Should I give this guy a chance?
Well there is this guy at work that constantly messes with me and yeah I just realized he likes me cuz yea, its kinda obvious. The problem is he looks a lot older than me probably around 30 Im guessing and Im only 20! Well he seems like a good guy and plus Ive never had a boyfriend before so should i give him a chance or forget about it? I am a little skeptical because I had a bad experience with a coworker before. So what do u guys think?
2007-01-22 16:58:26 · 10 answers · asked by deanda 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It doesn't sound like you know much about him except that he likes to mess with you.. I guess flirt, right?
Talk to him.. Maybe have lunch with him. Become his friend and see where it goes from there. He doesn't have to be your boyfriend right away.
Above poster is right.. it can be a very bad idea to date people from work. Are you willing to change places of employment if everything goes to hell with this guy?
I think you should just get to know this guy a little better. Maybe you can be work friends.
2007-01-22 17:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never a good idea to date a guy you're working with. When and if the relationship fails then you still have to see him and work with him everyday. It's very awkward and chancy. If he turns out to be a jerk he could say bad things about you behind your back to other coworkers. Too chancy and too risky. Date outside the office. Good luck.
jw
2007-01-22 17:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by Janet lw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, give him a chance and see what happens. You can always dump him later if the relationship is going nowhere.
2007-01-22 17:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think age is only a number. Its all about how well you and this other person get along. Do you enjoy his company? Do you want to spend time with him, if so, do it.
2007-01-22 17:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance
2007-01-22 17:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by notmine4268 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if his intentions are good...prayer is usually a good start. Ask him if he's spiritual and if he wants to go to church with you sometime. If not, then he just wants you for your looks...if so, then he really wants to get to know you.
2007-01-22 17:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by hacker_skillz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give love a chance.
2007-01-22 17:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A thirty year old man....a 20 year old girl with no experience. He 'seems like a nice guy'. Please , (I'm old enough to be your mother..and then some).....don't do it. Your inner voice is telling you to beware.....listen.
2007-01-22 17:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no.
Thats all he wants is a chance.
Then he'll move onto another chance.
2007-01-22 17:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Akshun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when in doubt, make him bounce.
2007-01-22 17:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋