Im a very shy person how can I losin up during sex, and be more sexy before and during. I dont enjoy it really... its much fun. But my man is very in to my needs. But I dont want to tell him, and dont know what my needs are.
Im 21 and have been in this relationship for over a year.
Suggestions, adivce?
2007-01-22 16:54:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a double.........she can do all the work for ya!!
2007-01-22 16:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking more time to do foreplay stuff, cuddling, kissing, intimate chatting, then give each other oral sex..
if you're really getting creative, get some whipping cream.. get him to spray your breasts and then have him lick you! it may seem silly and you will laugh, but it should help loosen you up.
sex can be very intimidating.. anything to set the mood and become more relaxed should help.. you gotta be totally comfortable with yourself and with your body, as does he.
2007-01-23 01:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i went through the same thing with for many years. I finally just met a guy who was so completely at ease with his own body flaws that it made me more at ease cuz if he cares that little about how he looks then he wont care about my flaws. You just have to find the right man to put you completely at ease with yourself. Believe me you'll find him eventually
2007-01-23 01:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by BLOCK*HEAD*FOR*LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋