Lately I've been chatting with this guy online. We always write to each other. I wrote him back and he hasn't wrote me back (which is not like him). I see that on his myspace he has been logging in daily. I feel somehow connected to him and want to pursue a relationship or friendship. He seemed very into me and all of a sudden he stopped. I haven't written anything negative to him. Should I ask him why he didn't write me back or just forget about it? I don't want to seem too desperate.
2007-01-22 16:52:14 · 11 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, he asked me if i was looking to be in a relationship with someone. i replied and said that i'm just taking my time b/c a lot of guys are not what they seem. i didn't want to be too forward. i asked him if he was looking for someone? do you think that he was uncomfortable answering? he could've at least replied and answer my question. if he didn't want to talk to me anymore than he should've just not ask me anymore questions. i would get the point.
2007-01-22 17:39:47 · update #1
So let me recap, you're exchanging e-mails back and forth and he now has stopped, and you didn't say anything negative that would have, from your perspective, turned him off. All relationships in the beginning are an exchange of information from which we determine if the other person has things in common with us and if we are interested in pursuing anything further. Sounds like he has made a determination from the information he has that he's just not that into you. It's nothing you've done wrong; it just didn't click for him. There are more fish in the sea, get out there and fish.
2007-01-22 17:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it. At least try to forget about it. He is either playing hard to get, or he is in a relationship and his girlfriend found out about it. You can not go wrong with NOT responding to him again. If he does get back to you then just enjoy it. Don't ask him about the absence. He will tell you if he wants you to know. Try to pretend like you were busy with other things, i.e. your interests in music, dancing, hanging out with your girlfriends, etc. Hang in there - there may be someone that doesn't just disappear right around the Myspace corner. :)
2007-01-23 01:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Little Somethin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say stay away from the online relationships, but you won't.
You're getting hooked on someone and they aren't as hooked on you. He obviously wasn't making it a point to talk to you everyday or he would have. It's harsh, but since he's signing on myspace and not chatting to you while he's online clearly shows he's just not that into you. If a guy likes you he goes out of his way to talk to you.
2007-01-23 00:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went throught the exact same problem a couple of weeks ago. What i did was left it for a couple more days, and if he still hasnt replied leave him a casual friendly message like 'hey, whats up' or something like that. If he still doesnt reply, im really sorry to tell you this, but he may have just been trying to avoid telling you that he doesnt really like you anymore. Sometimes guys play hard to get when really they dont no that girls prefer it when they answer us. sending 1 more message wont sound desperate, but if you send like 5 more, it will! good luck!
2007-01-23 00:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask him 1 time if everything is ok and why haven't you heard anything from him. Ask him if he's ok. After this contact don't contact him anymore let him contact you. If he doesn't then he's not really interested in you so just move on. Good luck.
jw
2007-01-23 00:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by Janet lw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because in the real world he likes a girl
or
maybe he was getting too into u and realized he needed to back up since u were jus a girl on the web
sorry:(
xao
2007-01-23 00:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well ask.....if he doesn't answer..oh well.....remember he might not really be the "person" you thought you were chatting with...so be careful
2007-01-23 00:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Chris B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he is interested he will write you just wait it out, never chase let them do it.
2007-01-23 00:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is good idea asking him,what happen,yes.
2007-01-23 00:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comment him maybe his message box isn't working
2007-01-23 00:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋