Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

Ive been in love with this guy for 4 years..we went out for 2years and he cheated on me..We broke up and in a year n half he came bak tellinn me that it was a mistake n he regrets it and that we should be together...I was so in love with him even after he broke up with me that i wanted him back NO MATTER what... we got back together,after a few months he started acting all neglectful again... SO i told him that its better for us to be friends..He had no objection in breaking up so i knew that something was up again!I GAVE him every lil happiness that he asked for... i hear that when u hold on to something too tight they always go away...n it happened..n now i think he got back to the girl he cheated on me with.. I got really upset and ' AS A FRIEND' i told him wat was up!he got VERY ANNOYED!HE was really rude 2 me which made me realise that he was scared that i found out so he reacted in a bad way..U could tell he was guilty and All i wana do is make him feel that HES SUCH A HYPOCRITE

2007-01-22 18:32:59 · 11 answers · asked by tj_mav 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 18:32:00 · 11 answers · asked by aubrie817 1 in Friends

2007-01-22 18:30:40 · 6 answers · asked by sur13sexylover 1 in Friends

who is in a relationship with 3 different men at the same time? She cares for each of these men differently and trusts and respects them all. She also feels respected and valued by each in return. (Safe) sex is also part of these relationships. This woman has been married before but doesn't wish to be married again any time soon nor does she want a committed relationship of any kind.

She feels very positive and free in what she is doing and has no problems with what society might say.

So what do you guys think about it? Just dating behavior or serial sex? These men all know that she is not exclusive with them and all are cool with that.

Is this what dating is all about or does the sex make it somehow problematic for you in the morals department?

2007-01-22 18:28:25 · 24 answers · asked by Ande 4 in Singles & Dating

Now my mom doesn't want to ever talk to my mom-in-law to be.. its very difficult.. Mom in law is willing to talk it out with my mom , but my mother doesn't wanna talk..we're just letting it be for now..but all the same its stressful..my fiance is also willing to explain to my mother..Parallelly I'm tryin to give a lot of importance to my mother..so that she doesn't feel isolated and sidelined..

2007-01-22 18:28:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have signed the recently divorce paper because relationship has broken down due to communication problems and she is bent on leaving me and start a new life. I have left the house with her so that she can start "afresh" easier. Although we are divorced, I still feel attached to her and could not take her image off my mind. She blamed me for not solving the problems 1 year back and still bear the resentment of being ignored. I have no clue of what to do and the guilt feeling is so strong that mentally I kept blaming myself for letting it happened. I knew she would be leading a single life which is tought and lonely. It made me feel that I had sinned more than anyone on earth. How can I live with this feeling but only to reconcile with her?

2007-01-22 18:27:53 · 8 answers · asked by hlchua88 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like i'm psycho and crazy and stuff. He does like to feed his ego. He's immature, likes to hang out with his guy friends, never had any female friends, let alone girlfriends.

I wonder if there's an example people like that ever come crawling back?

2007-01-22 18:27:05 · 14 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married and have been with my husband for almost 7 years. I have been JUST FRIENDS with this other guy for about 4 years. several times in the last couple years this other guy has flirted with me and tried to convince me to have an affair with him. I was always able to blow him off. Anyway a couple days ago, he called me drunk and begged me to have an affair with him and then had my sister in law (my husband's sister) call me and tell me that he was going to kill himself if I didn't call him back. I know it was just a ploy to get me to call him, because I never called him back and tonight he is texting me again. I have tried the thing of you know I am married and his comment to me was he don't mind so my husband doesn't matter. I make sure that I am not alone with him ever, but my sis in law is trying everything in her power to make something between the other guy and me happen. The other guy is her step son. I don't want to have him kill himself but I am really not interested....

2007-01-22 18:26:36 · 13 answers · asked by Someonesmommy 5 in Family

but it wasnt with my bf. it was with a guy i like. this means...?

2007-01-22 18:25:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to get my power windows fixed and I want to get a couple of estimates. The problem is I don't know who to call. Can anyone help?

2007-01-22 18:25:16 · 5 answers · asked by redstara629 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok my dad and I fight..a lot. He tells me he can, its his right too, but i have trouble believing that. He says there is no laaw against spanking your kids with a leather belt. And pushing them, he tells me that the only way to get me to listen is to make me scared of him. And also, after we fight, he'll come in my room when im still crying and be like "goodnight i love you" and it hurts me really bad, cause he acts like nothing happened just 5 minutes before. And when we do fight, he tells me im stupid, ima ***** and a whole bunch of other names. and he calls me fat..im 5'9 and 1/2" by the way and i weigh 117lbs. I just dont get if what he is doing is right, him and my mom have been doin this since i was 8 and they tell me to go ahead and call the cops on them, cause all they'll do is laugh at me. whats going on? what do i do? HELP ME!

2007-01-22 18:25:06 · 20 answers · asked by hayray 3 in Family

Some one asked me to go with him for dinner, what does that mean?

2007-01-22 18:24:56 · 8 answers · asked by DAME 1 in Singles & Dating

I introduced one of my friend(a boy) to my best friend. but they were apart within 2weeks. after some time, he was asking for my love and I was. But I can't tell this to my best friend. I think she might feel sad and think bad of me. Am I being a lier to my friend? How can I tell this to her? Please help me.

2007-01-22 18:24:46 · 4 answers · asked by Lika 1 in Friends

When we are together,we form a good company.At times,even our silence speaks.Dont know whats happening??I started caring for him n he too care for me.Few days back,we surrendered ourselves to each other.That might be an emotional outburst.I am confused whether he intended to touch me or what...!! But he is not changed after that.And asked forgiveness when i raised the issue.But even i know it was not intentional,it juss happened,when we both were over loaded with love.We cant marry each other,but would it be better if we admit that we are in love.I know he needs me,and even i cant leave him unless and until he gets setteled in life with someone else.Its bit harsh to say like this,but its a fact that we cant marry.PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO...??

2007-01-22 18:24:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you are married are with a black chick would you rather her get a weave like beyounce or keep it natural like jill Scott or Lauren Hill?

2007-01-22 18:22:29 · 5 answers · asked by fabulosity 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel so out of place.

2007-01-22 18:22:29 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Lady Clairol 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister was having a holiday in Paris 5 years ago. One day she went to the Arc de Triumph to take some pictures where she met one guy looking at her. Then they get to know each other because they were both from America,hence they decided to travel the country together.one day they both felt that their pure friendship relationship has advanced into the love stage,however both of them didnt have the guts to confess to each other. After the guy returned to America,he wrote to my sister that his ultimate wish was to revisit Paris one day with my sister,because he told her that he was suffering from a terminal illness - Leukaemia and he had only few more months to live,hence he was making use of his days left to travel the country. My sister was shocked and promised him that his last wish would be fufilled one day. Few years later,he never wrote back to her again,and my sister felt remorseful about not confessing that she loved him too. My sister never revisited Paris,as she stayed faithful to his wish to revisit Paris with her. He came as a surprise to her,and disappeared like the wind. However,he was the person who changed my sister’s life. Just sharing my sister’s true story with you guys.

2007-01-22 18:22:07 · 3 answers · asked by basshunter_poka 1 in Singles & Dating

she talks about my past and all we do is fight.

2007-01-22 18:20:55 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend says that im not like i used to be... i'm boring and quiet or different whenever we talk on the phone.. anything i can do to change? ((please dont critisize my gender prefference))

2007-01-22 18:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by oh snap ™ 2 in Singles & Dating

He tells a lot of stories that are just weird. Like he said he was hired to take pictures of the sunset in Monterey but didn't bother to leave until it was dark. Or he says he saw an old college professor of ours and had a conversation with him about how we are dating. I haven't seen my professor in four years and I don't think he even knows my name, let alone who I'm dating! He also said in junior high his class watched the porn "Behind the Green Door." I am a teacher and I know that they don't show porn to kids in school! Why would he lie about such stupid things? When I say he I don't believe him he says "I don't give a s*it if you believe me or not." Or he gets mad and says "Suck my d*ck."

Have you seen these signs before? I am thinking of confronting him and telling him that he has a problem.

2007-01-22 18:18:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do they usually last long like for me im 2 hours from my gf and she means the world to me and we been 2gther for 3 months and they have been the best damm 3 months of my life this wanna knoe if long distance love wrks.

2007-01-22 18:17:58 · 7 answers · asked by JOHN L 1 in Singles & Dating

always want what we can't have...wether it be material things or a guy/girl...whatever. We may have all of the most important things in our lives, but there is always at least one thing that we just can't have and really want? What's the fascination behind wanting what you can't have!!?

2007-01-22 18:17:21 · 6 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 18:17:04 · 8 answers · asked by Sadee C 1 in Singles & Dating

She has told me that they are just friends etc... and she doesnt like him more than a friend. Her friends have said the same but doesnt that seem wierd or am i just acting insecure?

2007-01-22 18:15:47 · 11 answers · asked by jasonjflorida 1 in Singles & Dating

cause it seems my bf comes to climate early thman i pls help.

2007-01-22 18:15:25 · 5 answers · asked by geleza 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend always went to a store to buy some meat. A girl working there told him, "the color of your eyes is so special." The very next time she said to him, "how ya doing?" Is she just friendly to customers or flirting?

2007-01-22 18:15:00 · 9 answers · asked by Engels 1 in Singles & Dating

and u cant wish for more wishes!

2007-01-22 18:13:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She was my best friend for so long and I am even her daughter's godmother but she always lied to me and betrayed me. But I can't help but feel some sort of guilt even though everyone says that I am better off not being her friend. Are my new friends right?

2007-01-22 18:12:58 · 5 answers · asked by crazykid980 1 in Friends

Why can't women appreciate men for our minds and not for our bodies?

2007-01-22 18:12:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 18:11:57 · 11 answers · asked by justbachir 1 in Marriage & Divorce