he is obviously trying to egg me on so...
shuld i tell him that if he hadn't left me i wuldve started having sex with him a week or two be4 i left(although a lieXD)?
wuld saying the above make him feel bad?
shuld i say that?
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2007-01-22 16:54:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ehhhh... It sounds like you're really trying to make him feel like crap for not being with you anymore. If that IS the case, I think telling him that would maybe hurt him, but it would also maybe boost his ego... he might think, "hmmm, she WANTED to sleep with me." ... sooo, I'd just avoid the situation altogether. If you want to keep him as your ex, forget about him already. If you're trying to think of ways to piss him off, that means you still feel something for him. Get over him. He sounds loser-ish anyway.
2007-01-22 17:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey, no, that's not a good idea.. i know it can be frustrating when you break up and still have to talk to an ex, but don't make something up like that.. next thing he will do is tell everyone that you are a sl*t and every guy in school will think they can have you for sex.
don't waste your time egging him on.. try to move on and find yourself a new guy, a better guy.. virginity is not something to joke about, even if it is a joke..
2007-01-22 17:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO, you should tell him he's good-for-nothing and that you never would and never will have sex with him. Save your virginity for someone important to you, but don't worry about waiting until you are married, just be safe and have fun. (And I would like to point out that sex with an asshole is not fun in the long run. Neither is an unplanned pregnancy.)
2007-01-22 17:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by fireincarnation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would be the point in saying that? Why make him feel bad? If you two are over, what's the point in talking to him anymore? I'd just move on and get over him.
2007-01-22 16:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by manders030405 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying timing is everything...There is a reason your still a virgin its called waiting on you intuition which seems to be guiding you just fine so go with it and don't lower yourself by trying to get at him trust me him not getting laid was the bigger heartbreak!
2007-01-22 17:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by daisyjzmum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why give him that satisfaction? Besides why lie to him? If he was a jerk about your relationship he will just feel like it was too bad he didn't hang on a little longer and take that one thing from you that obviously you weren't ready to give him (and good thing you didn't or you'd be really upset now).
2007-01-22 16:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No don't do that,he'll probably try to sweet talk you,get you to gain his trust again,and you don't want to sleep w/ him and then have things be bad again.Save it girl,one day you will find the right person who is deserving of sharing that special moment w/ you!
2007-01-22 16:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother trying to hurt him or get him angry. Don't talk to him, don't have anything to do with him. Move on. The relationship is obviously over so why keep talking about it?
2007-01-22 16:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't set yourself into a guilt over an ex its time to move on and generally when things come to an end there a good reason for it.
2007-01-22 16:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl hello no, you should not tell him straight up. But if you want to get back at him give him signs that you would of and let him do the thinkin..
2007-01-22 16:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by x_ashley_2006_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋