I need help really bad. See my mom and my brother kinda abusive to me and I don't know what to do now. I talked to the school consular about it, and they called child services. First they talk to my mother and things like that, and I don't know what they are going to do now. She is still the same and nobody will help me. Of course my brother won't help and my friends, well some do know but i don't want them to get involved with this. The more people might know about the more she gets mad at me. I am terrified everyday of my life and I don't know what to do. It seems like nobody cares and I have no where to go. I wish that I could move away and at least try to get my life back in order. I talked to the school consular again today, and she said that shouldn't do anything to make them mad. Everything makes them mad! No matter what I do I get into trouble, and it doesn't even matter if my brother does something i still get into trouble. I don't know what to do.can you guys help me? Please?
2007-01-22 16:56:22 · 8 answers · asked by Angel-gurl23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
By the way, I'm only 13 amd ny brother is older than me.
2007-01-22 17:09:52 · update #1
I can't go anywhere because we live kinda faraway. My grandparents live closeest but they complain to my mother, so it just makes it worse. My best friend(who i'm not sure is still my best friend still) talks on the phone with my mom, like eveny night, and she always sticks up for my mom. This whole stituation is tearing my life apart.
2007-01-22 17:33:56 · update #2
the department of family and children are there with a 24 hour hotline for crisis,if you truly are as afraid as you state than you yourself may need to contact the authorities..i wish you to find the path that is right for you we all make mistakes but we are not suppose to install such a traumatic fear into our children
2007-01-22 17:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should go live with a relative if its that bad. u are a female and at the age ur at right now most parents think u dont have any rights which is bull its unfair for u to be treated that way ur brother is older and a male and is always going to get away with just about anything. try a hotline for troubled teens and they might be able to help u. i was in a pretty similar situation but didnt have anyone to turn to and although i turned out pretty good for the way i handled thing i wouldnt even suggest any of that. there is always a helping hand u just have to look really hard sometimes its right under ur nose and dont even see it. keep ur head up dear child and stay strong. if worse comes to worse stay with a family member that is the opposite of ur living condition at the moment stay focused and stay in school above all but in the end u will come out on top.
2007-01-22 17:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen what u need to do is call one of your friends and leave...in the middle of the night.,,it might sound wrong..but its the only way...I was always being used in may ways that i really shouldnt say but it was done by my father in 21 and i ran away when I was 15..I got emancepated which means divorcing your parents and Ive been on my own ever since...when I was 17 I moved in with my (now) husband and we live wonderful with our 2 year old...trust me if I was able to leave a hell hole house...especially like that..so can u...I know u can do..DCF never helped me bc there was no evidence but if there is no evidence in ur house of what they are doing to u ...then u need to leave...and dont tell anyone except someone that WANTS to help u bc words get around FAST..But hunny u need to get out now...
Best of Wishes and Good Luck!!!!
Be Safe!!
*D*
2007-01-22 17:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 18:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are old enough, find someone who really cares and move in with them. its sounds bad to do to family, but if it is physical, call the cops. a few nights in a jail cell should straighten things out. cops do not play around when it comes to domestic violence. there is always some one out there who cares. i hope things get better and ill pray for ya. so you cant move out, call cops or make school get involved. skip counselor, go to principal. counselor obvisiouly is good for nothing, or else he/she wouldv'e already done something.
2007-01-22 17:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by cparkmi331 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a family member or a good friend that you can confide in? Get help anywhere you can. I feel bad for you and I wish I could help....
2007-01-22 17:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by dana5169 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without knowing more specifics, it is hard to help. If you would like to talk about this I am ramses8p and I can be reached on yahoo IM. I woudl like to help, but like I said, without more specifics it is hard to offer good advice.
2007-01-22 19:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by daddyspanksalot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
2007-01-22 17:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by sgtgregg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋