We're three years now with my boyfriend and i'm afraid to realize one day that we're not meant for each other..
2007-01-22 17:08:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only death and taxes are sureties in this world. The rest, you'll just have to work at, 24/7. Still no guarantees. What matters most is that after all is said and done, you can say to yourself: "I did my best!!"
2007-01-22 17:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by JADE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the trick is in not thinking you're the one to maintain it.
It takes two, and you can both only live one darn day at a time. If you dwell on the negative, guess what? You'll get it. Leave the worrying and fretting behind, and focus on what IS working in the relationship...enjoy developing the positive traits you two share. If your doubts nag at you, go together to a couples counselor and learn how to examine the dynamics of communicating within a loving relationship. That'll educate and fortify you both. Best wishes for a long happy life together.
2007-01-23 01:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that happens. People that are MARRIED realize that one day. You can't stop it sometimes. It is what it is. If you keep waiting on this one day that may or may not happen, you're going to drive yourself crazy. Enjoy the time you're with him now if you're happy and let the future be.
2007-01-23 01:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your meant to be it simply will be. Enjoy the time you have now and just try to make as many great memories with each other as possible and take it a day at a time.
-NmD!
2007-01-23 01:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there is love,there is life forever.If there is not love,the relationship can be over any time,does not matter is the couple have few, or many years, living together.Good question.
2007-01-23 01:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life happens sweetie. This is just a part of it. Don't be afraid to live today. Tomorrow will come if you know what will happen or not.
2007-01-23 01:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, making it permanent would probably help.
It also takes a lot of hard work to make a marriage work, but the benefits are well worth it.
Love is like the tide, it rises and falls.
When it is on the rise it is all good.
When it is on the fall, it is then that it is hard work.
2007-01-23 01:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by older mum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess you just have to trust in that person and hope you'll never change how you feel. but yeah i often wonder the same thing. like how do i know how i'm gonna feel 20 years from now? i feel like getting married is throwing in the towel and saying you'll never find any better.
2007-01-23 01:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be afraid, you are just too scare. it happened because you love him so much. if you need to maintain ur relationship, just be confident with ur self, and be strong to solv ur problem. Go for it.
2007-01-23 01:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by adith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't mention how old you are, or how old he is. If you're not married, you're not committed, and if you're too young to marry,Don't expect forever, just enjoy what you have.
2007-01-23 01:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋