I TOLD MY BOY FRIEND THAT I WAS PREGNANT, HE LOST IT HE THINKS IM CHEATING ON HIM... WHICH IM NOT!!!
HE THROUGH ME AGAINST THE BED AND STARTED BEATING ME, I HAVE A BLACK EYE AND I HAVE BRUISES EVERYWHERE!!!HE PUNCHED ME IN THE STOMACH REPEATEDLEY!!!
WHILE WE WERE ON THE BED HE SEXUALLY ASSUALTED ME, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I JUST WANNA KILL MYSELF RIGHT NOW....HE THREATENED TO KILL ME IF I TOLD ANYBODY....IM SO SCARED!!!!!!!I WANT IT ALL TO END....I DONT CARE HOW
2007-01-23 08:35:58 · 46 answers · asked by Exotic_Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, u just alert me and I'll launch my nuke on him...
Listen, u sound like u're REALLY in a lot of trouble... I suggest that if u think that ur bf should never beat u for whatever reason, u should just leave him...
But the info u gave here probably ain't enough for me to give u a good answer. For more advice IM me.
2007-01-23 08:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by andrei . c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting time telling us? First of all, leave him. Second, go directly to the emergency room and tell someone what happened. When the ask you if you want to file a police report, you say "yes!". They will arrest him for assault and he can't get to you if he's in JAIL. Do not drop the charges or they will let him out. If a judge asks if you need a restraining order, say "yes, because you are in fear of your life". Do not give me any of that crap about how you're "in love" and you're "sure he didn't really mean it". He beat you, raped you, and threatened to kill you. He doesn't love you!! As soon as he put his hands on you, he stopped being your boyfriend and became a threat to you're life. Leave him, file a police report, tell your family and friends, and get as far away from this psycho as possible. Don't screw around. Just do it! Now!
And if he tries to come after you, you kill him and plead self-defense. This is why you should tell your family and friends, so that you can have an alibi.
2007-01-23 08:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started not to answer this question. Its a really hard one. Everyone says call the cops. Does anyone watch Lifetime television? They always come back. I can understand why you would be scared. I think you should tell him its not his, let him leave you, then go on about your business with your baby. Then when the baby comes, get a test done, take him to court, then collect support from him. But, make sure when he leaves you, you get a restraining order against him. Then when the babies born, he cant come near either of you because of the order. And if you decide to stay with im and let him abuse you, your an idiot, and he'll do it to your kid too.
2007-01-23 08:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by punky brewster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st think of your unborn child.....do you want this to happen to her/him when the baby comes, think of the baby.
2nd. I know enough about criminal justice to tell you he could be gotten for attempted fetacide for beating you in the stomach. Also, aggravated sexual assualt carries a life sentance in my state. Threatening to kill you is terroristic threats. I am sure the wonderful officers that take your report can come up with a bunch of other charges to slap on him. I see this almost on a daily basis and they NEVER change.
Go to the emergency room if you wont go anywhere else.
Please get help.
You are worth living and your baby is too. Don't let that loser cheat you out of the life you deserve to be living.
GET HELP NOW. PLEASE
2007-01-23 08:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by bex920 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call yoru family to come get you, or your friend or someone, if not call the police asap, number one D.V. not good for that he will be charge for that also sexually assualted you that mean unwanted sex but force that is rape and punched you int he stomach that is trying to kill that baby.
so call police if you feel your life and tell them that he try to kill you if you told someone... that four charges v.s. him... and then have them check out the baby and find out who is the father if baby still alive and until after it born and then you will find out and if he is the father guess what he will be so sorry for what he done to you.
so hope this helps. if you wait any longer it might be dead by the time you get help. get help now.
2007-01-23 08:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you would be wise to go to a women's shelter and stay there for a while to get your life back on track. These shelters offer women a safe haven from abusive relationships. They can also arrange for a lawyer to speak with you in regards to the injuries you received and lay charges against the assaulter if you wish. They will also escort you to a hospital if your injuries require medical attention. If and when possible to get out of the house without your partners knowledge you'd be very wise to do and to seek shelter at one of these residences. Nobody has any right to assault or attempt to control anyone else and you'd be wise to get out of this relationship as soon as possible. You now have a baby to look after also and need to be strong so please believe me that things will improve in your life if you do some of the footwork to make it possible. Best of luck and I do wish you much safety.
2007-01-23 08:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen u need to calm down, call a good friend of yours and have her come over , u need to go to the police because he can hurt that baby. The police will not let him hurt u no matter what he says to u. just have your friend there to support u. That baby should be your 1 concern right now not him, he does not ever have the right to hit u. u need to seek medical care right now to make sure u and the baby r fine, please e mail me if u need anything
2007-01-23 08:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by c_schreel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NEXT TIME? Next time you could be dead. Get out, call someone, go to the police and ask to be referred to a women's shelter. The police will escort you to the house to get your stuff. Don't rely on friends or family to go with, they might make things worse by running their mouths.
Always have somebody present when you have to deal. If you have the baby, definately list him as the father so you can go for child support....You don't have to have him present for that, but if you don't, the state probably won't let you file for it against him. He is just trying to get rid of the baby by hurting you now. "I'm sorry" shouldn't be an option for you to accept from this guy- He belongs in jail.
Please- Get out!! Make a report- Quick.
2007-01-23 08:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by juicy13500 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, we just have to see who is the father of your child when he takes the DNA result after a child is born.
Hey, looks like you can go on the Maury's Show or Jerry Springer's Show on one of the topic "I'm 1zillion percents sure that he's the father of my child" then when the DNA result says "He's not the father" that means you still have "1 billion percents left", then you can still open your list of men that you have slept with and try to figure out who's the DADDY.
Hopefully, that child will find his/her father some day.
2007-01-23 08:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! I would be scared to my mom has been married 5 times cause of being beat.I would take you and your black eye and bruises to the police and tell some one NOW! then go to the docters and see if the baby is o.k!
2007-01-23 08:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋