Should I tell his new girlfriend he is lying to her?

Question

I was with my ex for three years and I have a beautiful little girl now; however, I have a question regarding her dad. Right now we are on good terms socially but he has not been the best with financial support. He lives out of state and jumps job to job rairly paying childsupport. RIght now it is getting garnished; however, i never will know when he leaves a job.
I know the password to his email and only check it for employment purposes, to see where he is working or looking for new work so that I can maybe find out so that his wages can be garnished.
He has a new girlfriend and emailed her his resume to print for him for an interview. I looked at the resume and he was lying bad about his past. I know that he did this when I was with him and I never really new the truth about him. With me he ended up just living off of me and I supported us.
Should I tell her so that she doesn't get taken advantage of?

Answer 1

Yes you should! Put yourself in her shoes, would you want to know if you were being taking advantage of?

Answer 2

First of all, does he have the password to YOUR email account? Stay out of the man's business. The only thing you should be worrying about is how much your getting a month in child support. Take him to court!

Answer 3

Yes, i would not let someone take advantage again of someone else...but don't direct her about it first off, talk to her for awhile then slowly bring up his past and she what she does then tell her off how he took adavangte of you and lied about his past tell her he is doing the same thing to her and show her the resume and stuff...that might help good luck

Answer 4

I know the feeling about wanting to warn somebody about making a mistake, but most of the time it is theirs to make and learn from. You somehow end up being the one who looks like you want to cause problems. Hopefully she'll learn and see the signs before it's too late.

Answer 5

Nah, let her find out on her own. That way, you don't look like the ex who can't let go of him. Also, if he finds out that you know his info for his e-mail, then he will make sure you don't find out if he has a job, or where it even is. Just keep to yourself, and let the new girl experience him in her own way.

Answer 6

Hmmmm, you want to tell her he is lying to get a job to support your child? I think You may want to create drama. Also. Isn't this the pot calling the kettle black? How honest are you by snooping? Grow up and take care of that baby.

Answer 7

You go girl! Inform on the no good conning ****! Don't let another woman have happen to her what he's done to you. I'm sick of hearing friends tell me similar stories about sperm donors who call themselves Daddies but do not contribute to the child's upbringing. Good Luck!

Answer 8

I wouldnt tell her as it will jeopardise the already amicable relationship ex, and keeping it that way is in the best interest for your child and yourself.
She has chosen to enter a relationship with him and is a grown woman and will have to deal with whatever consequences may occur, as you did.
So remember your child and yourself are no.1 priority no one else. best wishes

Answer 9

A) She probably wouldn't believe you...she'd think you were just jealous.

B) If you screw with his life, you can kiss cooperation in terms of child support goodbye.

I'd just let this lady learn her own lessons. Worry about you.

Answer 10

you need to stay out of it, stop checking his email without his permission because he can turn on your a*s for doing stupid crap like this. and let the state deal with him paying child support. i think you are just being obsessive and you can't let him go. you want to know what's going on with his ex and him..and you can't do that.