Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

is this true? i found it on some website.


"Finally, if you have been served with divorce papers you only have 30 day’s to respond. (in some states 10 days) if you do not respond your spouse will get everything she has asked for. If there are children, you could lose forever your right to have a substantial visitation relationship with your kids. The worst thing you can do is nothing at all!. By not responding you are giving up a number of your significant rights as a father."


also i have your opinion to ask. if you just had your first little girl 10 days ago and you caught your husband asking for naked pictures of underage girls online, having cyber sex with them and masterbating to them, and find saved webcam videos of little kids having sex,and turn him into the police, do you think he should be allowed supervised visitation with the child? i dont think my husband should but a lot of people are telling me i'm being selfish. i just want to see other opinions

2007-01-22 17:27:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, maybe I'm just havin a bad day BUT is it really fair to be a women? We get the risks of getting pregnant, pain during labor, our "horribel friend" each month,Mood swings, menopause, getting "saggy" while the men know matter what they look like still chase and desire younger, ect,ect,ect UGH lol...... my good friend just found out her husband of 25 yrs is having a affair w/a girl whos 20 yrs younger then him, and it's jsut made me think of all we do & go threw for men... for what??? lol I dont date, im 26 and single, live my content little life, mostly for reasons like this, maybe im insane.. BUTTTTT dontcha just think we go threw ALOT and it seems were not respected or deserving for it????? MEN go threw WHAT???? seriously? what

2007-01-22 17:27:25 · 24 answers · asked by dntwannahearurshlt 1 in Singles & Dating

i want my cousin to tickle my feet.. but i dont know how to get him to do it..

2007-01-22 17:24:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hello, I just heard about an adoption situation where the potential birthmother is planning to parent one baby and make an adoption plan for the other. This to me seems really, really sad that the babies can't stay together, and that such a very special bond will be broken. On the other hand I admire her for seeing and admitting that she is unable to parent two babies at this point of her life. I guess it's better for them to be separated and both have wonderful lives, then for them to remain in a situation that the Mom can't handle. Does anyone know of any psychological effects they may suffer from later in life due to this? What do you think?

2007-01-22 17:24:17 · 1 answers · asked by calgaryjenhere 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Anyways, I am wondering if I should get out of this relationship (we have a child) before my self esteem and sanity, go right out the window. He is always "forgetting" what I ask or say to him, yet he will remember anything to do with sexual activity.
He never listens to me unless the word sex in it, otherwise Im talking to a brick wall.
The only thing that will send his temper through the roof (and he will make me look like the bad guy) is if you refuse to have sex with him, anything else doesnt even come close.
When I was 8 months pregant, he tried to kill me by strangulation (he makse it sound less serious than it was) I gave him a second chance (i know stupid), to this day he doesnt show any remorse for it, he just says "sorry" with no real emotion.
Looking back for the last 3 years, I have realised that I wasnt ever happy,just "rolling over"....I want out, I have told him and he threatens to take my son away. I dont know what to do, cause I am a stay home mom.

2007-01-22 17:23:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Been happily married 16 yrs to a great guy who is VERY sweet,loving,affectionate,kind and very good to me anyways late last january 1 night when he went down to the local store phone rang it was a girl she ask if ronny was home and when i said no who is this she hung up on me immediately. Well for a few months i question him and he said many many times that he didnt know anything about the call and i totally believe him cause he is a good man,great husband and would never cheat on me cause he loves me more then anything and i am his whole life says that to me all the time BUT i cant get this call off of my mind and i dont know why..Like i said i totally believe him..Im just interested in seeing what other people have to say about this.

2007-01-22 17:23:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Theirs this girl that I like and Ive asked her out but she said she just wanted to be friend due to having a very bad experience. The guy dog'd her out after 2 weeks. and it was her first relationship. I just thought about asking her out for valentines day and then to buy her a gift but not sure what to get her. Or should I not get her something. Most likely we will be double dating with her roomate and my best friend who are a couple. send me a message if u need more info, all I need is the best possible advice. if your thinkin of birthstone, send me a message cause she might see this. Thanks,

2007-01-22 17:23:21 · 10 answers · asked by Mr. Thomas 3 in Singles & Dating

is there a problem with loving someone and wondering if they loved you back????? i really love this boy iam in an relationship with he makes me feel free to ask and tell him anything but the only problem is does he love me back and should i tell him how i feel and how iam i soposed to know IF he REALLY loves me when he say he does

2007-01-22 17:23:03 · 7 answers · asked by ms.sugar_lips 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 17:21:55 · 3 answers · asked by Vette girl 1 in Friends

2007-01-22 17:21:32 · 17 answers · asked by cindylu3000 2 in Singles & Dating

fake boobz everyone seems to fall in love with, the fact there big ti*tz but does that really matter? does that make her face or her personalities any better? i want u to tell me what u think.

2007-01-22 17:21:10 · 7 answers · asked by BigJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy, and I don't know what to do. A lot of my friends says he feels the same way. All the signs that everyone talks about are there. Such as he always looks me in the eyes when we talk, and when we are out with a group he seems to focus on me more. He always hugs me last, which my guy friend says is a good thing. He leaves messages for me saying things like "That's pretty hot" on photos. He spends time alone with me. I guess its mostly in the things he says, the comments he gives me. He told me that I need to turn 21 sooner so that "we" can go out. When we're out I'm told we already look like we're dating, which I could see and I have had people ask me "how's your boyfriend?" I think what is really confusing me is that most of all his friends are girls, or thats only who I hear about. And I just don't get it and how he acts around them. So am I getting good signs, bad signs or am I just wasting my time. Anyone have any help? PLEASE! I don't know what to do.

Additional Details
23 hours ago
He seems to enjoy spending time with me. I brought him back a gift from a vacation and asked me to spend the next day with him testing it out. He wants to take me out, or thats what I got from him saying that he wants me to turn 21 so we can go out.
23 hours ago
the age diffrence isn't much. I am 20 (21 soon) hes 22.
23 hours ago
What are signs a guy would give if he liked a girl, and what sign's should I give to him?
23 hours ago
Another detail, he never moves away from my touch. I have heard thats a good thing. Sometimes he would have the chance to move away from the touch, like if I pass something to him. And he never seems to move if I stand closer to him. Ect Ect. Ect.

2007-01-22 17:21:01 · 9 answers · asked by Ni-Kay! 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been having sex with this guy like for the past four months, has not asked me out since. he has on more then more one occasion said he wants to be with me but does not want to be in a relationship. Well recently we decided to both be just friends but after that decision we have had sex again. It is so hard for me to resist. Now we are just friends I realize how much i enjoy his company and how he makes laugh, etc. I feel deep down that he does want to be with me. I feel he does not want to explore his options before he commits. I dont know if he really wants to be with me or what i need sum guidance.

2007-01-22 17:20:59 · 5 answers · asked by anunya 1 in Friends

Been with her for 5yrs but cant get myself to move in with her.

2007-01-22 17:20:31 · 5 answers · asked by perfectcoolcamaro95 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi just general question but needing some details cause I need to know cause already asked my gf but need to ask the parents too but not sure the correct holy day and details like this. also having problems finding out about the legal paperwork for our marrage too. since i want to move over there and work and live with her and her family.

2007-01-22 17:17:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

II have been having sex with this guy like for the past four months, has not asked me out since. he has on more then more one occasion said he wants to be with me but does not want to be in a relationship. Well recently we decided to both be just friends but after that decision we have had sex again. It is so hard for me to resist. Now we are just friends I realize how much i enjoy his company and how he makes laugh, etc. I feel deep down that he does want to be with me. I feel he does not want to explore his options before he commits. I dont know if he really wants to be with me or what i need sum guidance.

2007-01-22 17:16:33 · 5 answers · asked by anunya 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy who is so not my type. the problem is he can't take a clue that i don't like him. he tries to flirt with me and stuff, and it's getting annoying.

i like a different guy. what do i do?

2007-01-22 17:14:34 · 40 answers · asked by teenqueen17 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend mom's cought me trying on bra panties?
i was going to the bathroom and she left her bra and panties haing in the bathroom so i tryed it on an she walk't in she started laughing she said it would be r secret, and said it was ok and she i can keep the bra and she said she wanted the panties back tho. do you think she'l tell anyone. she reaily hot shes like 29, 1m 14
And she gave me another pare uv her panties i keep them, should i have keep them or not

2007-01-22 17:13:48 · 27 answers · asked by mick 1 in Singles & Dating

I love a girl..but due to certain mistakes I am at the stage of loosing her..

.......some points
(1) She doesn't know me very well..
(2) She is a girl who doesn't want to involve in such things..but when I said so she was taking interest on me..but I expressed my feelings to her repeatedly , even I never gave any space to think much about me..and moved very fast... one day she said..please stop irritating me.
(3).She is really nice to everybody ..but very hard to me...always talk in the way that she has not a bit interest on me...I have no concern for your emotions.
(4)Somebody else is also interested on her...

help me how can I improve my relationship?She is far from me..studying..I am in job.
How can I know the relation status of that third person and her..

2007-01-22 17:13:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 30 and I met this dude that is 18 years old. We are seeing each other and have a good relationship. What do u think about us being together? My mother is tripping ,saying she is protecting me, that he is too young for me.

2007-01-22 17:13:00 · 16 answers · asked by teryl2930308 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for a while now and when he tells me he loves me, i just can't tell him it back. The thing is i really do love him! I don't know why it's not like i haven't told a guy i love them before. And i really don't think it's because of any trust issues i have. I admit i have trust issues but all of my trust issues are with girls. A guy has never given me a reason not to trust him.

Can anyone tell me why i just can't tell him I love him?

2007-01-22 17:12:39 · 6 answers · asked by Holly Ann 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My stepdaughter, "Lois," is 30 years old and has one young child. They have recently begun to visit us every Sunday. Each visit begins about 2 p.m., runs through dinner and ends well after 8 p.m. These are not visits by invitation.
Lois doesn't offer to help with cleanup or setup, nor does she bring a dish. In my family, we contribute. Sometimes a family member may ask us to help clear the table or put food away. Would it be considered improper etiquette to ask Lois to prepare a dessert for the next visit or help with the dishes? My husband thinks it is rude to ask this of anyone, no matter how many times they visit. I think a guest runs out of free meals after a while.
I don't mind the visits, but I'd appreciate a little help. Recently, Lois yelled, "See you next Sunday," as she left. What's your opinion? -- Help Wanted

2007-01-22 17:11:28 · 13 answers · asked by jeny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sorry, I am just curious. One day we were having a class. I was walking to the guy who liked me and noticed that he had an erection there. I pretended not seeing that. He found a jacket to cover that part. I didn't wear anything special that day. Just jeans and shirt. The only possible reason might be that I showed a little bit cleavage. But he has girlfriends before and we are in college not high school. Wasn't he too sensitive?

2007-01-22 17:10:58 · 10 answers · asked by Engels 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 17:10:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 40-year-old single mom. I work part time and am nearly finished with my college education. I am in love with "Michael." We have been living together for a year, and he is a great deal of help with my children.
Michael pays the majority of the bills with no complaints. He is a very successful businessman, extremely generous to my children, and he dotes on me. My problem is, Michael never wants to get married. He is content with the way our relationship is now. We have had the conversation about marriage several times, but I always end up frustrated and upset.
We have both been married before. Michael always knew my intentions were to be in a stable relationship that would end in marriage. Knowing this, he still maintains a relationship with me.
I know Michael loves me tremendously, as I do him. What now? Should I sacrifice my happiness and continue this near-perfect relationship, or should I give him an ultimatum? -- Driving the Wrong Way on a One-Way Street

2007-01-22 17:10:00 · 13 answers · asked by jeny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I caught my husband telling a 17 year old he would move her down here if we split up. Found the archives of the conversations the whole nine and yet he denied it. I was out of town when this occurred and in one of the instances where he swears he wasnt on, he was online with me and this girl at the same time. He is 29 and she is 17. There is more than just the moving in too.

2007-01-22 17:09:12 · 25 answers · asked by jls91380 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we were msging happily and then
she tells me she never hold hands or did anything intimate with her Ex before[she only had 1 ex]
So i told her her new school must have lotsa hunks and who knows which hunk she'll get to hold.

She never replied after that so i din bothered.
After 2 days,today i asked her about something and she nv reply too.
Did i say something which made her angry?

And there was once she msg me something urgent and i reply but she never msg back.
I msg her again days after and she replied but but responding to the question itself.


Wth is wrong?

2007-01-22 17:09:11 · 11 answers · asked by Evans 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my bf for a little over a yr now, and we have lived together for about 7 mo. and he is obsessed with knowin when i fart or take a ****. He was married before, so he says its no big deal, but i still feel wierd about it. Am I just being normal or what?

Thanks

2007-01-22 17:09:03 · 15 answers · asked by daddyzgrl4u05 2 in Singles & Dating

First off i cant find a right categorie for this question. With tthat out of the way my question. You see i have these two friends, That have parents who practice holistic medicine. well my parents seem to see that holistic medicine is fake if you will and that there dad is not a real doctor(i personally belive that to) but they seem to persive this as a barrier if you will there different then us because we belive in modern medicine(they do to but also holistic we dont belive holistic)now im stuck in the garage with my two friends who are my best friends were give each oter shirt off are backs kinda friends always looking out for each other.
but my parents wont let me stay at their house or at our house just outside or in the garage also their homeschooled

now... why cant they overcome this barrier like we can?

2007-01-22 17:09:00 · 3 answers · asked by JH 2 in Friends

He says that he still loves me but that its better that we are friends. He says that when we were dating he loved me but it was different. Yet we talk on the phone every night *he lives 3 hours away* and he still talks about being intimate and calls me pet names...Whats the deal?

2007-01-22 17:08:34 · 5 answers · asked by countrygurl 1 in Singles & Dating