my girlfriend says that im not like i used to be... i'm boring and quiet or different whenever we talk on the phone.. anything i can do to change? ((please dont critisize my gender prefference))
2007-01-22 18:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by oh snap ™ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i WOULD take her out but we dont live close enough so i dont get to see her
2007-01-22 18:27:02 · update #1
Not everyone is the "great communicator" when it comes to phone small talk-- sometimes we are doing two different things at the same time-- who am I kidding, we are ALWAYS talking n the phone and doing something else-- and this is what you may be doing- and it shoes as distraction because honestly, we tend to miss "cues" that the other person n the line gives you and then we have to backtrack and we just aren't as good as hiding what we just did. Be truthful- if she calls you, and you are pre-occupied honestly tell her that you have to cal her back because you are pre-occupied with work, dinner, etc and that you want to give her phone call the undivided attention that it and her deserve so you will call he back when you can and do so. Don't take her criticism as more than face worth- and you know what I mean- it's just that- maybe she had something exciting to tell you today and you seemed distracted because you had a bad day at the office, or your dog just messed the apartment, etc. you get my drift.....since she is sensitive to your mods, and that IS a good thing, giving her pone calls you r undivided attention- and if need be cut them short to finish your business but at least give her the few moments she needs to feel special in your life-- you would want the same from her, wouldn't you? good luck to you, I know everything will workout all right..........
2007-01-22 18:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should go out and have a vacation together, or maybe reminise. Its always good to crack a joke hear and there. Maybe you are bored and tired of the samething and need a change. Dont give up take her out on a date and do fun stuff so you can have something to talk about. Good Luck!
2007-01-23 02:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by dezsalinas 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi. you can give her surprises like flowers or do something for her on your own as girl loves surprises. you can also try to send her postcard telling her how much you love her and do not forget to add in a lovely poem to sweeten up a little. All the best.
2007-01-31 01:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by star_dust 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a load! Don't change for anyone. Apparently this person doesn't know the great person you are. How great is she on the phone?
2007-01-23 02:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by crazykid980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pssh, tell her that SHE is boring on the phone. It works both ways.
What do people want nowadays? Are they expecting their image of perfection? -_-
2007-01-23 02:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by Joshua 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
suprise her and put whipped cream all over her when she least expects it
2007-01-31 01:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋