home to your woman instead of another one & you would not be in this position, treat your woman like a princess & she will 9 times out of 10 be like she was when you first started to date her . Remember how you put your best foot forward when you met her & showed her you were a good guy? well that is how to treat her always dont act mean
& she will be real loving & you wont need another
& don't turn to alcohol to ease your pain join a sports club or volunteer to help people & find another job & tell yourself you will never ever cheat again because really it is so easy just don't do it!!
2007-01-23 09:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know alot of people are too proud or ashamed but why dont you see a councilor to help you get back on track you've already made the first step by admitting you have a problem. Councilors are good cos they will remain objective whereas family and friends usually aren't.
That way she will most likely understand that you are serious about getting back with her and resolving all your issues, just make sure you tackle one problem at a time or you can easily go back to your old ways.
I wish you all the best on your journey and hope she will find it in her heart to forgive you.
2007-01-23 09:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you should decelerate somewhat and ask your self those questions. no human being can answer those questions, except for YOU! there are a selection of ladies who do a similar element as you...it is no longer something to experience embarrassment about, although, you may search for help. perhaps speaking with a therapist to ascertain what the underlying difficulty is will be very advantageous to you!
2016-10-16 00:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by filonuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats is not messing up your life. its u that accept it.
u see all things born to make their own history. u should consider things that is right for ur history. even if u messing your history, u will still get the "u messing your history" words into your background.
2007-01-27 07:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by chajen v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit with ur self and try to know ur disadvantge and convert it to good as good as u can and be good and then u go to her and try to make her believe that u are now good and u love her so much and make her feel that ur sorry is forever and romantic ( bec girls like that) and prove it have faith in God i hope my answer is good
2007-01-23 08:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have brought these upon yourself...What do you expect from us? Feeling sorry for you?
2007-01-23 08:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by Infinite 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because u don't realize what u have tell its gone
2007-01-23 08:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by c_schreel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋