Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

We're three years now with my boyfriend and i'm afraid to realize one day that we're not meant for each other..

2007-01-22 17:08:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 17:07:51 · 5 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 17:07:45 · 18 answers · asked by afroz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been asked to stand up next to my son as his "Bestwoman". His Dad passed away and he and I are best buds. I don't drink, won't consider a stripper but do not have a clue what to plan that will be not only enjoyable but memorable as well. Bridal shower I have no trouble with, but a bachelor party? I need some really cool ideas for food, fun, and entertainment. Please only serious people with good ideas reply. I would like to know about decorations, if any, location, time, day I just don't know. Thanks for the input

2007-01-22 17:06:50 · 13 answers · asked by Amethyst 1 in Weddings

and after the RESCUE do they still want her? Where does this come from in a mans brain, and what are they thinking?

2007-01-22 17:06:34 · 19 answers · asked by Destiny 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Its clear to me that guys nowadays are simply too lazy to get good jobs. And with more women becoming independant, men seem to think that they can just hitch a ride on the gravy train.

I dont mean any harm to anyone who doesn't do this but im sure there will be tons of wise cracks coming my way!

2007-01-22 17:04:42 · 8 answers · asked by Claude 6 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy I met briefly last year at a party who I liked, and I finally found him on myspace recently, so I sent him a message saying "hi and remember me."
Also, I noticed he had his profile set at "In a relationship."

I wrote him that I was coming to his town soon and I was going to ask him out to dinner, but now that I see he is taken so forget it.

He wrote back, "What, so you can't invite me to dinner now?"

Should I still invite him, or do you think he will get the wrong idea, and is he trying to cheat on his girlfriend?

I doubt he will tell her we are having a late dinner together.

2007-01-22 17:04:35 · 14 answers · asked by *nevermind* 1 in Singles & Dating

When I met my wife I knew she had 1 lover before me. She never talked about it and still doesn't. But I learned from her sister that he told her he loved her just to get her to sleep with him because she was a virgin. We have been married for 2 years now and the other night she looks at me and says, "I wish I was a virgin when I met you, that I would have saved myself for you."

Now I can't get this off my mind. Before now I was indifferent about the matter, now I'm not sure if I'm mad over someone taking advantage of her, or upset that she feels burdened over something like this?

I love her more than anything in this world. This hasnt changed our relationship in any way but I cannot bring myself to talk with her about it.

2007-01-22 17:02:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 17:02:39 · 35 answers · asked by Johnny 1 in Singles & Dating

Im still working on my goals.... I need to find something to be passionate about.

2007-01-22 17:01:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well i like this girl and i dont think she knows and this one time in class me and a class mate were talking and he brought up the fact that im gay and she over heard and she and her friends react and look at me and ask me your gay!?
and the girl i like asked me do u like anyone in this class and i smiled and said no not really..and this other time i caught her eye while she was looking at me and we had eye contact but i quickly looked down cause i was nervous, and in another situation i had green ear phones and she walked up(i didnt see her) and she touched them with her finger and said how cool,and in class we would look at each other and i noticed she would look at me and now in class she looks at me and i sometimes catch her eye(its the other way around too)and i like her but whats her body languge telling me(looking at me,smiling when i do something clumsy,and touching my ear phones)
oh im a girl and she has a b/f ....i know she might not be interested but what should i do.....

2007-01-22 17:01:17 · 3 answers · asked by pixie7 3 in Singles & Dating

Any help will be appreciated

2007-01-22 17:00:58 · 3 answers · asked by Blackjack 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have pains in my chest about 3 times a week but they go away. Ive been threw many tests and all have been fine. Im having it right now what should i do to take off some of the pain .It doesnt hurt when im sitting regularly just when i walk and have my chest out.

2007-01-22 17:00:49 · 9 answers · asked by johnny d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My last two boyfriends acted like I gave them a bomb when I gave them a nice picture of me in a frame. You would think I gave them a wedding ring the way they acted. Not to mention neither of them put it up. Now I am afraid to give my current boyfriend one.

2007-01-22 17:00:11 · 9 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

No job...no house...no marriage...etc

2007-01-22 16:59:27 · 19 answers · asked by thatartistwin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 16:58:56 · 4 answers · asked by Person 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, my boyfriend is in his thirties. We have been dating for a year, and we plan to get married in a couple of months. This is our first Valentine's day. I really need help. what should I get him? i want it to mean something to him

2007-01-22 16:58:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I give this guy a chance?
Well there is this guy at work that constantly messes with me and yeah I just realized he likes me cuz yea, its kinda obvious. The problem is he looks a lot older than me probably around 30 Im guessing and Im only 20! Well he seems like a good guy and plus Ive never had a boyfriend before so should i give him a chance or forget about it? I am a little skeptical because I had a bad experience with a coworker before. So what do u guys think?

2007-01-22 16:58:26 · 10 answers · asked by deanda 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like a friend of mine, but he has a girlfriend. The thing about it is, we kicked it with each other for the past two weekends and the first week he took me out for lunch, after that we chilled at my house until it was time for him to go to work. But before he left he kissed me a couple of times. When we kicked again he kissed me at the moives. What should i do.

2007-01-22 16:58:25 · 7 answers · asked by Sexy_lady 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 16:57:20 · 9 answers · asked by afroz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

but they are married and you find out they are having problems ...do you make a move at her or should you just sit back and watch from a safe distance

2007-01-22 16:57:03 · 20 answers · asked by GQsmooth 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 16:56:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I need help really bad. See my mom and my brother kinda abusive to me and I don't know what to do now. I talked to the school consular about it, and they called child services. First they talk to my mother and things like that, and I don't know what they are going to do now. She is still the same and nobody will help me. Of course my brother won't help and my friends, well some do know but i don't want them to get involved with this. The more people might know about the more she gets mad at me. I am terrified everyday of my life and I don't know what to do. It seems like nobody cares and I have no where to go. I wish that I could move away and at least try to get my life back in order. I talked to the school consular again today, and she said that shouldn't do anything to make them mad. Everything makes them mad! No matter what I do I get into trouble, and it doesn't even matter if my brother does something i still get into trouble. I don't know what to do.can you guys help me? Please?

2007-01-22 16:56:22 · 8 answers · asked by Angel-gurl23 2 in Family

helped him thru depression, suicide threats bc he got a one night stand pregnant before we met. I feel he layed a huge burden on my shoulders. I told him many times to seek prof help, but he wanted to talk to only me. Then when I help him come to terms with having a child, he ends our relationhip to pursue one with the mom. And I found this out when I was in the hospital., she called me, & then when I confronted him he told me never to call him again!They are not together shockingly. After, I figured he was confused and wanted to remain friends, but now he completely ignores me and I feel so hurt and used, and all I cant help but call him &leave messages& yell at him,deservingly so. I cant let it go and dont know what to do anymore. I am in therapy, &its just not right.I feel the whole suicide thing he layed on me got to me,& I cant understand how someone can possibly do this to another human being?I thought I knew him and he really valued me.Its been 6 months &i cant let the anger go.

2007-01-22 16:55:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he is obviously trying to egg me on so...
shuld i tell him that if he hadn't left me i wuldve started having sex with him a week or two be4 i left(although a lieXD)?
wuld saying the above make him feel bad?
shuld i say that?
ok
thnx
xao:)

2007-01-22 16:54:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy in my class that likes me and thinks i'm really cute. he even called me "cute girl" in front of the whole class. he is always flirting with me( from far away) and (without ever talking). he makes it really obvious to me that he likes me and i've heard him say things to his friends about asking me out. i know he's really shy but why can't he just come up to me and talk to me? maybe i'm doing something wrong that says i don't like him(even though i do)........it's so confusing...........

2007-01-22 16:54:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a very shy person how can I losin up during sex, and be more sexy before and during. I dont enjoy it really... its much fun. But my man is very in to my needs. But I dont want to tell him, and dont know what my needs are.

Im 21 and have been in this relationship for over a year.

Suggestions, adivce?

2007-01-22 16:54:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. a guy from school likes you, but his mate also likes you, you like the guy back, and when he asks you you can't help but say yes, even though it breaks his mate heart. You don't want to miss the oportunity with him, so what do you do? [keeping a secret is not an option]
2. two brothers like you. one [younger] is very touchy-feely and would rather blow in your ear than sit still and listen, but you are almost exactly the same age as the older one, who would rather sit and admire you from afar. youve been crushing on the older one for a while now, and when he asks you out, what do you say, as not to hurt either one?
3. the older brother is on the same cricket team as the guy from school, so you obiously can't say yes to both, is that just as complex?
please answer all the questions, cause sadly thay are allhapening to me right now, and i don't want to hurt any-one, but saying no is not exactly my favourite thing either

2007-01-22 16:53:25 · 2 answers · asked by capsimi 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 16:52:38 · 46 answers · asked by marysoilex 2 in Singles & Dating

Lately I've been chatting with this guy online. We always write to each other. I wrote him back and he hasn't wrote me back (which is not like him). I see that on his myspace he has been logging in daily. I feel somehow connected to him and want to pursue a relationship or friendship. He seemed very into me and all of a sudden he stopped. I haven't written anything negative to him. Should I ask him why he didn't write me back or just forget about it? I don't want to seem too desperate.

2007-01-22 16:52:14 · 11 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Singles & Dating