Been happily married 16 yrs to a great guy who is VERY sweet,loving,affectionate,kind and very good to me anyways late last january 1 night when he went down to the local store phone rang it was a girl she ask if ronny was home and when i said no who is this she hung up on me immediately. Well for a few months i question him and he said many many times that he didnt know anything about the call and i totally believe him cause he is a good man,great husband and would never cheat on me cause he loves me more then anything and i am his whole life says that to me all the time BUT i cant get this call off of my mind and i dont know why..Like i said i totally believe him..Im just interested in seeing what other people have to say about this.
2007-01-22 17:23:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No i have nothing to hide and i already said i totally believe him just cant get the call off my mind
2007-01-22 17:31:12 · update #1
yes it was just to the store and it wasnt that late like around 8 pm
2007-01-22 17:32:21 · update #2
I havent ask him about this since like before last summer and we dont have a cell phone
2007-01-22 17:34:27 · update #3
oh i know he is telling the truth but for some reason and i dont know why i just cant get that call off of my mind
2007-01-22 17:45:36 · update #4
Where is the trust in your marriage, did you ever think maybe he is telling you the truth? You mentioned how wonderful he is, trust him until you have proof otherwise.
2007-01-22 17:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by Bridgette B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many times people dial the wrong number. Just a coincidence about the name. BUT - time to check and quit asking him - he isn't going to tell unless you have some proof. check his cell phone bill (if you get a printed version it lists the phone numbers called and received). When you are gone and he is home alone, come home and lift the phone and hit "redial" to see if he has been calling someone. You can look up strange numbers on the Internet to see who they belong to. Is he absent for a few hours that are not accountable? has he bought new underwear lately? If you don't find something suspicious - trust him.
2007-01-23 01:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpicker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question contains two things, First you really love and trust your husband but still are having doubts about that call you have attended.
Secondly, you really want to sort that out but still afraid of asking your husband as you think he might get hurt. See in a relationship you have the right to check and get yourself out of this annoying doubt. I suggest that you should talk this out with your husband. Don't confront him just ask him in a casual manner so that he doesn't feel you are pressurizing him or something. I am sure he will going to clear this out with you. Don't spoil your loving relationship on this petty thing. Live a happy life !
2007-01-23 01:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by BlackSwan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, is his name "ronny?" If not, then you're worrying about nothing.
If his name *is* "ronny," and if he's never gotten other calls, or come home with lipstick on his collar (or somewhere else more intimate), and he's not changed his behavior recently, then accept what he told you and go on with your life.
Dwelling on something that isn't there is like a cancer gnawing at your guts. On the other hand, if it was more than just one call and there is something going on, it will become evident, we males have a really difficult time concealing affairs.
Good luck and peace out!
2007-01-23 17:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by winefp2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him. You are jealous. CONGRATULATIONS. That phone call was probably some weirdo. Let it go and know that you are the only woman he loves and I bet he would love you even more if he really knew how jealous you really are. BUT you have to keep that to yourself. DoNOT bug him about the call. It is exhausted now. Believe him, Relish in the fact that you acted like hen about it and you are soooo in love enough to feel that jealous of another chic. I get jealous of weird little things too I would have freaked too on that.
2007-01-23 01:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by kpicknose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really was some mysterious mistress she would have recognized you as the wife and would have hung up without asking for him by name. And why would she call at night ... should would call sometime when you aren't at home like if you work or something.
I don't think anyone who is hiding an affair that well could have a mistress that dumb. It is all in your head.
2007-01-23 01:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by bb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you don't totally believe him or you don't trust him. Otherwise you'd truly forget about it. I'm sure he doesn't feel too good about the relationship when you keep badgering about it. And if it's been a year and you STILL don't believe him, you've got major trust problems. Perhaps YOU have something to hide.
2007-01-23 01:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by w8n4u_2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that unless you have any other evidence of his straying you really have to trust that he is telling you the truth.
Try not to get too paranoid about it but still keep your eyes and ears open for anything unusual
Im sure you really have nothing to worry about ......
2007-01-23 01:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by Aussie Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is home all the time after work and don't go out unless you are with him. that's cool. but if he gos out with out you then keep an eye on him . if the way you say it is then it may have just a wrong #.so get it out of your mind
2007-01-23 01:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it was only the store he went to so late!
2007-01-23 01:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan's Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋