She was my best friend for so long and I am even her daughter's godmother but she always lied to me and betrayed me. But I can't help but feel some sort of guilt even though everyone says that I am better off not being her friend. Are my new friends right?
2007-01-22 18:12:58 · 5 answers · asked by crazykid980 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
With out knowing the particulars, I would have to say your friends are correct.
2007-01-22 18:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Robert Lee Wallace Jr. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She betrayed and lied to you??? She is NOT ur best friend. Trust ur new friend on this one. A best friend should have trust you and be there for u no matter what. Have u done something wrong to her in the past??? Mayb u should ask her about it. If u feel like u haven't done anything wrong to her, then forget her. We all feel guilty sometimes when it comes to this kind of situation, especially if we think of her as best friend. Go out, and befriend new people n' learn not to trust anybody. Hope this helps.
2007-01-23 02:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jkt_Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, i have been friends with some one for 32 years house and set her down and tell her to not say a word til you finish tell her you love as a friend and always will but things have to change that there is no reason she needs to lie to you or to be trey you because there is no need to to that to been friends to many years to let it end with something to stupid and to stop and tell you everything she has ever did wrong to you and you her and get it all out and push it away because you will never have a friend like this again. most likely will both be crying you're eyes out but let me tell you my friend and I did this stupid thing that really worked. We went to the bed room after having a few drinks and we turned out the lights and we just started talking i n the dark and i swearer that was the best talk we had ever had everything came out and we felt so much better and to day we are the best of friend and will be til the day we die. And after you two get this all out you two will be the best of friends again.
2007-01-23 02:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tina S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 years is a little too much to play games with.U will not find a better friend than her because people are people and we make common mistakes.You choose if u wanna forgive her or break for ever.
I am in the same situation.
I think we (U and Me) have to rest a little and live without them at least for some time until our wounds will leak. and then resume again.
u can see my question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070118231553AAeG3Kz&r=w&pa=AptqD2bwHTHf6OiCY6Y2vcg80jO_o8kqydJ_M8TZv8I4wA--&paid=voted
2007-01-23 02:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she betray you,she must have some reasons.Go and talk to her.
2007-01-23 02:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋