I caught my husband telling a 17 year old he would move her down here if we split up. Found the archives of the conversations the whole nine and yet he denied it. I was out of town when this occurred and in one of the instances where he swears he wasnt on, he was online with me and this girl at the same time. He is 29 and she is 17. There is more than just the moving in too.
2007-01-22 17:09:12 · 25 answers · asked by jls91380 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok the additional details are how she can have his child bc we dont have a girl, he said age dont matter bc of the consent laws, he told her he loves her, and is trying to blame room mates for doing it when it was the same time as he was talking to me.
2007-01-22 17:23:25 · update #1
Think of it as the handwriting on the wall & move on. He is very nearly a child molester-you've seen it with your own eyes-get out and don't look back. You can do much better that him. Don't waste time talking either-move!
2007-01-22 17:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by life coach 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have the proof, don't believe his lies. Not only is your husband a cheater, he's a pedophile. He's been caught redhanded and he's still lying. Take my word on this, that is a BAD sign. If he'll lie to your face when you have evidence in black & white, there's no telling what else he's lying about. Take the evidence and get a good lawyer and let him have his 17 year old sweetie. Don't waste your breathe asking him anymore questions because it will all be lies. You deserve better!
2007-01-23 01:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your husband was messing with the girl because he was bored. Without any other evidence to suggest otherwise that's my thoughts and I'm sticking to 'em! She was probably messing with him too, as in she was really a fat 40 year old who was bored.
Oh, btw, 17 is legal where I come from and the true definition of pedophile does not include anyone over around 14 or 15. Not that it isn't 'icky' just that calling him a pedo is a lot of an exageration.
2007-01-23 01:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ah, does the word PEDOPHILE figure in here? She's underage and he's way over. Hopefully they'll catch him in that Florida sting they have going on with the Hard Copy show....they've been catching men in their twenties and thirties coming to a girl's house (who they think is 15) and been putting them on prime time TV and then when the jerk leaves the house the police are outside waiting for him. How would you feel if you had a daughter that some nasty old guy did this to? Think of it that way for a moment, I'm sure you'll take some kind of action.
2007-01-23 01:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you have grounds for divorce and that he is seeing an underage girl and he shouldn't have sex with her, and I see that you are better off without him.
If there is nothing going on with that girl why does he dny being online with her.
I have online buddies and my husband knows and he's ok with it...but I'm not lying about it...so I think you should get to the bottom of this thing..start by telling your husband that you're ok if he has female online friends but he should tell you about them...and try to get the truth from him slowly.
2007-01-23 01:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wake up and smell the coffee. He's a cheater, and by legal terms a pedaphile. And this is a man you would want to 'work it out with'? What a catch.! Pack it up and get out quick. Let me tell you some words to live by: You get what you put up with!
2007-01-23 01:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think what you think......he's verbally cheating and with an underaged girl. What your next step is, is up to you. I'd be printing the convos out and putting them directly in his face and saying "there". At that point you can either get marriage councelling or leave. It all depends on circumstances that I don't know about (things you haven't posted). I'm sure of one thing....don't trust a word he says right now.
2007-01-23 01:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is obviously looking to cheat on you. Take a hard look at your situation and decide if there is something that you have been doing to make him unhappy. If not, get counseling. This probably isn't the first girl/woman he's talked to and it won't be the last.
2007-01-23 01:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by nicegirl6720 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your husband is a predator. He is also preying on a minor. It's up to you now to stop this. You have the archives to prove it.
2007-01-23 01:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by JADE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as your husband is good to you and your children, you should not pay much attention to such matters. Males always love to have females attracted towards them no matter how old they are. May be he is just flirting on line.
2007-01-23 01:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ashreya 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋