II have been having sex with this guy like for the past four months, has not asked me out since. he has on more then more one occasion said he wants to be with me but does not want to be in a relationship. Well recently we decided to both be just friends but after that decision we have had sex again. It is so hard for me to resist. Now we are just friends I realize how much i enjoy his company and how he makes laugh, etc. I feel deep down that he does want to be with me. I feel he does not want to explore his options before he commits. I dont know if he really wants to be with me or what i need sum guidance.
2007-01-22 17:16:33 · 5 answers · asked by anunya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, open your eyes, he is using you for sex, and that is all you will be to him, if he really cared, he would ask you out, he would want a relationship. Stop before he breaks your heart, you deserve someone who really cares about you, and what YOU want.
2007-01-22 17:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is using you for the sex and doesn't plan on ever having a relationship. Move on and find someone new that wants you and wants a relationship hold off on the sex till then. good luck.
2007-01-23 01:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by njredgrl32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no situation. he using you for sex, that all he does not
want a realtionship but for the last 4 months you been haveing
sex. think about that. you deserve much better then that, you
need to leave him along and find some one that will respect
you and want the same things as you. he not the one,
2007-01-23 01:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel, i got the same problem! I actually addressed that question with 2 cosmo gurus...still waiting for a reply or a publishing in the mag. Good luck...
2007-01-23 01:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex for a girl creates a bond with the man she's with and she becomes eager to please him and be with him. Sex for a guy is just that....sex. Be his friend, laugh with him, don't push for a relationship. If it comes, it was meant to be. If it doesn't, he's still your friend.
2007-01-23 01:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by nicegirl6720 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋