A 53 YEAR OLD MAN WAS SEEING MY DAUGHTER (HAVING A SEX AND DRUG RELATIONSHIP) UNTIL HER MOM SAID HE IS NO GOOD AND STOP SEEING HIM. OUR DAUGHTER IS 32. MY EX WIFE THEN STARTS SEEING HIM AT WHAT LEVEL I'M NOT SURE, BUT I KNOW SHE DID DRUGS)METH) AND HIS VEHICLE IS OVER AT HER HOUSE SOMETIMES QUITE LATE. MY THINKING ON THIS IS SHE IS NOT SHOWING ANY RESPECT FOR OUR DAUGHTER AND NONE FOR HERSELF. OH, ONE OTHER THING IS THERE ARE 3 GRANDKIDS INVOLVED ALSO. NEED SOME REAL HONEST INPUT. THANKS
2007-01-23 08:41:54 · 17 answers · asked by Michael B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is just nasty!!
There are some social rules that are not written anywhere, but this is one of them. People wonder why our society is so messed up these days. This is a fine example.
Those poor grand kids who have to see this kind of stuff going on is the ones who need to find somewhere else to live.
My thoughts...
2007-01-23 08:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a bad situation which gets worse because there are drugs involved around small kids. Respect does not even come into the picture because there appears to be none. I say get those grandkids out of that environment ASAP.
2007-01-23 08:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's disgusting but what can you do about it....they're all adults. Support your daughter and grandchildren as much as possible. When the man is visiting your ex-wife, call DEA and say you see a lot of traffic in and out of the house and you expect that the man is dealing drugs.
2007-01-23 08:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are drugs involved why are you not calling child services to get your grandchildren away from this horrible situation. Who cares if a mother should be dating someone her daughter has dated previously, your priorities should be the safety and well being of your 3 grandchildren and not who is dating who.
2007-01-23 08:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, this is a nasty stuff. You better confront her and make her understand about this disgusting act. As a mother( which I'm sure, she's not deserve the name ) she should be ashamed, specially with a daughter involve, WOW !.if none of this works, you guys should leave her dumb****alone.
2007-01-23 09:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unfortunatly there is nothing you can do about it unless the grandchildren are around when your daughter or ex wife does drugs.Then you might not want to do anything then cuz once you get the state involved its constant and chaotic.So i would just talk to them and tell them what they are doing is wrong.
2007-01-23 08:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by samwise25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom oftentimes gave advice, that does no longer imply I constantly listened (God is conscious I wish I had of a minimum of each and every so often). My daddy died while i replaced into 12 however the only component he ever mentioned that somewhat caught out is "stay as long as you are able to and die once you won't be able to help it...I oftentimes save on with that advice (if that's what it replaced into) via residing to the fullest...
2016-12-16 11:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...that is a really nasty situation....hopefully the dtr and the grandkids don't live there....I would also be very leery about her taking care of the grandkids at all....she obviously is back into the drug thing and having a good time for herself....very bad...good luck
2007-01-23 08:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you beleive that your grandchildren are around illegal drugs then you need to act on their behalf right now. Call Child services and have them removed from the home!
2007-01-23 08:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by Moosha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED A GOOD LAWYER AND A WAY TO GET THOSE KIDS OUT OF DANGER. THIS IS NOT THE PLACE FOR SERIOUS ISSUES. MOST OF THE QUESTIONS HERE ARE "MY BF OF 3 DAYS DUMPED ME BUT SAID WE CAN STILL BE FRIENDS. HOW DO I DO THAT?", POSTED BY 14-YEAR OLDS.
2007-01-23 08:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anne Jovie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋