I need love guru????

Question

I love a girl..but due to certain mistakes I am at the stage of loosing her..

.......some points
(1) She doesn't know me very well..
(2) She is a girl who doesn't want to involve in such things..but when I said so she was taking interest on me..but I expressed my feelings to her repeatedly , even I never gave any space to think much about me..and moved very fast... one day she said..please stop irritating me.
(3).She is really nice to everybody ..but very hard to me...always talk in the way that she has not a bit interest on me...I have no concern for your emotions.
(4)Somebody else is also interested on her...

help me how can I improve my relationship?She is far from me..studying..I am in job.
How can I know the relation status of that third person and her..

Answer 1

Well,if you really, really like this girl,you can tell her that you're serious about how you feel and willing to let her think about it.

But don't push too hard,cos some girls get irritated when she feels "pestered".Instead,leave her at that and sorta disappear for awhile.If you're able to call her or mail to her,just keep conversation short & sweet,show that you care but not overbearing.Sometimes,this "short call & disappearing" act may make her think and wonder about you.
On your side,just try to take it easy and not to put on too high hopes,cos it will hurt you even more if it doesn't work out.Also try not to think about this "other" person.Just focus on her.Speaking from personal experiences,if she's meant to be yours,she will.If not,there's probably someone better for you somewhere out there.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Dheeraj u didnt tell that since when u r in this relationship.U told that u expressed ur feelings repeatedly.Look u cant force anybody to love u.Expressing ur feelings once is enough.I think u showed a lot of impatience.She was right in saying that u are irritating her.Just meet her or call her and say sorry for ur behaviour and ask her to be just true friends at present and if god has decided that both of u have to meet then believe me it wont take long and ur friendship will lead to LOVE.After all friendship is the first step of any relationship.And stop thinking about the third person u cant do anything about it.Leave it to god.Believe me he will choose the best for u.BESTof LUCK for ur life.

Answer 3

You still have time. Apologise for your approach towards her. Let her know that you didn't mean to irritate her. Maybe then she can consider being polite to you. girls are like creepers. They go for the best support for themselves. They wont' creep upon anything shaky. Be the support. Prove to her that you are the best. Don't be demanding. Forget bothering about her relation status with any other person. All you need to understand right now is that the status of your relationship with her is in a bad state. Improve it...

Answer 4

Dude you don't need a love guru. You need to quit bothering a girl that clearly isn't interested in you. Give her space. You can't force her to be interested in you and if you try you will only put yourself in a worse position. Have some dignity man and know when you're not wanted.

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Answer 6

Dear Dheeraj
Give some time & space to her,so that she can able to understand u & ur feelings,Dear don't push ur feelings on her.This will irritate her.First try to become her gud friend then after a gud lover,When she have trust on u ,them i m sure she will really love , U know trust is the begining of love,So don't worry move slow,give some more time to ur relations.
GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 7

Let her go. You screwed up by pushing too hard and you scared her. Stop and think about why you were trying so hard in the first place. You need to be happy with yourself before you can make someone else happy.

Answer 8

it feels like you like her very much..........if u wanna know about her reln try being in touch vit some of her frndz, dont make them feel that u are acting like a detective, but gradually try to know her whereabouts from them........and u said she doesnt involve in such things, so there are chances that she may not have a reln wit that person too.................. dont feel bad that she is harsh vit u.......u hav admitted that uve bugged her, try to talk to her once again wen her mood is good, then giv her time to think about u......

Answer 9

Women are like your shadow: you try to catch up with them, theyll ever flee. You flee them and they'll come in pursuit.

Answer 10

sounds like you should move on and leave her alone. I don't believe that she's playing any games with you. Just don't waste your time on her anymore.